Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

Looks like everyone get's a dip today.. I was expecting mine to dip since yesterday and it did today (implantation???) i don't think so i had dips before and

Tomorrow is the start of the real wait.

to All..... FX temps go back up tomorrow.

I had a feeling mine would dip too. I predict my chart to go like this...(lol), a small rise tomorrow, another small rise on 11dpo, another 12dpo, a small dip 13dpo, and then it'll either stay up 14dpo or fall wayyy down for AF & CD1. Let see if I'm right lol. I see a pattern in my chart so I'm trying to predict the rest of it. Its my fun game I like to do with my charts instead of obsess now lol

 

[mdscpa]

Looks like everyone get's a dip today.. I was expecting mine to dip since yesterday and it did today (implantation???) i don't think so i had dips before and

Tomorrow is the start of the real wait.

to All..... FX temps go back up tomorrow.

I had a feeling mine would dip too. I predict my chart to go like this...(lol), a small rise tomorrow, another small rise on 11dpo, another 12dpo, a small dip 13dpo, and then it'll either stay up 14dpo or fall wayyy down for AF & CD1. Let see if I'm right lol. I see a pattern in my chart so I'm trying to predict the rest of it. Its my fun game I like to do with my charts instead of obsess now lol

i have two scenarios expecting starting tomorrow, either my temps will go high and stay there for or a very small rise then fall for AF..... Either way, i'm prepared lol.....

 

[Fiza123]

Hello gals!!
Iam back home Mary and mdscpa your temps look great and fx that they stay high and you get your bfp..
Mary your symptoms are sounding good I hope its a bfp
Kenna - hope you feel better soon, Iam also having sore throat
Ladies Iam 3 dpo now. Symptoms spotting will begin now.
Mary what feelings are you getting about me..positive or negative??

lol, ill have to see ur chart for another couple of days before I really start getting "my feelings" (lol) so ill let you know then . FX ur temps remain nice and high!!

Lol
I have one question..why does FF change cross hairs sometimes?? This gets confusing..coz of travelling i couldnt follow the exact time of taking temp at 5 am as i was sleeping late..so now i started taking temps at 10 am..does this really affect the chart

it puts all ur signs together and sometimes it'll change it up. But yes, changing ur temp time by that much def def affects it. Mines waayyy higher even at 8a.m and I temp at 5a.m as well. Usually when u want to start temping at a new time, u should do it at the beginning of a cycle but if u got those higher temps BEFORE u started temping at 10a.m and it was still at 5a.m, like the lower temps, then at least u know u oed due to the shift and it doesn't really matter now (except ur post O pattern will be a lil diff) but if u started to get the higher temps AFTER u switched ur temping time, u may B off on ur O date. Charting is all about consistency. Some women can get away w temping an hr or so of a difference but others, like me, with slow rises have to make sure other factors dont affect it. Switching ur temp time from 5a.m to 10a.m would make ur temp about 1 degree higher because its ABOUT .2 for every hr you over sleep (some women adjust their temps when they sleep late and that's the "key to thumb" I hope I explained it right. If I were u, just until.u figure out ur normal O day and LP length, id use opks along with temping. That way FF can use that to help predict O along with how ur temps rise.

I started getting high temps when i was temping at 5 am..so i know when I O'ed..
I think i should make 10 am my temping time regularly..

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hello gals!!
Iam back home Mary and mdscpa your temps look great and fx that they stay high and you get your bfp..
Mary your symptoms are sounding good I hope its a bfp
Kenna - hope you feel better soon, Iam also having sore throat
Ladies Iam 3 dpo now. Symptoms spotting will begin now.
Mary what feelings are you getting about me..positive or negative??

lol, ill have to see ur chart for another couple of days before I really start getting "my feelings" (lol) so ill let you know then . FX ur temps remain nice and high!!

Lol
I have one question..why does FF change cross hairs sometimes?? This gets confusing..coz of travelling i couldnt follow the exact time of taking temp at 5 am as i was sleeping late..so now i started taking temps at 10 am..does this really affect the chart

it puts all ur signs together and sometimes it'll change it up. But yes, changing ur temp time by that much def def affects it. Mines waayyy higher even at 8a.m and I temp at 5a.m as well. Usually when u want to start temping at a new time, u should do it at the beginning of a cycle but if u got those higher temps BEFORE u started temping at 10a.m and it was still at 5a.m, like the lower temps, then at least u know u oed due to the shift and it doesn't really matter now (except ur post O pattern will be a lil diff) but if u started to get the higher temps AFTER u switched ur temping time, u may B off on ur O date. Charting is all about consistency. Some women can get away w temping an hr or so of a difference but others, like me, with slow rises have to make sure other factors dont affect it. Switching ur temp time from 5a.m to 10a.m would make ur temp about 1 degree higher because its ABOUT .2 for every hr you over sleep (some women adjust their temps when they sleep late and that's the "key to thumb" I hope I explained it right. If I were u, just until.u figure out ur normal O day and LP length, id use opks along with temping. That way FF can use that to help predict O along with how ur temps rise.

