Thanks everyone- I know people kept saying just try not to think about ttc but I guess it really does work Don't know how I managed not to ask about the sex but now I'm analysing what the woman said. Driving DH crazy by asking 'did you hear her say 'h'es got a lovely heartbeat'?' Oh well, plenty more weeks to ponder. It's really saving me loads of money cos I can't buy pink and I can't buy blue ....... maybe I'll just buy both