Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Bubba26]

No I haven't tried temping I wasn't sure how to do it. My af just won't come and still getting bfn. I think my body just playing with me

 

[Jrepp]

No I haven't tried temping I wasn't sure how to do it. My af just won't come and still getting bfn. I think my body just playing with me

Temping is really easy! You set your alarm for the same time each morning after at least 3 solid hours of sleep. Get a basal thermometer (Walmart has them for $8). When the alarm goes off, don't move around too much and take your temp before you get up. Some people write it down on a notepad, others use fertility friend or my much preferred ovufriend to track temps, mucus, cervical position, love making sessions and symptoms.

 

[Jennuuh]

Meg: How exciting!

I feel like I've reached a milestone today already. I was looking back in my previous posts and realized with my last pregnancy I started bleeding at 4 weeks 3 days, and continued to bleed until 10 weeks (I was diagnosed with a SCH). But yet present day - everything is still going smoothly! I keep peeping in on the first trimester board but it really freaks me out because everyone is posting about spotting and worrying and it's causing me stress! I'm not going to participate really over there until the second trimester. Trying to keep calm!!

Good luck to everyone!

I'm doing the same thing Chelsea - I've been on ONE board in there, about symptoms no one tells you about, so it hasn't been hard or anything. I refuse to go any further than that though!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I refuse to go on first tri boards after my bfp...i wont really go on them even now lol. Its def scary stuff and I feel that everyone should enjoy their pregnancies! Worry & stress doesn't do any good! You ladies are on the right path staying away!
I hope u both have wonderful pregnancies!!

 

[Fiza123]

Just stopping in before my phone dies....i have the craziest AF cramps today. 100% for sure, I've never had these cramps after O and I've had this stitch like feeling all around my left side. Idk ladies, I'm getting very hopeful. I seriously feel like I'm going nuts but maybe its time for my miracle baby. This wk seriously can't go by any any faster!
Also, I found charts for 1 tube/ovary and alot of the pregnancy ones have a slow rise until 5-6dpo so now I feel a lil better about my chart too. Plus there was like 7 that had the downward temps 2-3dpo or 2-4dpo like mine so I feel a lil better about my chart in that way, too. I guess I need to stop obsessing and b patient! I didn't expect to feel this way my first cycle actively trying again. There's no way for me NOT to notice these pinches and cramps, even if I'm busy focusing on something else. Dh could even feel this weird lump near my ovary last night. I'm worried about a cyst but at the same time, docs didn't think its a cyst but they're not always right. FX for test time or even next cycle since by then my tube will be even more likely to be open FX!

FX for you Mary!! This cycle will be a bfp..have patience..this week will pass very soon and then u can test, will be eagerly waiting

FX! I really am feeling things I have for sure have never felt through out all these tww's.
From looking at ur chart, I almost want to say you may be oing today/tomo BUT since I dont have a past chart to compare to, it may be a few more days away. Idk if I'm remembering correctly but u have 28-35 day cycles right? If so, u could expect to O between CD 14-21 (depending on ur LP, which u will learn this cycle, unless u get ur bfp of course then there will be no need to even kno ur LP!) If u go by ur usual cycle length and minus about 14 days, that's ABOUT when u can expect O, just to give u a time frame since u just started temping. Your LP always stays the same (unless you take meds to try and make it longer) so thats why i say to minus about 14 days, that way u can make sure u BD every other day or everyday for the week leading up to ur "expected O day" and there wont be much room for u to miss it . Just an idea while u try and learn ur true O day . I do want to say u may be seeing O in the next couple/few days due to ur temps getting lower and ur CM pattern so far. FX u catch that eggy this cycle! I'm praying for all of us to get summer bfps!

Hey!!!
Sorry for the late reply, i was busy packing as we are going for a 2 day trip to another city
Before going to the airport i had an appointment with gynaec coz of continous pain..when she scanned she saw a follicle and said you are O'ing..so i just had one hour to get ready and also did not want to miss the O day..so somehow managed BD..
So what are your symptoms today??