I started getting high temps when i was temping at 5 am..so i know when I O'ed..
I think i should make 10 am my temping time regularly..

I definitely agree that if 10am is a better waking time for you, stick with 10 . And that's good u switched after ur rise so u still caught O, yay! . It wont affect anything by u changing ur time since u already oed. If u think u may need to or want to change ur temp time again, try and do it either after O again or the best time to change it up is on CD1. Ive changed my temping time from 7am to 6a.m to 5am lol I kept changing it for dhs work schedule but thankfully, it actually always worked out good and was always either after O or I was able to wait for a new cycle. Anyways, I'm rambling but yes, I definitely think u should make ur permanent temping time 10a.m because it works better for you. Just remember that if yr chart goes"triphasic" this cycle (a third shift in temps), it could be due to the Change in temping time but that's okay, when u test ull know if u get ur bfp and it'll still give u your LP length and such. You'll figure out many dif things that work better FOR YOU while temping...it took me a couple cycles to figure out what works best for me. I'm always here to help tho!

 

[kealz]

Hi ladies! Hope you're all having a nice weekend.

These charts are looking good! My temp increased a bit this morning which gave me a nice perk to start the day - at least I can be more sure that i'm in the tww now! Looks like there's a few of us that could be testing around the same time..?

 

[Fiza123]

Hello gals!!
Iam back home Mary and mdscpa your temps look great and fx that they stay high and you get your bfp..
Mary your symptoms are sounding good I hope its a bfp
Kenna - hope you feel better soon, Iam also having sore throat
Ladies Iam 3 dpo now. Symptoms spotting will begin now.
Mary what feelings are you getting about me..positive or negative??

lol, ill have to see ur chart for another couple of days before I really start getting "my feelings" (lol) so ill let you know then . FX ur temps remain nice and high!!

Lol
I have one question..why does FF change cross hairs sometimes?? This gets confusing..coz of travelling i couldnt follow the exact time of taking temp at 5 am as i was sleeping late..so now i started taking temps at 10 am..does this really affect the chart

it puts all ur signs together and sometimes it'll change it up. But yes, changing ur temp time by that much def def affects it. Mines waayyy higher even at 8a.m and I temp at 5a.m as well. Usually when u want to start temping at a new time, u should do it at the beginning of a cycle but if u got those higher temps BEFORE u started temping at 10a.m and it was still at 5a.m, like the lower temps, then at least u know u oed due to the shift and it doesn't really matter now (except ur post O pattern will be a lil diff) but if u started to get the higher temps AFTER u switched ur temping time, u may B off on ur O date. Charting is all about consistency. Some women can get away w temping an hr or so of a difference but others, like me, with slow rises have to make sure other factors dont affect it. Switching ur temp time from 5a.m to 10a.m would make ur temp about 1 degree higher because its ABOUT .2 for every hr you over sleep (some women adjust their temps when they sleep late and that's the "key to thumb" I hope I explained it right. If I were u, just until.u figure out ur normal O day and LP length, id use opks along with temping. That way FF can use that to help predict O along with how ur temps rise.

I started getting high temps when i was temping at 5 am..so i know when I O'ed..
I think i should make 10 am my temping time regularly..

I definitely agree that if 10am is a better waking time for you, stick with 10 . And that's good u switched after ur rise so u still caught O, yay! . It wont affect anything by u changing ur time since u already oed. If u think u may need to or want to change ur temp time again, try and do it either after O again or the best time to change it up is on CD1. Ive changed my temping time from 7am to 6a.m to 5am lol I kept changing it for dhs work schedule but thankfully, it actually always worked out good and was always either after O or I was able to wait for a new cycle. Anyways, I'm rambling but yes, I definitely think u should make ur permanent temping time 10a.m because it works better for you. Just remember that if yr chart goes"triphasic" this cycle (a third shift in temps), it could be due to the Change in temping time but that's okay, when u test ull know if u get ur bfp and it'll still give u your LP length and such. You'll figure out many dif things that work better FOR YOU while temping...it took me a couple cycles to figure out what works best for me. I'm always here to help tho!

Thank you so much Mary!! I really appreciate your help and the info you provide
Love ya

 

[Fiza123]

Hi ladies! Hope you're all having a nice weekend.

These charts are looking good! My temp increased a bit this morning which gave me a nice perk to start the day - at least I can be more sure that i'm in the tww now! Looks like there's a few of us that could be testing around the same time..?

Yes hopefully we will test around the same time.. With a gap of few days and get our BFPs..
FX for you kealz

 

[NellyM]

Hi, can i join in?
I am currently laying in bed trying to not allow a pink CM turninto a loss but I feel it's forgone conclusion. So I will be back in the game in the next fortnight.

