Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Kiwiberry]

I am here!! ^^ got my BFP yesterday! Good luck ladies!! xoxo

 

[aidensmommy1]

Soo many bfps today!!! May is going to be a good month! its already starting out great!

 

[Jrepp]

I know everyone has been really worried about Amy, so I wanted to share an update. I got more information from her future sister in law. Apparently (and I don't know all of the details yet) things did not go well at the therapist and Amy tried to hurt herself. She is in the hospital now, and she thinks that once the doctors are able to stabilize her liver and kidneys they will be moving her to the psych ward for a bit. I don't know if her and Mike actually broke up or what. I plan to try and find that out as soon as I can.

 

[confuzion]

Poor Amy She must have gone and got pills. I hope she comes out of it ok. Thanks for updating Jess.

 

[Megamegan]

CONGRATS Mrsstrezy and Kiwiberry! Happy and healthy 9 months!!

I have to give an extra special congrats to Jenna, SO EXCITED for you after such a long wait!! I know this must be surreal for you! I hope everything continues to go perfectly

So, thank you girls for getting in touch with Amy's friend. I'm sad to hear she is in the hospital again, but I'm also glad she's okay, and hopefully on the road to feeling much better. It is so hard to know a friend is going through this and there's nothing we can do in person to help Amy we will be so happy when you're feeling better and come back to talk to us!!

Mary, I'm sorry to hear all this about your brother and Aiden's dad. I hope your brother does fully recover after the meds are finished. I think suing the hospital is a good idea. As much as it sucks to go through the legal stuff, he might get a nice settlement that will at least pay those medical bills and help with the loss of a paycheck. Best of luck to him and your mom and his gf. And for Aiden- momma knows best. You will make the right choice for him. Moving would probably be a great idea. That way, you can get away from his dad's mom, and if he wants to see Aiden when he gets out of prison, then he will have to make it a special trip. He's doing this to himself and you're right, Aiden doesn't deserve to get the negative repercussions of his dad's actions. Even if his dad has good intentions, he is not being a good role model for Aiden and clearly it is affecting him... while at home, Aiden does have two good role models as parents and he will be happier just having a good routine and clear expectations. It will all work out somehow. Make sure if you move, if there are any kind of requirements for how long you have to be a resident or work at a certain job before they would cover IVF. Like even if it's not long at the job, it's still possible you'd have to be a resident for a year or something... who knows. Just throwing that out there.

I randomly had EWCM today, so weird, I think I'm still like 3-4 days away from ovulation but who knows. I haven't been temping and it's keeping my stress at bay. I'm also SO insanely busy with work (hence not writing til after midnight) so I have no time to think about this stuff. It's nice to be taking a break. DH and I did NOT get to have our counseling sesh today bc it turns out I had a rehearsal scheduled at the same time as the appt- oops, my bad. But, we did make some progress with the one hour we had together at the end of the day. I'm trying to teach him how I like to be loved, especially in regards to the type of physical affection I respond positively to. Men can be so darn clueless and it's not his fault, but I want to have that intimacy with him... I have been missing it for years, sadly. I think it will majorly help us. So yeah! That's my happy news for the day. Have a great weekend everyone!

 

[Jennuuh]

CONGRATS Mrsstrezy and Kiwiberry! Happy and healthy 9 months!!

I have to give an extra special congrats to Jenna, SO EXCITED for you after such a long wait!! I know this must be surreal for you! I hope everything continues to go perfectly

So, thank you girls for getting in touch with Amy's friend. I'm sad to hear she is in the hospital again, but I'm also glad she's okay, and hopefully on the road to feeling much better. It is so hard to know a friend is going through this and there's nothing we can do in person to help Amy we will be so happy when you're feeling better and come back to talk to us!!

