I'm so sorry..it's just so hard isn't it when you have a little hope and then it all goes away again. I really hope things can turn around for you .....could it still be early?
I'm so sorry....this cycle has been a bit all over the board for you. If you did ovulate too early, then the positive is that this cycle is almost done, hopefully your body will be reset and you will be able to go into your next cycle knowing you'll have a nice and mature egg to try and catch. And if you didn't ovulate early, then you are still in for this month and is likely too early to test. I know how hard it is and it must be so frustrating not having a clear answer 
My parents are coming into town today (this will be the second time we've seen them since the lockdowns started). Going to spend the weekend drinking and enjoying the time with them!
Have a great time with your parents@Suggerhoney
@Stargirl1993 if temping is stressful for you, then I would definitely put away the thermometer. but your temp is WAY above cover. You will have dips and rises throughout your luteal phase and that's totally normal. Even on my BFP cycle with my youngest, my temp plummeted to barely over cover, hovered there for a few days and then shot back up. What you don't want to see is a temp fall under your coverline (though I've seen a few pregnancy charts where their implantation dip went just under cover and then had a great rise back and climbed from there). You are definitely not out based on that temp. But do whatever feels the best mentally and emotionally for you
@Deethehippy you are still so early in your cycle that there is lots of time to see a clear positive. I'm sorry that you had some rubbish tests though. It's so cruel when that happens and definitely plays mind games with you. Hopefully you will start to see that line darken in the next couple days and the others will start to register!
@PerthLady91 ugh, im sorry for all the confusing signs!! And I agree! With my oldest, I was so new to all of it that I didn't even realize you could ovulate on different days- i thought it was day 14, that's when you ovulate. It took a couple months for me to figure out how to listen to my body and bam- I got pregnant...I didn't even know early testing was a thing so didn't take a test until 13dpo! ah, the younger more innocent days haha. But really, if it's too stressful for you, I would just delete everything, listen to your bodies signs and don't do all the extra testing/tracking
@FTale I'm sorry that you're having to go the IVF route and that things haven't happened without the intervention. Praying that you have a successful IVF and it brings you a beautiful new little one
@Alligator I'm thinking you're going to ovulate today hun and see a big jump tomorrow. I'm not a temping expert but I'm pretty sure you want to see a rise that goes above your previous temps. I bet that egg is dropping today and you'll see a good rise in the AM. I always ovulate the day after my dip so it's not a hard rule that it has to be on the bottom temp. I would get in one more BD today!!
@PinkCupcakes you are still so early and remember that you want to compare every other day for progression. Was your 11dpt test FMU? Hopefully tomorrow you see the line darkening
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AFM, CD4 today and AF is already gone
I've only seen mine once since lockdown and that was recently but we hope to see them again soon, it's been tough to be apart from family for so long. Have a great weekend.
Yes today’s is FMU. Yesterday’s afternoon was darker than today’s FMU I’m confused@Suggerhoney
@Stargirl1993 if temping is stressful for you, then I would definitely put away the thermometer. but your temp is WAY above cover. You will have dips and rises throughout your luteal phase and that's totally normal. Even on my BFP cycle with my youngest, my temp plummeted to barely over cover, hovered there for a few days and then shot back up. What you don't want to see is a temp fall under your coverline (though I've seen a few pregnancy charts where their implantation dip went just under cover and then had a great rise back and climbed from there). You are definitely not out based on that temp. But do whatever feels the best mentally and emotionally for you
@Deethehippy you are still so early in your cycle that there is lots of time to see a clear positive. I'm sorry that you had some rubbish tests though. It's so cruel when that happens and definitely plays mind games with you. Hopefully you will start to see that line darken in the next couple days and the others will start to register!
@PerthLady91 ugh, im sorry for all the confusing signs!! And I agree! With my oldest, I was so new to all of it that I didn't even realize you could ovulate on different days- i thought it was day 14, that's when you ovulate. It took a couple months for me to figure out how to listen to my body and bam- I got pregnant...I didn't even know early testing was a thing so didn't take a test until 13dpo! ah, the younger more innocent days haha. But really, if it's too stressful for you, I would just delete everything, listen to your bodies signs and don't do all the extra testing/tracking
@FTale I'm sorry that you're having to go the IVF route and that things haven't happened without the intervention. Praying that you have a successful IVF and it brings you a beautiful new little one
@Alligator I'm thinking you're going to ovulate today hun and see a big jump tomorrow. I'm not a temping expert but I'm pretty sure you want to see a rise that goes above your previous temps. I bet that egg is dropping today and you'll see a good rise in the AM. I always ovulate the day after my dip so it's not a hard rule that it has to be on the bottom temp. I would get in one more BD today!!
@PinkCupcakes you are still so early and remember that you want to compare every other day for progression. Was your 11dpt test FMU? Hopefully tomorrow you see the line darkening
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AFM, CD4 today and AF is already gone
I've been seeing this chart floating around in groups recently. Maybe you process HCG differently and FMU isn't best for you?
Oh wow! MAybe that’s why my afternoon/evening tests Have been darker than my FMU ones!
I did IVF with my LO, so I feel for you. I know what that’s like. i will say, I loved knowing that EVERYTHING was right, lining, egg quality, embryo etc.
So sorry @Suggerhoney i Hope next month is ours! My temp has dropped abit just hope it don’t anymorebut I don’t think I’m going to temp anymore for the rest of this cycle. X
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All tests BFN this morning at 10 DPO. Absolutely gutted...yesterday’s line must have been an evap or chemical? Probably evap. I feel so pregnant too..very sore boobs. Why are hormones so cruel?
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