Rainbow Makers - WTTAL, NTNPAL, TTCAL & PAL friends

[kelzyboo]

I know Hann thats why i thought it was funny to say he'd deliver me early and then be vague about elective section, i know they can't induce so hows he planning on doing it? Providing all was well i'd love a VBAC, i never really 'wanted' to end up with a section but i'm scared of the risks and it would involve a co-operative baby that wants to arrive before his due date (Abbie arrived by herself the day before hers!), although i'm not sure i'm happy to be allowed to go the full 40 weeks, i'll want it over asap iykwim?

Anyway off to ready myself for the weekend lol i'll have loads to catch up on when i get back but i will do my best!!

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend, see you all sunday night xxx

 

[SassyLou]

On phone so will catch up later. (sat in car waiting for school to start, don't want to go in and do some prep this am).
Worked for George's school yesterday (have done for over 2 years on a monday afternoon and Thursday). Anyway one the teaching assistants is pregnant and was due two weeks after Archie was due. Well she had her baby Wednesday night. I'm sat at piano sorting some stuff yesterday morning and I can hear one teacher excitedly shouting to another that Rachels had her baby! Managed to ignore that, then went into staff room at break and there was a big sign announcing the birth, then thats all they talked about all break. Now don't get me wrong I'm pleased she's had a healthy baby, but I really didn't need it shoving in my face especially this week. I know it wasn't intentional, they just didn't think. On top of that I only worked till 11.30 rather than all day (they all knew I was finishing early) why didn't they start their celebrations at lunch time? If it had been me I'd have quietly told me she'd had baby and then celebrated from lunch time onwards! I'm not working till wednesday for them so its not like they don't have plenty of time to celebrate. I got home and cried so much!
Sorry for rant will catch up with everyone when i can get on PC!
Hope everyone has a good day xxx

 

[Tasha]

Morning Hannah and Kelly.

Kelly have a fab time, you deserve it.

Are you sure that that is your hospital policy, cos it does vary from hospital to hospital, ours will induce using half of the thing for your cervix at a time so as to not risk uterine rupture, but wont use the drip etc. Yours might be the same But as I said they cant force you into a VBAC

Have a nice time at the wedding Hannah. We are staying in a hotel tonight and tomorrow, and my oldest two monkey's are being mascots for Portsmouth tomorrow at the game V Chelsea Oh and the Next sale tomorrow in the morning

 

[Tasha]

Sarah massive hugs. It was really insensitive of them and so sorry hun

 

[Mellybelle]

Oh Sassy That was really insensitive of them. I wish people could just know what will hurt us. They would know if they took the time to think.

 

[Jox]

:wave: hi all!!

Well thats me off for 2 days now!! thank god!!

Sass - im sorry the were so insensitive

Kelly - regarding vbac... When i saw my consultant about the care plan for my next he mentioned induction at 38 weeks and I said coz Leo was a section would I have the choice of a elective section and he said yes, crossed out induction on the notes and wrote section!! For me if i went into labour then i think id like to try a vbac but if its induced then i think its section all the way, i just cant take the added worry he plans to deliever at 38 but Kasper died at 35/36 and Leo born at 34 so i cant see me getting past say 35 anyway without baby being delivered!! How do you feel about wtt till Nov?? Just so you know tho, an angel mummy on BnB (sugarkisses) had a section end of feb last year then another in Nov so only 8 months between them (babies born at 24 & 27 weeks tho). What Im trying to say (not encouraging tho ) is that if you dont want to wait till Nov then you dont have too

How is everyone?

MM - good to hear your feeling all better down stairs!! Ive never had thrush but can imagine how horrible it is!!

Like i say off work for a few days now so might get some in. Think im gonna ring the clinic to book and appointment

lots of love ladies x

 

[Jox]

oh and Tasha, congrats on 10,000 and BnB Elite!!! im only 3269 behind you!! ive got 10 months till ive been here 3 years tho so hopefully reach 10,00 by then!! thats my mission!! (as well and making a new baby ) xxx

 

[SarahJane]

Hi all

Sorry for being AWOL for ages but still in pension study hell! Will catch up properly at some point but just nipped in to say hello and see how people are.

Sass - big hugs, just seen FB so sounds like the last few days have been awful. Here if you need me xx

Tash - congrats on Elite - I have been on here just over 12 months so my record is RUBBISH by comparison!