Mary, I'm sorry to hear all this about your brother and Aiden's dad. I hope your brother does fully recover after the meds are finished. I think suing the hospital is a good idea. As much as it sucks to go through the legal stuff, he might get a nice settlement that will at least pay those medical bills and help with the loss of a paycheck. Best of luck to him and your mom and his gf. And for Aiden- momma knows best. You will make the right choice for him. Moving would probably be a great idea. That way, you can get away from his dad's mom, and if he wants to see Aiden when he gets out of prison, then he will have to make it a special trip. He's doing this to himself and you're right, Aiden doesn't deserve to get the negative repercussions of his dad's actions. Even if his dad has good intentions, he is not being a good role model for Aiden and clearly it is affecting him... while at home, Aiden does have two good role models as parents and he will be happier just having a good routine and clear expectations. It will all work out somehow. Make sure if you move, if there are any kind of requirements for how long you have to be a resident or work at a certain job before they would cover IVF. Like even if it's not long at the job, it's still possible you'd have to be a resident for a year or something... who knows. Just throwing that out there.

I randomly had EWCM today, so weird, I think I'm still like 3-4 days away from ovulation but who knows. I haven't been temping and it's keeping my stress at bay. I'm also SO insanely busy with work (hence not writing til after midnight) so I have no time to think about this stuff. It's nice to be taking a break. DH and I did NOT get to have our counseling sesh today bc it turns out I had a rehearsal scheduled at the same time as the appt- oops, my bad. But, we did make some progress with the one hour we had together at the end of the day. I'm trying to teach him how I like to be loved, especially in regards to the type of physical affection I respond positively to. Men can be so darn clueless and it's not his fault, but I want to have that intimacy with him... I have been missing it for years, sadly. I think it will majorly help us. So yeah! That's my happy news for the day. Have a great weekend everyone!

Thank you Megan! I still can't believe it! Now I want Monday to get here ASAP to get my 2nd beta done! She said my first ultrasound will probably be around May 24th, but since that's a Saturday, I'm going to ask if they have an opening on May 23rd - That will be our 5th wedding anniversary.

As for you - GREAT plan to show hubby what you like in regards to physical affection! I hope you two work things completely out - You deserve to be happy everyday! And you're right. Men can be SO clueless! I know mine is at times! haha!


I'm also glad that Amy is getting the help she needs, whether it was sought out by herself or not - I hope she realizes she's strong enough to take on the world, if she would just let herself!

 

[mdscpa]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

 

[Kiwiberry]

I am really sorry to hear about Amy, that is just too sad. I hope she gets well soon lots of comforting prayers headed her way xoxo.

 

[MolGold]

I am here!! ^^ got my BFP yesterday! Good luck ladies!! xoxo

Great news, congrats!! H&H 9 months ahead

 

[MolGold]

Congrats Jennuh - you deserve this!! H&H 9 months

Megan I am glad you are working together towards your happiness. I hope your life turns out to be the fairytale you want it to be

I am shocked and sad about Amy.. I thought she was really getting better and being little more positive, with all of us there. I hope she gets help and comes out of this situation a stronger person. I hope she is well..

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to read about Amy. I hope that she gets the support she needs. x

 

[aidensmommy1]

CONGRATS Mrsstrezy and Kiwiberry! Happy and healthy 9 months!!

I have to give an extra special congrats to Jenna, SO EXCITED for you after such a long wait!! I know this must be surreal for you! I hope everything continues to go perfectly

So, thank you girls for getting in touch with Amy's friend. I'm sad to hear she is in the hospital again, but I'm also glad she's okay, and hopefully on the road to feeling much better. It is so hard to know a friend is going through this and there's nothing we can do in person to help Amy we will be so happy when you're feeling better and come back to talk to us!!

Mary, I'm sorry to hear all this about your brother and Aiden's dad. I hope your brother does fully recover after the meds are finished. I think suing the hospital is a good idea. As much as it sucks to go through the legal stuff, he might get a nice settlement that will at least pay those medical bills and help with the loss of a paycheck. Best of luck to him and your mom and his gf. And for Aiden- momma knows best. You will make the right choice for him. Moving would probably be a great idea. That way, you can get away from his dad's mom, and if he wants to see Aiden when he gets out of prison, then he will have to make it a special trip. He's doing this to himself and you're right, Aiden doesn't deserve to get the negative repercussions of his dad's actions. Even if his dad has good intentions, he is not being a good role model for Aiden and clearly it is affecting him... while at home, Aiden does have two good role models as parents and he will be happier just having a good routine and clear expectations. It will all work out somehow. Make sure if you move, if there are any kind of requirements for how long you have to be a resident or work at a certain job before they would cover IVF. Like even if it's not long at the job, it's still possible you'd have to be a resident for a year or something... who knows. Just throwing that out there.