 

[Fiza123]

Hi Fiza - looks like you O'ed yesterday CD13. Not yet 100% sure though unless your temp stays elevated for another 2 days..... FX ff will give you the crosshairs by then......

Hi Mary - let's just try to relax and next thing we know, it's testing time.... FX your tube opens up and give you your OUR

Yes you are correct I O'ed yesterday my gyneac confirmed that she saw a good size follicle..
Thanks for helping me understand my chart.
Thanks hun!!

 

[Jrepp]

Whelp.....cycle day 1.

 

[kealz]

No I haven't tried temping I wasn't sure how to do it. My af just won't come and still getting bfn. I think my body just playing with me

Temping is really easy! You set your alarm for the same time each morning after at least 3 solid hours of sleep. Get a basal thermometer (Walmart has them for $8). When the alarm goes off, don't move around too much and take your temp before you get up. Some people write it down on a notepad, others use fertility friend or my much preferred ovufriend to track temps, mucus, cervical position, love making sessions and symptoms.

Thanks for the lovely welcomes ladies!

I agree about the temping - it felt kinda foreign at first and like I wasn't going to do it right but now it's just routine and easy. Just put the stick in your mouth each morning around same time as soon as you wake up and record. If you're using an app, then recording cm will really help too.

My temp stayed above the coverline today so maybe ff was right about day 11. Feeling like I don't have a great chance if that's the case as you can see we didn't bd until Monday night. Hmmm...

 

[mdscpa]

Wow Fiza that's a good rise....one more day and you'll see your CHs (crosshairs) betting on CD13, hehehehe..... You've got good rise after O. Mine as usual it's always a slow rise. Very curious about succeeding temps starting tomorrow i think i will start to see where my temp is going. FX your's stays elevated.

 

[mdscpa]

No I haven't tried temping I wasn't sure how to do it. My af just won't come and still getting bfn. I think my body just playing with me

Temping is really easy! You set your alarm for the same time each morning after at least 3 solid hours of sleep. Get a basal thermometer (Walmart has them for $8). When the alarm goes off, don't move around too much and take your temp before you get up. Some people write it down on a notepad, others use fertility friend or my much preferred ovufriend to track temps, mucus, cervical position, love making sessions and symptoms.

Thanks for the lovely welcomes ladies!

I agree about the temping - it felt kinda foreign at first and like I wasn't going to do it right but now it's just routine and easy. Just put the stick in your mouth each morning around same time as soon as you wake up and record. If you're using an app, then recording cm will really help too.

My temp stayed above the coverline today so maybe ff was right about day 11. Feeling like I don't have a great chance if that's the case as you can see we didn't bd until Monday night. Hmmm...

Mine is like yours SLOW RISE.... Hope we get our high temps and stay elevated til we get our . You still have a chance since an egg has 12-24 hours life after ovulation for it to be fertilized. So FX you caught it on time.

 

[kealz]

Thanks hun, I hope you're right and our slow rises continue to creep up! Would love that bfp this cycle! As I would have done any cycle gone before, but ykwim!

Fiza - I have just clocked that amzing temp rise! I'm tempted to put my money on day 14 for eventual cross hairs. Either way, your bding looks well timed. Fx'd!

 

[Wishing1010]

Whelp.....cycle day 1.

I'm sorry Jess. I just read your blog and it looks like you have the perfect plan for this cycle!!! Can't wait to see your BFP in a few weeks

Hope AF is nice to you and goes away quickly!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Just stopping in before my phone dies....i have the craziest AF cramps today. 100% for sure, I've never had these cramps after O and I've had this stitch like feeling all around my left side. Idk ladies, I'm getting very hopeful. I seriously feel like I'm going nuts but maybe its time for my miracle baby. This wk seriously can't go by any any faster!
Also, I found charts for 1 tube/ovary and alot of the pregnancy ones have a slow rise until 5-6dpo so now I feel a lil better about my chart too. Plus there was like 7 that had the downward temps 2-3dpo or 2-4dpo like mine so I feel a lil better about my chart in that way, too. I guess I need to stop obsessing and b patient! I didn't expect to feel this way my first cycle actively trying again. There's no way for me NOT to notice these pinches and cramps, even if I'm busy focusing on something else. Dh could even feel this weird lump near my ovary last night. I'm worried about a cyst but at the same time, docs didn't think its a cyst but they're not always right. FX for test time or even next cycle since by then my tube will be even more likely to be open FX!

