***Lucky Testers: 32 Testers, 21 BFPs, 9 Angels***

[Sweetmama26]

Teeny I hope this is it for you sweets

 

[ProudArmyWife]

There's always hope until the witch shows tiny!! Fingers crossed for you

Feeling pretty bad this afternoon guess I jinxed myself talking about how good I was feeling

 

[tinymumma]

Sweet, thank you beautiful

Proud, oh no! Sorry lovely xx I hope this is just a wave and it passes quickly

 

[greenarcher]

Tiny, 2 or 3 days is enough to keep AF from coming, so if 7DPO you implanted, I think you're in good shape FX she stays away! When are you planning on testing? Day after late?

 

[tinymumma]

Tiny, 2 or 3 days is enough to keep AF from coming, so if 7DPO you implanted, I think you're in good shape FX she stays away! When are you planning on testing? Day after late?

I really hope so! Although I know deep down, AF will show. I just need the hope to keep me sane, lol.
If she doesn't show up, I don't know what I'll do to be honest I think if she hasn't shown by this time next week, I'll test. For all I know I could have a normal LP this month, lol. Plus I could have O'd later (more likely), so it's really just a guessing game at the moment

 

[Kaiecee]

Choco, I'm so sorry love How dare she come early! She was supposed to stay away! I have everything crossed for you for next cycle xxx

OhH, so sorry FF is giving you grief I think temping vaginally next time might give you a better chart. It is the most accurate way but I think a lot of people prefer oral. I know I do. Remember to not change halfway through your cycles though as that can makes things a little skewy. I personally don't use OPKS because of the fact you can have multipule surges before you even O. As well as surges through the TWW and before AF which gives a lot of ladies false hope. This whole jazz does take a while to get into the swing of things Also sorry to hear about the Fertiltea I've never heard of it but from what Kk has provided, it sounds like it could be the root of the problem. It's unfortunate that the website doesn't inform you of such things (how certain herbs can affect a normal cycle) What a rip xxx The best thing you can do lovely is keep up with the healthy eating, pineapple core is still good and just keep that positivity flowing gorgeous xx You will get your little baby, I promise you xx Don't let the disappointment dull your shine doll You're a diamond and when you shine bright, your little baby will see that and be drawn to you Good luck xx

Kaiecee, good luck for this cycle xx Praying the Clomid works for you this time round xx You said you O already? So does the Clomid Jusy encourage good eggs, or? Just curious Also, no question is a silly question darl xx Knowledge is power and we're all powerful women

Matts, big hugs to you gorgeous girl xxx Time to start fresh and new. New cycle without the worry of the last I have everything so tightly crossed that this cycle will bring you your much deserved rainbow baby xxx

Glong, yay for 3+!! Weeee, I bet that has lifted some of your anxiety xx Much love to you and beanie xx

Green and Les, how're you two lovelies travelling?

Sweet, yay for temp rise!! Come on temps, keep rising! To that potential beanie, do your thing! We're all rooting for you xx

AFM, starting to see that darn hope again D: I know I'm just setting myself up to fail but this cycle I haven't really been liking for any symtpoms to be honest. Yesterday (possibly 7 DPO) I had some strong pinching in my left ovary area. Brushed it off. Then last night I had a dream that I had spotting?! It's very rare for me to dream as it is because of medication I used to take. Woke up this morning to a very full bladder and that left ovary area felt almost like I had a prickle in there? Now that I think of it I felt it quite a lot yesterday. Haven't really noticed much O pains this TWW, unlike all the others. AF is due either tomorrow or the day after. So even if all that was a beanie, my body probably won't register it and it will be flushed away. But no matter, she's not here yet, so I'm still in the game, right?

Much love to all and plenty of

Well I think it gives better eggs because with my 2nd son I not using any protection for a year with my ex and never got pregnant,but did on 1st month of clomid.

 

[lesondemavie]

AF started yesterday for me. Between here and another site, I had 6 cycle buddies and all 6 ended up with BFPs, and on top of that 3 more girls not far behind all with BFPs. I feel like the last one chosen in a game of Red Rover. I've been taking a step back and trying to relax a bit more. Not that I think that will make it happen. It's just what my heart needs right now. I still have a plan for this cycle, but I'm going to cool it more on the bd schedule and the temping. Thankfully the house is a great distraction.

Much love to all and all the best

 

[greenarcher]

So sorry to hear, les

 

[ProudArmyWife]

AF started yesterday for me. Between here and another site, I had 6 cycle buddies and all 6 ended up with BFPs, and on top of that 3 more girls not far behind all with BFPs. I feel like the last one chosen in a game of Red Rover. I've been taking a step back and trying to relax a bit more. Not that I think that will make it happen. It's just what my heart needs right now. I still have a plan for this cycle, but I'm going to cool it more on the bd schedule and the temping. Thankfully the house is a great distraction.