I randomly had EWCM today, so weird, I think I'm still like 3-4 days away from ovulation but who knows. I haven't been temping and it's keeping my stress at bay. I'm also SO insanely busy with work (hence not writing til after midnight) so I have no time to think about this stuff. It's nice to be taking a break. DH and I did NOT get to have our counseling sesh today bc it turns out I had a rehearsal scheduled at the same time as the appt- oops, my bad. But, we did make some progress with the one hour we had together at the end of the day. I'm trying to teach him how I like to be loved, especially in regards to the type of physical affection I respond positively to. Men can be so darn clueless and it's not his fault, but I want to have that intimacy with him... I have been missing it for years, sadly. I think it will majorly help us. So yeah! That's my happy news for the day. Have a great weekend everyone!

thanks mega, and my guess is u already oed unless ur temp is still down because I either am 3dpo with a broken thermometer or flat temps (getting a new thermometer today) or im O'ing today. I swear I feel like I already oed because my nips tell me so haha. Who knows, maybe I'm really not Oing until today. I haven't really been paying attention and I'm usually SO consistent with taking my temp but this cycle not so much. Either way, if we haven't O'ed, it should be in the next day or two at the latest. Are u NTNP this cycle or are u full on taking a break?

And ur right about aidens dad, everything u just said to me, I said to dh and my mom yest while I was bitchin about it. I know Aiden will be ok. And I completely agree about the structure...thats one thing his dad and grandmother dont seem to to understand. He's not a baby anymore and is in kindergarten, he needs a daily, steady routine! They just think about themselves. I feel like this is going to be very relaxing for me...i feel horrible saying that but after a long day of thinking yest, that's how I feel. He could have easily not driven so he'd be out here for Aidem but he still drove knowing he was on probation driving without a license (hes on probation and just did 6 months in the county jail for the same thing!!) Soo frustrating.

As for the insurance, we actually dont even need to be residents of Massachusetts its strictly through employment benefits so we'd have to wait the 90 days or so and we could still even live in NH. We may check out the towns right near the border. We haven't fully decided yet but moving is def a possibility now. We could stay right where we are but that'd just be a long ride to and from work for dh every day and with our car, his whole paycheck would probably go into gas lol. Our suv is the biggest gas hog EVERR! we'll figure it all out when the time comes I guess . Its weird having so many options...im used to feeling like I have to stick around for Aidens dad but I thought about it and HE moved away from Aiden to Florida for a year about 3yrs ago so why the heck does he think we shouldn't be able to do the same?! U know? If I have to worry about his dad just up and leaving him, his dad can deal with us leaving as well. Its the same dang difference!!! Anyways...lol had to get my a.m venting out

 

[Wishing1010]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

Looks like you could have, a few more days of temps would determine for certain. Good luck!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Mary, I completely agree with you that you shouldn't wait around and she what your ex does. If you do, you kinda stop your life in the process while waiting for him to figure things out. I hate that he does that to you and Aiden, it's so selfish!!!! You two deserve to be happy and not constantly involved in his drama or wonder if he is going to be in jail or not. My sister had the same issue, she has an ex that won't let her leave the state yet he never comes to see her son. It's ridiculous. She ended up giving up and buying a house with her BF. She is actually due to give birth any time now!!! I'm so excited but can't find a way to leave work right now to fly and see her. oops got off subject lol

I say do what's best for your family and take his butt to court if you have to. Aiden deserves a good life and awaiting his dad to grow up is not what he should be doing.

My temps are wonky, I also temped way later than normal so disregard today's temp

I'm so sorry to hear about Amy. This is so horrible. I wish I could go and see her. I truly hope she gets the help she needs, she is so young and pretty! Her good man is out there, she just needs to see life is still worth living. Mike may be a good guy but I believe her true love is out there waiting on her. One who will make her forget all about hurting herself. So many hugs to her!!