FX for you Mary!! This cycle will be a bfp..have patience..this week will pass very soon and then u can test, will be eagerly waiting

FX! I really am feeling things I have for sure have never felt through out all these tww's.
From looking at ur chart, I almost want to say you may be oing today/tomo BUT since I dont have a past chart to compare to, it may be a few more days away. Idk if I'm remembering correctly but u have 28-35 day cycles right? If so, u could expect to O between CD 14-21 (depending on ur LP, which u will learn this cycle, unless u get ur bfp of course then there will be no need to even kno ur LP!) If u go by ur usual cycle length and minus about 14 days, that's ABOUT when u can expect O, just to give u a time frame since u just started temping. Your LP always stays the same (unless you take meds to try and make it longer) so thats why i say to minus about 14 days, that way u can make sure u BD every other day or everyday for the week leading up to ur "expected O day" and there wont be much room for u to miss it . Just an idea while u try and learn ur true O day . I do want to say u may be seeing O in the next couple/few days due to ur temps getting lower and ur CM pattern so far. FX u catch that eggy this cycle! I'm praying for all of us to get summer bfps!

Hey!!!
Sorry for the late reply, i was busy packing as we are going for a 2 day trip to another city
Before going to the airport i had an appointment with gynaec coz of continous pain..when she scanned she saw a follicle and said you are O'ing..so i just had one hour to get ready and also did not want to miss the O day..so somehow managed BD..
So what are your symptoms today??

oh wow, I was right on ur O day! Lol. I had a feeling u were oing on CD13 but didnt want to say for sure and be the reason u bded at the wrong times lol...i guess it wouldve really been helpful. next time..lol. Your pattern was looking like very familiar pre O patterns . Now u can expect crosshairs tomorrow for 3dpo.

Today I have a killer headache, some AF type cramping (hasn't gone away since the eve of 3dpo and my lower back hurts along with pinches towards my left side. I'm sure its a fluke and my tube will need another month or two to heal but miracles def happen so we shall see

FX! Tons of baby dust to you all!

 

[Wishing1010]

Omg look at that rise, Mary!!!!

 

[Fiza123]

Wow really Mary your chart seems very promising
Fx for your bfp

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thank you ladies! I am keeping my fingers crossed extra tight!!

 

[Fiza123]

Thanks hun, I hope you're right and our slow rises continue to creep up! Would love that bfp this cycle! As I would have done any cycle gone before, but ykwim!

Fiza - I have just clocked that amzing temp rise! I'm tempted to put my money on day 14 for eventual cross hairs. Either way, your bding looks well timed. Fx'd!

welcome kealz,
I think I started O'ing cd 13 night and it contined till cd 14 I guess..as I started having o'ing pain 13th night itself..
so yes you are correct

 

[Jrepp]

New blog post up. I want to see if this works so please bear with me. I am trying to see if views outside of You Tube count in the view counts. I don't even know if this will work......

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[mdscpa]

Hey Fiza - as predicted, your CH showed up.... on to TWW....... FX you caught the egg.... At least this cycle you would have an idea of how long your LP is. One more week for me and i probably test next Saturday, I'll be 15dpo by then but that of course if temps stay elevated or doesn't show up.

 

[mdscpa]

Nice blog Jess very informative...... I'm really glad you're being positive about everything in you TTC journey. Can't wait for your soon. Praying this will be your lucky cycle and hope the pain will leave you for good.