Oh okay, so here it goes.
I belong to a family - where my dad and brother have been mentally and physically abusive to mom, my sister including me. Dad have been physically and mentally abusive all his life but now we have seen a drastic change in him for the last 5 years, thank God. Brother is still abusive - he hits mum, my sister and me to the bits that we either break our nose, get fractured, get bruises or bleed like hell. The conditions here are worse.
He has seen all these crap all his life and he has adopted that. They almost killed me when they found out about my relationship with DH. And DH decided to get me outta here he couldn't take all these shit going on with me and he told me he has decided to get married to me. He called me one day and said I'm picking you up we are going to the court and getting married today. We got married - but things haven't changed.
Brother - keep calling us names - he uses foul language for me and mum. Call us bloody who*es, tell his internet friends his sister's and mother sleep with men and their boyfriends' come to our house to sleep with them. That is so heartbreaking - I never called my DH at home ever because I knew the mentality of these people. I only called a bunch of my friends on my birthday last year including DH and never after that.
My younger sister left this place after going through a lot - he used to beat her up brutaly for being out with her girlfriends. She now lives with Dad - my dad lives in another country because of his job.
He keep on breaking expensive things at home, breaking glasses, dressing table glasses, dishes, aquarium, breaking the walls on the house with a hammer. He even ran after me with a hammer and said I'll kill you - luckily my cousin was there and he pushed him aside he was all over me pulling my hair like a psychotic, and kicking on my face. My face was bleeding my cousin took me to his place for 1 week - I got married 2 days after this incident.
He is now again breaking things, shouting, yelling, abusing and making our lives hell. Mum just woke up listening the noise. I feel @$#%#$^%$$%@^%$^@^
Sorry for the long story.