 

[kealz]

Hi NellyM, i'm so sorry to hear that hun - could there still be some hope though? I've heard it's normal for some women to spot through early pregnancy? Sending hugs! xxx

 

[NellyM]

Hi NellyM, i'm so sorry to hear that hun - could there still be some hope though? I've heard it's normal for some women to spot through early pregnancy? Sending hugs! xxx

up until about half an hour ago I stillhad a glimmer of hope.
I then had a huge gush of blood and now I have cramps.

 

[kealz]

Hi NellyM, i'm so sorry to hear that hun - could there still be some hope though? I've heard it's normal for some women to spot through early pregnancy? Sending hugs! xxx

up until about half an hour ago I stillhad a glimmer of hope.
I then had a huge gush of blood and now I have cramps.

Oh chick, I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now - do you have someone at home supporting you? I hope this stage passes quickly for you you can continue your journey. xxx

 

[NellyM]

Hi NellyM, i'm so sorry to hear that hun - could there still be some hope though? I've heard it's normal for some women to spot through early pregnancy? Sending hugs! xxx

up until about half an hour ago I stillhad a glimmer of hope.
I then had a huge gush of blood and now I have cramps.

Oh chick, I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now - do you have someone at home supporting you? I hope this stage passes quickly for you you can continue your journey. xxx

I have my fella who is being my rock. I also told the teenbeasts and they are being very unbeastly. My DD is being a sweetie and keeping me company. I am very lucky to have them

 

[Jrepp]

I'm sorry Nelly, I know what you are going through. If you need to chat feel free to message me

 

[Jrepp]

Alright ladies, my period lasted three whole days this month. I know it isn't much, but it's a vast improvement over the less than 48 hours I've been having for quite awhile now. I'm on cd 4, so about 2 weeks to o time. I just can't seem to get a read on the openness of my os since surgery. My nice round hole became a slit and I can't tell when it's open or closed. I'm thinking I might need a speculum and a mirror to physically see what's going on.

 

[NellyM]

Alright ladies, my period lasted three whole days this month. I know it isn't much, but it's a vast improvement over the less than 48 hours I've been having for quite awhile now. I'm on cd 4, so about 2 weeks to o time. I just can't seem to get a read on the openness of my os since surgery. My nice round hole became a slit and I can't tell when it's open or closed. I'm thinking I might need a speculum and a mirror to physically see what's going on.

Blimey...takes yoga to an extreme. Fingers crossed. Seems you will be at o time around the same tme as me.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Alright ladies, my period lasted three whole days this month. I know it isn't much, but it's a vast improvement over the less than 48 hours I've been having for quite awhile now. I'm on cd 4, so about 2 weeks to o time. I just can't seem to get a read on the openness of my os since surgery. My nice round hole became a slit and I can't tell when it's open or closed. I'm thinking I might need a speculum and a mirror to physically see what's going on.

Ive always wanted to try this but too scared to do it to myself lol. Because of vaginal delivery with aiden, mine always has at least a partial open feeling. If it weren't for my CM and my cervix getting soft, I probably wouldn't B able to tell when its open very well. However, wait until ur closer to O and maybee ull be able to tell...it took me a little bit because of the "slit" that's always there but when its closer to O, that slit opens up a TINY bit more. It actually took me I think 3 cycles to truly say whether or not it was open or closed lol. That's the only thing that sucks for me...ive pretty much given up on CP. Mine def has to be on crack so its better for me to just stay out of there for the most part lol I'm so excited that ur first "official" month of trying is here!! only about 30 days left for me and hopefully ill get good results at my hsg...fx!

 

[mdscpa]

Hey Kealz - seems your temps is on the rise.... FX you caught that egg and have your soon...

 

[kealz]

Alright ladies, my period lasted three whole days this month. I know it isn't much, but it's a vast improvement over the less than 48 hours I've been having for quite awhile now. I'm on cd 4, so about 2 weeks to o time. I just can't seem to get a read on the openness of my os since surgery. My nice round hole became a slit and I can't tell when it's open or closed. I'm thinking I might need a speculum and a mirror to physically see what's going on.

Gosh, i'm in awe! I just don't bend that way, lol! Hope you manage to get your reading.

 

[cmr01]

Hi, new to the group. Hubby and I decided to go for it last month. Keeping my fingers crossed we caught the egg this month if not I'm thinking about doing some more of the extensive stuff like body temp and checking my cervix. (Not sure on that one though, just cause I have no idea what to look for)

 

[kealz]

Hey Kealz - seems your temps is on the rise.... FX you caught that egg and have your soon...

Thanks, mdscpa! It went up again this morning so feeling more settled into the tww now. We only dtd the 3 times recorded but hopefully it was the right 3 days.