Jo - YAY re implant

Kayleigh YAY re thrush and kitten but *sadface* re sty - incidentally, I got some really odd things (coldsores, warts on hands etc) when I was pregnant... Could it be a very early sign??

Melly - when's the next scan?

Loads of love to all and babydust to all the TTCers

Kelz, I am sure they will do whatever feels right for you in the next pregnancy, after what you have been through it is the least they should do

Hann - have a fab time at the wedding and enjoy the alcohol as next month you won't be able to drink!!!

AFM - job got sorted! (long story and will share another time when it's actually official)
Also - incredibly positive about a BFP this month, no idea where it has come from but just have a "feeling" that this month could be lucky. Think it may be the due date thing being Evelyn's birthday. Either way, I just have a great feeling.

 

[Jox]

SJ - for the positive feelings for BFP this month!! am so excited to here that Evelyns brother or sister could already be growing in your tummy!! x

Had the inlaws round tonight. THeyve been helping us do our garden so weve had them round for a chinese which has actually been better than expected!! Leo went off to bed perfectly at half 7 and how im drinking some home made wine (by the in laws... alchoholics ) and feeling rather tipsy!! Im either gonna just fall asleep or OH will end up getting some

So where is everyone?? let me guess, im finally off work and here to chat and youve all disappeared... this is proper bullying

xxx

 

[SarahJane]

lol @ bullying - must be the 2 of us!

 

[Jox]

its not nice that no one wants to talk to us SJ!!

we might as well start spamming while they arent here!!

xxx

 

[Mellybelle]

SJ - Glad to hear you are feeling so positive about this month. When is poas day?

My next scan is my NT scan. i think its on the 5th August....cant remember. must check. Just praying I make it that far ( and beyond!...FAR beyond.)

i've started taking aspirin (75mg) daily. Although my tests showed no clotting disorders, or anything else, I have decided that I lost my babies through bloood clots in the cord or placenta. It might just be a pregnancy thing for me. Pregnancy in itself can cause blood clots and there is a hell of a lot more blood pumping around than normal. So i've started the aspirin and willtry to talk to my gp about it during the week. I dont get to see a midwife until 12 weeks, then I dont get to see the obgyn until after that. My GP, is just a GP and wont know about pregnancy stuff. I'm sure he;ll recommend me NOT taking the aspirin, but I feel like I've got to do something different.

 

[SarahJane]

Melly - take the asprin and wait until you see a proper pregnancy specialist -It can't hurt and you are absolutely right that it will stop clotting to some extent. My consultant told me that as long as you don't take over 80mg a day then asprin can do no harm at all. I am taking it now to ensure that I have it in my system properly from the minute I get my BFP.

I would go as far as to say, if the GP says not to take it, ignore them! This is your baby and there have been massive studies which prove that asprin can prevent losses.

Hun, this baby is sticking around until EDD!! Looking forward to seeing your next scan pic xxx

 

[SarahJane]

Blinkin heck - has everyone left the planet?

I am having "symptoms"!!!

I have sore bbs, I have twinges in my tummy, I am getting more and more convinced that this could be my month... YAY! (only 10 days until I will know... haha)

PS Kayleigh - thankyou for my new pants! They are very nice x

 

[SarahJane]

PS Melly "official" POAS day is 10 days time, unofficial day will be a lot sooner! (I am trying to hold out until Fri/Sat at earliest)

 

[Jox]

is everyone ok??

SJ - yay for good symptons!!

hope everyone isnt too busy!! I swear youve all done a runner coz you know im off work and around

lots of love x

 

[Mellybelle]

Sorry youre being bullied Jo. I hear that goes on a lot around here

SJ - Fri or Sat??? Thats forever away. Cant the unofficial poas day be moved to Monday?

 

[Jox]

next week is a long time to wait SJ!! when if AF actually due??

xx

 

[mummymarsh]

hey girls....

i agree melly take them till you see MW......

sj glad you like, does it all fit ok???? and sounds promising for you im due any ime after Friday so 10 days for me too yippee... but i wont be testing till way after that lol......

not read back yet, but whats been happening...

 

[mummymarsh]

jo how are you?? how has work been etc.... saw ya post on the facebook gorpu about the implant xxxxxxxxxx