Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

Mary, I am hoping today is my fallback rise since it's a small dip rather than a large one. It looks like my normal 2-3 dpo dip. FX it is so I can move on to the next cycle in less than 2 weeks!!
 
Are you going to try to bd today mdscpa? Might not hurt to do so if DH is up for it!!!'

DH feels like he released everything today for the sample but i know he'll make a move tonight. Lol.... He was so crazy during the 4 days wait and can't wait any longer i just stop him every time and remind him that he's having a SA... I just feel sorry for him he needs to wait that long hahahahha.
 
Mary, I am hoping today is my fallback rise since it's a small dip rather than a large one. It looks like my normal 2-3 dpo dip. FX it is so I can move on to the next cycle in less than 2 weeks!!

that's what I'm hoping it is too! :-) you read my mind! Lol plus you bd'ed just in time if this is the case! FX!!
 
Are you going to try to bd today mdscpa? Might not hurt to do so if DH is up for it!!!'

DH feels like he released everything today for the sample but i know he'll make a move tonight. Lol.... He was so crazy during the 4 days wait and can't wait any longer i just stop him every time and remind him that he's having a SA... I just feel sorry for him he needs to wait that long hahahahha.

lol u crack me up. Tell him its YOUR turn! That way if u didn't O, u could still catch it! :-D and I know, I cant believe I write the novels I do from my phone haha. I seem to be able to type just as fast from my phone as a computer but there's other things I cant do from my phone or would just be MUCH easier on a computer, especially if id be analyzing peoples charts and all that comes along with charting apps. With everything going on with my brother, I haven't even checked it out yet and I really need to. I'm making it a priority for this week to at least find out the details. I just haven't wanted to commit myself to anything I couldn't do at the time I originally was asked but things are a little less crazy, despite everything that's still going on. I want a job and can't just wait forever so I better get on.it! ...see another book lol
 
Are you going to try to bd today mdscpa? Might not hurt to do so if DH is up for it!!!'

DH feels like he released everything today for the sample but i know he'll make a move tonight. Lol.... He was so crazy during the 4 days wait and can't wait any longer i just stop him every time and remind him that he's having a SA... I just feel sorry for him he needs to wait that long hahahahha.

lol u crack me up. Tell him its YOUR turn! That way if u didn't O, u could still catch it! :-D and I know, I cant believe I write the novels I do from my phone haha. I seem to be able to type just as fast from my phone as a computer but there's other things I cant do from my phone or would just be MUCH easier on a computer, especially if id be analyzing peoples charts and all that comes along with charting apps. With everything going on with my brother, I haven't even checked it out yet and I really need to. I'm making it a priority for this week to at least find out the details. I just haven't wanted to commit myself to anything I couldn't do at the time I originally was asked but things are a little less crazy, despite everything that's still going on. I want a job and can't just wait forever so I better get on.it! ...see another book lol

Hahahahhaha.... Yeah, another book but i like it. Hope everything will be okay with your brother and the job you wanted. FX'd as well for that.


Grrrr, i updated another chart just putting today's temp and suddenly it gave me CHs (dotted though).... we'll see what FF will say tomorrow.

https://ovufriend.com/graph/0038b227e30fceee1e26bf77b0711f59
 
mds- good luck, hope it goes well on Friday :)

Kenna- yay I think with the positive OPK and higher temps now, you must be 2 dpo! Woohoo!!

AFM- I drank a nice glass of wine last night which evened out my brain a little. I'm just so overly emotional and wishing for a different situation. I told DH even if I got a different job NOT flute-related, it would be better on me emotionally because I wouldn't go to work expecting to be musically fulfilled. You can't separate music and emotion just because it's a job- If music is part of the job, you expect to feel fulfilled. It's the nature of music. Well my job is music without real expression or challenge- it's "notes on a page", not music. It's just blah. Which kills one's spirit. Well, I need to get on with my day, more BS to do at work. I'll be praying over this one, definitely.

I really hope you can find something you to do that allows you to do what you love!!! I know how it feels to be in that situation and it makes you miserable. :(
 
DH won't get a SA, I wish he would but he thinks it will ruin his manhood if it comes out bad. Sigh....
 
DH won't get a SA, I wish he would but he thinks it will ruin his manhood if it comes out bad. Sigh....

So sorry for that hun.. DH was like that too, but then he changed his mind when we couldn't conceive after few cycles. It was like he feels like maybe something is wrong with him and he doesn't want to know to confirm it, but at least after discussing with the doc who recommended he gets tested first before concentrating on me, he finally agreed... Hopefully we get good results or if not they could do something about it. And hopefully fertilaid helped him since he was taking it for more than two months now.
 
I had a laparoscopy done and stuff and DH still hasn't been tested. But clearly I do have problems ovulating on my own so I can't really think it's not me lol
 
I had a laparoscopy done and stuff and DH still hasn't been tested. But clearly I do have problems ovulating on my own so I can't really think it's not me lol

Hopefully he'll change his mind after few cycles but i wish you won't have to wait for that and get your BFP, so he can save his manhood, lol. I was also diagnose of not ovulating on my own 2 years back and my other doc prescribed me with clomid for 3 mos before my husband's vacation and i immediate have good respond to that medicine. Started producing eggs on my left side and in those months im on it i released two eggs but of course no husband, no bd, no fertilization (twinning is in my family)... Hopefully this new doc will recommend clomid for me as well.. I just can't wait DH's result.
 