Much love to all and all the best

 

[tinymumma]

Les, biggest of sweetheart xx Do what is right for you beautiful xx You will get there Sending you lots of love xx

Kaiecee, I've heard that too. Some people have told me to ask my doctor about it but since I'm bfing, pretty sure it's out of the question for me. I'm 99.99% sure though, it's not my eggs that are the problems, rather just ow progesterone from bfing. Good luck to you gorgeous xx I hope the meds don't give you any yuckky side effects xx

AFM, AF is due from today onwards. Woke up with that odd feeling in my left side again. But also feeling very strange down there. I have a feeling the will make her appearance today. She usually arrives first thing in the morning and hasn't yet but I'm not doubting her arrival yet. I don't get any clear signs (cramps and such) until she is already flowing. Still haven't been able to speak to hubby about the baby making situation yet. Kind of frustrated with him at the moment. He seems to have misplaced his phone and instead of coming home yesterday, went to the BIL's to try and get their bosses number and couldn't, so drove to where he thought they were working (good on him). No one was on that site, so he left and ended up driving past a pub that had poker on. Of course he played and he won. He seems to think it is all ok because the prize was a $1'500 ticket to a poker game on the coast with a million dollar prize pool. Not very impressed.
It just frustrates me that a man who is almost 30 is so darn irresponsible. I hate being the grown up all the time. Sick of him constantly saying he needs a break when he can go out to the pub and do whatever he wants, while I can rarely ever do anything. He is always saying if I stopped bfing Leo, then I could do whatever I want. He just doesn't understand. Grrrr.
Yup, AF is definitely on her way, lol. Very emotional at the moment. Just feel like I don't even want to control my hurt, angry, resentment at the moment. I'm sick of having to be the one that's always positive and cool, calm and collected, when he's always negative and cranky. I'm sick of him constantly saying no one cares about him, no one gives him a break, no one helps him, when all of his issues are his own to fix. He is always so negative and full of bad emotions because he's waiting for someone to fix his years of irresponsibility and stuff ups, when he is the only one who can change them!!
Rant over Sorry ladies xx

How is everyone today? Has anyone heard or seen Kitty lately? I wonder how she's going.

How're our new mamas going?

Lots of love and heart hugs to all xxx

 

[greenarcher]

Are you sure you're not married to my husband?

Talk to him again. I find every time my husband and I talk (I'm usually in tears), we're an amazing team for the next few weeks. I have a really hard time vocalizing my issues, so try to think of what to discuss in advance. The hardest part is staying rational. We'll be talking and I'll be crying, but I'll acknowledge when he makes a good point, and he doesn't try to down play my complaints. You can't let yourself get frustrated. It's hard, I know, but keep trying.

 

[tinymumma]

Are you sure you're not married to my husband?

Talk to him again. I find every time my husband and I talk (I'm usually in tears), we're an amazing team for the next few weeks. I have a really hard time vocalizing my issues, so try to think of what to discuss in advance. The hardest part is staying rational. We'll be talking and I'll be crying, but I'll acknowledge when he makes a good point, and he doesn't try to down play my complaints. You can't let yourself get frustrated. It's hard, I know, but keep trying.

So it's not just mine then? I guess that whole men mature later than women thing, had some truth to it

I'm going to talk to him tonight. I'm not going to let myself back out of it. There's no point in me sitting here being all sad and sorry for myself when I can just open my mouth.
I also have issues with expressing how I feel. Because of my ABI, I find it really difficult to relay what is going on in my brain. It usually comes out totally wrong and nothing like what I wanted to say at all. I need to pause a lot and that tends to frustrate DH. Patience and understanding really isn't one of his strong points 🙄
There are a few other things that I want to speak to him about as well but obviously baby making is at the top of the list.

How're you feeling lovely?

 

[ProudArmyWife]

Tiny sorry DH is acting like that! Mine can be immature sometimes too but like green we usually hash it out and then we are good for a while. Def do t back down though. It's good to express yourself and be heard. I hope it goes well and he is receptive

 

[tinymumma]

Tiny sorry DH is acting like that! Mine can be immature sometimes too but like green we usually hash it out and then we are good for a while. Def do t back down though. It's good to express yourself and be heard. I hope it goes well and he is receptive

Thank you lovely xx I don't have very high hopes for a good conversation. He's very, I'm right, no one can change my mind, get cross because you're not saying I'm right, kind of person. It makes things a little difficult. I hate that I'm so understanding of why he is the way he is. It's like because I've spent so much time forgiving him and making excuses for him, he just goes with it and does and says whatever he wants and expects me to just "understand" like always but leaves me still unheard and upset.
I really hope he's receptive tonight. Otherwise I think I might explode, lol

 

[greenarcher]

I hope so too. Relationships require compromise, and if he won't work with you, then he's going to be hard to live with

 

[Sweetmama26]

Tiny - how did your conversation go? Sorry your DH is being a butthead

AFM: I'm fatigued and I got my cross hairs today, have experienced heartburn now for a couple of days ugh

 

[glong88]

Had scan today.

Saw sac and you but no baby . Said I was between 5 and 5 and half weeks which is where I put myself.

Back in 2 weeks to hopefully find baby

 

[ProudArmyWife]

How did the talk go tiny?

Sweet hope this is your month darling!

afm currently feeling as though someone has used my boobs as punching bags nausea is hit or miss but generally takes place in the afternoon and still soooo exhausted all the time! I go for my intake appt in a week and will schedule my first midwife appt and most I'm hoping I'll get to schedule ultrasound that day as well. I know I still have a ways to go until I get the ultrasound but it'll be nice to have a date to count down to

 

[greenarcher]

Great news from our two mommies! Hope everything went well, tiny!

Yay for CH, sweet!

3 DPO here, twiddling thumbs

 

[Mattsgirl]

Thats great news glong. Hope the next 2 weeks goes quickly so you can see the little flickering heartbeat next ultrasound.
A date to look forward to is always nice, proud. Having a goal helps me not go crazy!!

Afm just waiting for af to leave. Will start opks on cd 13, even though I know it won't be positive until between cd17 and 19.