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[Serene123]

I literally had to pounce on Rich and practically rape him last night. Nothing to do with TTC, just wanted it and he was tired

Is it stupid to feel like any time I'm in the mood I must be fertile. Like a cat?

 

[Emma051980]

Thanks Raisin, i'm really really hoping i get some tonight....he's very headstrong and if he doesn't want to do something then we won't, end of!! He knows how it all works so he knows well that there's certain days when we have to dtd! The whole actually proper trying for a baby was his idea!!
And yeah i'm worried too that it's turning into a chore

OH and I went through a stage like that and with us doing SMEP this month I'm worried it'll be the same. Hope you get some tonight

Thanks hon, i love this forum
Just needed to get it off my chest. It's upsetting though, if you miss the window it's a whole month before you can try again and that's just waaaaaay to long for me!!

 

[Emma051980]

I literally had to pounce on Rich and practically rape him last night. Nothing to do with TTC, just wanted it and he was tired

Is it stupid to feel like any time I'm in the mood I must be fertile. Like a cat?

haha, love it! i never actually do be in the mood at the right time of the month, i just know that i have to do it if i want to be in with a chance!!! when i ov, i get pretty sore, on the same scale as af pains so i actually just want to curl up and feel sorry for myself!!

 

[sequeena]

Thanks Raisin, i'm really really hoping i get some tonight....he's very headstrong and if he doesn't want to do something then we won't, end of!! He knows how it all works so he knows well that there's certain days when we have to dtd! The whole actually proper trying for a baby was his idea!!
And yeah i'm worried too that it's turning into a chore

OH and I went through a stage like that and with us doing SMEP this month I'm worried it'll be the same. Hope you get some tonight

Thanks hon, i love this forum
Just needed to get it off my chest. It's upsetting though, if you miss the window it's a whole month before you can try again and that's just waaaaaay to long for me!!

It drives you bonkers knowing you've missed out

 

[raisin]

It's so frustrating if you miss your window and then you have to wait like you say another month...cant you strap him down and use and abuse him just to get the goods?

I am just worried that my DH isn't enjoying it anymore....He keeps asking me each day if he is "on duty" or not!

Anyone have any ideas on how to make SMEP seem more spontanious?

 

[Emma051980]

wish i could but he's so stubborn!!!! anyways, off to bed now so everybody say a prayer that i actually get some tonight!!!!

 

[WifeyS]

Good luck everyone!

I'm sooo not sure what's going on with me this month, I keep getting really strong but not quite pos opks and then the next day really weak faint lines! I'm so confused!

Has this happened to anyone else b4?

Thanks x

 

[sequeena]

Sorry raisin SMEP is going to be quite regimented for me and OH... he works nights so we only have a certain time frame each day to bd. No spontaneity here I'm afraid!

 

[carleeriver]

I hope the first is lucky for ya 4magpies!!!! I am TTC #2 - this is my first 2WW! I always wait WAY LONG to test so I've set the date for October 24th if AF doesn't show!

Baby dust to us all!!!!!!

 

[mamalove]

hey girls x

my opks havent arrived but i've had ewcm wth tiny spotting and i'm only on cd10?!whats all that about?!

my cycles are usually 28 days.

good luck everyone x

 

[milosmum]

It's so frustrating if you miss your window and then you have to wait like you say another month...cant you strap him down and use and abuse him just to get the goods?

I am just worried that my DH isn't enjoying it anymore....He keeps asking me each day if he is "on duty" or not!

Anyone have any ideas on how to make SMEP seem more spontanious?

Hey raisin - its the rigidity of the SMEP which puts me off it a bit and I know it would put OH completely off which is why he doesn't know we are on a 'plan' I think he just thinks I am particularly randy this last week!!! However I have fallen off the SMEP today cause I had t go to a training meeting after work which has just finished I am now eating my tea at 11pm and off to join my fast asleep OH (and our dog!!!) in bed - no BDing today. Aslo I forgot to use an OPK today cause I thought you were supposed to use them in the middle of the day not FMU so I can't really pee on a stick and stare at it for 10 mins during work!
When does everyone else use their OPKs???
Hope everyone else is doing well on the SMEP xxx

 

[Emma051980]

woo hoo i got some last night
BUT i still haven't got my peak on the cbfm
I got it on cd13 last month, i'm on cd14 today and only got a high. Quite disappointed and worried im not going to ov this month

 

[Carreg]

Wooooooo got my temp rise this morning! Very relieved that I am not defective this month!! And we BD's yesterday morning too so I am hoping I have a good chance this month!

Glad to hear everyone who is doing SMEP is finding it ok..I was put off by the rigidity too, OH would have a fit if I told him he HAD to perform on certain nights, it'd make him feel like a machine who had to perform on command and that's not how I want it to be..sometimes he might not fancy it or I might not fancy it and I don't want to make him feel guilty for that or like he's letting me down which is why I prefer NTNP as we can just relax and take it as it comes. Doesn't stop me panicking if I think I'm not Ov'ing or going crazy through the 2WW at all but I just want less routine and rigidity and more doing it becaue we want to and not just to make a baby.

xxx

 

[Serene123]

I literally had to pounce on Rich and practically rape him last night. Nothing to do with TTC, just wanted it and he was tired

Is it stupid to feel like any time I'm in the mood I must be fertile. Like a cat?

haha, love it! i never actually do be in the mood at the right time of the month, i just know that i have to do it if i want to be in with a chance!!! when i ov, i get pretty sore, on the same scale as af pains so i actually just want to curl up and feel sorry for myself!!

I'm in more pain when I O than around AF but sex helps with the pain!


You'll be happy to know my specialist said it's nothing to do with fertility

 

[WifeyS]

Hay girls,

I have no idea whats going on with me, been having strange opks, not had a pos yet just very strng negs if you know what I mean, yet today Ive done one this morning (I always do about 3 per day around ov) and this mornings one is totally neg - not even a glimmer of a line!

Im thinking of buying a fertitlity monitor and to start temping next month - whats the best monitor to use and can somone please tell me a bit about temping - I have no idea at all what I need to do?

Thanks so much ladies.

Oh and as for SMEP, no I havent been sticking to it - found it all a bit strange demanding sex! Like a few of you, I prefer to keep it natural! My OH knows that as soon as I get a POS POK we do it 2 or three days in a row and I think that about as demanding as id like to be. We dtd on Fri and Mon, and will prob go again today at some point and then see what happens with the POKs x

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Good luck everyone!

I'm sooo not sure what's going on with me this month, I keep getting really strong but not quite pos opks and then the next day really weak faint lines! I'm so confused!

Has this happened to anyone else b4?

Thanks x

Hi Wifey, I had the same this month. I ended up taking the strongest line and putting it on my chart as a positive. Think what happened was the I surged in between the two strong tests, cause I had a temp rise at when that would have been. If you click my ticker you can see what I mean x

 

[WifeyS]

Hi Tinkerbell, Thanks so much.

I just tried to join fertility friend and it wont let me. It says if I have a friend who has an account they can recommend me! Does anyone fancy helping me out?

 

[Carreg]

I'll help you out on FF Wifey...send me your details or however it works?

xxx

 

[Carreg]

Think I just need your email address if you want to ping it to me on PM

xxx

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Hi Tinkerbell, Thanks so much.

I just tried to join fertility friend and it wont let me. It says if I have a friend who has an account they can recommend me! Does anyone fancy helping me out?

It gives you one month premium membership free so don't know if you want to wait till your next cycle...if there is a next cycle for you! PMA. The premium analyses your chart for you. Did you get some BD in around the time of your nearly positive OPKs? x