Clomid gave me the most beautiful chart last month! I O'ed on cd16 I think and had a 14 LP. Nice and high post O temps...this cycle is just Arghhhhhh. Haha :) hopefully we will both get answers. How long have you been trying? We are about to hit 4 years :(
 
Clomid gave me the most beautiful chart last month! I O'ed on cd16 I think and had a 14 LP. Nice and high post O temps...this cycle is just Arghhhhhh. Haha :) hopefully we will both get answers. How long have you been trying? We are about to hit 4 years :(

Edit: I see your sig says 8 cycles, sorry lol
 
Clomid gave me the most beautiful chart last month! I O'ed on cd16 I think and had a 14 LP. Nice and high post O temps...this cycle is just Arghhhhhh. Haha :) hopefully we will both get answers. How long have you been trying? We are about to hit 4 years :(

Edit: I see your sig says 8 cycles, sorry lol

8 cycles continues. Before that NTNP. We lived together before marriage for like 6 mos. 6 days after marriage DH has to leave and work abroad that was 2010. He had his vacation for a month in 2012 year i had clomid before he came and i o'ed 2days before he arrived based on my tests and did not fertilized them (2 eggs were seen on ultrasound). Then last year when we finally got together again after getting a job here also. That's when we really started TTC... So we were trying for more than a year now (6 mos prior marriage and 8 months this time).
 
Oh ok, I see! Well FX that you will get your BFP now that you are together more and can try harder!!!
 
What a sucky day! Have had to restrain the same student twice (not supposed to do any restraining)
 
Kenna- Well, given that you've had a pregnancy before, let's just hope DH's sperm IS fine... I would be a little ticked off personally, if my DH wouldn't get a SA especially after having to go through a laparoscopy, but it is a delicate subject for them sometimes. I think my DH has confidence in his spermies because they have worked before- just not on me :( (worst thing for me to keep remembering... his gf a few years before meeting me, had an abortion... breaks my heart that he went through that)

I got bloods drawn today, I think like a regular workup plus thyroid and prolactin, at least that's all the lab guy told me, but definitely not FSH, which kinda made me mad because why not just throw that in there while they're doing it? I think since I'm seeing an OBGYN and not an RE, he only halfway knows what to do. In fact, at the recommendation of you Jess, I was the one who had to even request the blood test in the first place. Well, tomorrow morning is my ultrasound and I'm looking forward to it but I'm also nervous because my period has been so heavy and I'll definitely still be on it tomorrow. I guess they see that often but....ew. I did call and made sure it was okay. Have any of you had an internal sonogram while on AF?

Btw I am feeling better about my job today. Had a long talk with my rater (person who kinda keeps track of everything I do) and he reeeeeally helped me. I think with him on my side, I'll come up with a way to enjoy my job. I want to enjoy it, it's so worth it, but I just really don't want to sacrifice my happiness for money. I think it's possible to have both.
 
What a sucky day! Have had to restrain the same student twice (not supposed to do any restraining)

Ugh that sounds like a horrible day :( I hope you didn't swell up or hurt yourself in the process! What happened, what was the child doing?
 
Kenna- Well, given that you've had a pregnancy before, let's just hope DH's sperm IS fine... I would be a little ticked off personally, if my DH wouldn't get a SA especially after having to go through a laparoscopy, but it is a delicate subject for them sometimes. I think my DH has confidence in his spermies because they have worked before- just not on me :( (worst thing for me to keep remembering... his gf a few years before meeting me, had an abortion... breaks my heart that he went through that)

I got bloods drawn today, I think like a regular workup plus thyroid and prolactin, at least that's all the lab guy told me, but definitely not FSH, which kinda made me mad because why not just throw that in there while they're doing it? I think since I'm seeing an OBGYN and not an RE, he only halfway knows what to do. In fact, at the recommendation of you Jess, I was the one who had to even request the blood test in the first place. Well, tomorrow morning is my ultrasound and I'm looking forward to it but I'm also nervous because my period has been so heavy and I'll definitely still be on it tomorrow. I guess they see that often but....ew. I did call and made sure it was okay. Have any of you had an internal sonogram while on AF?

Btw I am feeling better about my job today. Had a long talk with my rater (person who kinda keeps track of everything I do) and he reeeeeally helped me. I think with him on my side, I'll come up with a way to enjoy my job. I want to enjoy it, it's so worth it, but I just really don't want to sacrifice my happiness for money. I think it's possible to have both.

I have had a sonogram during AF, I made sure the doc knew and the tech knew as well. They were just fine with it. :) I can't believe they didn't do the FSH, I completely agree that they should have while they were testing anyhow!!!

I hope thinks work out with your job, you definitely need to be happy, that is first and foremost. I hope you can find a way that is the least stressful and happiest for you. :)

Ugh, I'm sorry to hear that about DH And ex...same thing happened with mine. She had 3 abortions against his will. :( so I'm sure he is fine and that our only issue is that I don't ovulate the same time every month and it's hard to time intercourse properly :)

Got this tonight:
https://i1283.photobucket.com/albums/a556/barnkn312/Mobile%20Uploads/image_zpsd1cc17a3.jpg
Hoping DH will feel up to some bd :)
 
That is a super positive OPK!! Maybe O is today/tomorrow? Is this the darkest OPK so far?
 
Yes, yesterday was like just as dark as the control. Today seems darker than control. I'm cramping like crazy so maybe....:)
 

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