 

[mdscpa]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

Looks like you could have, a few more days of temps would determine for certain. Good luck!!

Can't wait for tom's temp hopefully i could see cross hairs after that....

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jess, thank u for updating about Amy. I cant believe all this happened. I really thought she checked herself in for safety. I really hope she gets better and really feels better after everything passes. Ugh. I feel horrible for her .
Shes such a pretty, smart, amazing person! She can pull through all of this. I'm happy someone was able to get her to the hospital. So many of my brothers friends have accidentally died from overdosing but that's because nobody got to them on time. She definitely had some angels watching over her and im so thankful for that.
AMY I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH! GET BETTER HUN! WE WANT/NEED U HERE WITH US! YOUR IN MY HEART

Jess thank u again for finding this out for us. I feel helpless in this situation ATM because we cant physically do anything to help her feel better :-\. Id love to make it down south and have a big weekend gathering when Amys feeling better. You all are a huge part of my life now. Itd be awesome to all meet each other (I know, I know, meeting may not be possible but itd certainly be nice!) please update if u hear anything else. I wonder if we can write her or send cards or anything...She'd probably feel so good receiving cards or nice letters from all of us. U know?

 

[Wishing1010]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

Looks like you could have, a few more days of temps would determine for certain. Good luck!!

Can't wait for tom's temp hopefully i could see cross hairs after that....

Everything crossed for you, hun!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

Looks like you could have, a few more days of temps would determine for certain. Good luck!!

Can't wait for tom's temp hopefully i could see cross hairs after that....

It looks to me like u will get CH's tomorrow or possibly Monday but its looking like tomorrow will be 3dpo to me. Idk if I'm oing today or if I'm 3dpo. I really think my thermometer is broken. I have been getting CH's 4dpo lately for some reason so maybe FF just needs to process it more. Dh and I will probably want to BD tonight since we are having a night to ourselves so maybe we'll still catch O if we haven't already
I wish u tons of luck and baby dust this cycle!!

 

[Megamegan]

Guys, where does Amy live? And Kenna are you near Orlando at all? I am going to Florida this July to see my mom and sister and her family, and would be thrilled if the opportunity arose to meet in person some time They are in Seminole County, so anywhere within like an hour of there and I bet we could find a meeting place and have coffee or something, if anyone wanted to.

Mary I don't think I have O'd because if you remember my period was late this cycle, so I'm actually only on CD 12. Normally I O on CD 13, so I am expecting to feel O pains probably between today and Monday. I am not going to temp because I'm more relaxed not temping, and I know I ovulate, so yeah we are NTNP and I don't want to stress about it any more than that. I think this might work up until the one year mark for us because it will relieve stress and it will allow me to focus on my relationship, which I believe is headed in a good direction, and if a baby comes then we will be even that much happier. I need to chillax anyway because I don't want to be this kind of mother who is constantly worrying and stressing. And I'm back on Wellbutrin so if I get pregnant I can wean myself off but in the mean time it will help me out.

 

[mdscpa]

Good morning ladies. Stopped taking opk i think i missed my surge
Anyways, temps looking good so far i think i o'ed already what do you think? Appreciate your responses...

Looks like you could have, a few more days of temps would determine for certain. Good luck!!

Can't wait for tom's temp hopefully i could see cross hairs after that....

It looks to me like u will get CH's tomorrow or possibly Monday but its looking like tomorrow will be 3dpo to me. Idk if I'm oing today or if I'm 3dpo. I really think my thermometer is broken. I have been getting CH's 4dpo lately for some reason so maybe FF just needs to process it more. Dh and I will probably want to BD tonight since we are having a night to ourselves so maybe we'll still catch O if we haven't already
I wish u tons of luck and baby dust this cycle!!

Maybe it's time to get a new thermometer then. looks like we are o'ing almost at the same time. Me and DH plan to continue our BD tonight and tomorrow then skip the following day and BD again for fun for the next couple of days i know DH will be so thrilled about it. Can't wait to see another BFP's here. I love you all ladies!!!!!