October Hopes - Testing thread. 128 Testers! 25 BFPs!!!

[lauren1979]

Totally in the same boat of feeling defeated. Bfn today with frer and fmu, 11dpo. I've always showed pos by now, so just waiting for AF. I have an appt tomm with my obgyn. Can anyone explain what i should ask about for first ever visit regarding this?i honestly don't think it is my infertility that is the issue. Ive been pregnant many times. First time. I don't know how to take first step in regards to my fiance. Any help would be appreciated!!!

 

[hopefulfor1st]

Totally in the same boat of feeling defeated. Bfn today with frer and fmu, 11dpo. I've always showed pos by now, so just waiting for AF. I have an appt tomm with my obgyn. Can anyone explain what i should ask about for first ever visit regarding this?i honestly don't think it is my infertility that is the issue. Ive been pregnant many times. First time. I don't know how to take first step in regards to my fiance. Any help would be appreciated!!!

So this is a new relationship I'm assuming? Is your fiancé going? One of the first things you'll be asked is number of children and pregnancies so the doctor SHOULD deduct that your not a problem, that way you don't have to feel like your saying its your ohs fault.

 

[Navyvet98]

Dsem.... Here is this mornings without any lights shining on it.... Even my husband says he can clearly see it. Still, very early so trying not to get ahead of myself!

If my cycle is as it was last month I will be due on tomorrow or weds, if not, then I still have 5 days before AF is due.

Congrats!!!

I got so excited I tested this morning and BFN...AF is due tomorrow I feel no sypthoms I am getting discouraged

 

[lauren1979]

Totally in the same boat of feeling defeated. Bfn today with frer and fmu, 11dpo. I've always showed pos by now, so just waiting for AF. I have an appt tomm with my obgyn. Can anyone explain what i should ask about for first ever visit regarding this?i honestly don't think it is my infertility that is the issue. Ive been pregnant many times. First time. I don't know how to take first step in regards to my fiance. Any help would be appreciated!!!

So this is a new relationship I'm assuming? Is your fiancé going? One of the first things you'll be asked is number of children and pregnancies so the doctor SHOULD deduct that your not a problem, that way you don't have to feel like your saying its your ohs fault.

We have been together for 3 years. I got my mirena iud out in April and have actively been ttc for four months. My ob knows my pregnancies. I have had four daughters, including twins, that were all very easily conceived naturally. I am so thankful for that. My OH and i desperately want to conceive a child together. I have ovulated every month with no bfp. He has been married before, and they tried to conceive with no luck. He has never gotten anyone pregnant. I feel in my heart that it is sperm related, he does too. We don't have financial opp right opp now tospend a lot on treatment but I'm sure he would be willing to go for a sperm analysis. Do they do this at my dr?how much is that?im just so frustrated. I know so many of you understand.

 

[agledhill]

hello, congrats to the BFPs already! I can hopefully test on Saturday Lots of dust to everyone x

 

[deafgal01]

Lauren- usually the urologist would handle the sa. The fertility specialist office might too. That was the first thing they checked when we struggled to get preg- dh's sa.

 

[lauren1979]

Lauren- usually the urologist would handle the sa. The fertility specialist office might too. That was the first thing they checked when we struggled to get preg- dh's sa.

Thank you!so would insurances cover S/A through urologists usually?if not, any idea about costs?

 

[deafgal01]

It depends on the insurance. Mine does cover tests (for diagnosis) but not treatment like IUI or ivf.

 

[ashleighhh]

So I caved and tested today with a dollar store test and thought I saw a very very faint line after 1 min but likely wishful thinking lol so no more tests till the 3rd when AF is supposed to arrive. I have no patience ever haha. Today's a nice cool overcast day so I'm heading off for a nice long walk have a nice day ladies

 

[friskyfish]

Dsem.... Here is this mornings without any lights shining on it.... Even my husband says he can clearly see it. Still, very early so trying not to get ahead of myself!

If my cycle is as it was last month I will be due on tomorrow or weds, if not, then I still have 5 days before AF is due.

Congrats!!!

I got so excited I tested this morning and BFN...AF is due tomorrow I feel no sypthoms I am getting discouraged

I'm the same navyvet...af due tomorrow, I've no symptoms..the only thing different this month is the constant bubbly/fluttery feeling in my lower abdomen. My boobs are killing today, that's normal for me just before af. I think if I was pregnant, it would show on a test by now...and I got a bfn this morning

 

[DSemcho]

Blehh... This week seems to be taking forever to end! I want to be in my two week wait already!!!! >_<

 

[Cjohnson13]

Lol then the tww isn't any better, I did call my re and they moved my beta test to Wednesday instead of Monday because I'm getting super dark lines on the test and I'm 15-16 dp trigger

 

[DSemcho]

Lol then the tww isn't any better, I did call my re and they moved my beta test to Wednesday instead of Monday because I'm getting super dark lines on the test and I'm 15-16 dp trigger

I've never done anything like that. Dark lines on OPKs or HPTs? And what does the trigger do/is it for?

 

[lmbhj]

Please switch me from OCT1st to OCT 28th please. I started in Sept so im not OUT for oct yet!

 

[Cjohnson13]

Hpt and a trigger puts hcg in your system so sometimes it can read a false positive

 

[Lynsey82]

I'm now really confused. I've had 2 tests with distinct lines on, but just done another which had nothing at all! I think the 2 "positives" must have been evaps

 

[Rozzer]

Lynsey - can you post pics?

AFm - Eep, I had another temp rise. It's sooo high, I'd panic if ds had this temp.
I feel warm but not really hot and had another unsettled night. Dh came to bed at 2:30am, woke me up and started chatting then I couldn't get back to sleep. Grr!

I took some of my blankets off in the middle of the night too.

Still trying to be calm but have a liiiiiittle bit of excitement creeping in...

 

[DSemcho]

Do you normally get positives this many days after trigger??

And Lynsey I agree post a pic

 

[Lynsey82]

Lynsey - can you post pics?

AFm - Eep, I had another temp rise. It's sooo high, I'd panic if ds had this temp.
I feel warm but not really hot and had another unsettled night. Dh came to bed at 2:30am, woke me up and started chatting then I couldn't get back to sleep. Grr!

I took some of my blankets off in the middle of the night too.

Still trying to be calm but have a liiiiiittle bit of excitement creeping in...

There's nothing to see on the negative one from tonight. This was the one with the line from this morning though....

 

[Cjohnson13]

I see a 2nd line!!