mhankins - I was definitely all of those things before my first one, too. I think you just have to experience it and handle it how you'll handle it. You can read on here a million times to not symptom spot or test early, etc. but you really just have to get through it in your own way.
mirandala - my RE told me that the difference in success rates with one insemination vs. two was so minimal that they do not even do back-to-back iui's. But if you are doing at-home and don't have the full monitoring (hence no costs incurred for office visits, etc.) it may not be a bad idea to do 2. Do you have a midwife do the IUI?
amigone - I love, love, love your imagery! Ha ha ha! It's perfect. Mine should be dancing right about now I think.
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And yes, I hate waiting, too. It seriously feels like time slows down during this whole process.
afm - I had my IUI this morning. I had 19 mil post wash which was better than last month (15 mil)! It made me a little uneasy that the doctor had trouble getting the catheter into my uterus, kept having to adjust the speculum, so then I was all worried that something wasn't right! But I've actually been much more relaxed and calm overall this time around. I'm glad because that's my goal: to stay that way! Last IUI I was extremely bloated and crampy, today I've had zero side effects, outside of what feels like ovulation pains. Strange...