Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Megamegan]

Oh no Jess! Yes I know it's possible to be that upset, you must really be worked up I'm so sorry. You should rest while he's at work today, you probably really need sleep at this point.

Wishing let's hope tomorrow has a temp rise!

msdcpa, even if the spotting doesn't stop, it could still be IB that lasts a while. I know some women had it for like a week. 7 dpo is super early for AF to start, so I'm more inclined to think AF is not about to show... FX!

And MARY! I'm so excited about your rise, lol. I saw it this morning and I said "yay!" to my puppy. Haha. Let's hope it stays up there

I have a .6 rise this morning, but I had 2 beers last night. At first I forgot about it and I was all excited, but then I quickly remembered there MUST be a reason for that rise at only 4 dpo. I thought I drank enough water to stay hydrated, and they were light beers, but I guess it can definitely affect your temp. So I'm assuming, if my temp goes back down tomorrow, that this rise was only so high because I drank a little last night.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Oh no Jess! Yes I know it's possible to be that upset, you must really be worked up I'm so sorry. You should rest while he's at work today, you probably really need sleep at this point.

Wishing let's hope tomorrow has a temp rise!

msdcpa, even if the spotting doesn't stop, it could still be IB that lasts a while. I know some women had it for like a week. 7 dpo is super early for AF to start, so I'm more inclined to think AF is not about to show... FX!

And MARY! I'm so excited about your rise, lol. I saw it this morning and I said "yay!" to my puppy. Haha. Let's hope it stays up there

I have a .6 rise this morning, but I had 2 beers last night. At first I forgot about it and I was all excited, but then I quickly remembered there MUST be a reason for that rise at only 4 dpo. I thought I drank enough water to stay hydrated, and they were light beers, but I guess it can definitely affect your temp. So I'm assuming, if my temp goes back down tomorrow, that this rise was only so high because I drank a little last night.

you usually have pretty high temps any how so hopefully ur temps just getting higher quicker because ur bfp is on its way FX!!

But of course alcohol can affect it like u said so that's good for u to know because things affect all of our temps differently so you'll know for YOU how much drinking with mess with ur temp (even if it was a tiny bit that u drank). We're all too diff when it comes to our bodies!

 

[aidensmommy1]

That's great news Kenna!

I on the other hand am super pissed. My husband went to go have drinks with his best friend and the new team leader for his department. They were supposed to go to a sports bar. Thanks to the wonders of where's my iPhone, he is at a bar where the waitress are dressed like this:

I am so unbelievably angry!

OMGOSH! I WOULD SNAP!!! As I stated in my last msg to you, I have big trust issues from my past and I would be FURIOUS even without trust issues! I completely missed this post and couldn't figure out exactly what everyone was talking about . I'm sorry hun. I have tension running through my body for you right now.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hope you slept well, Megan!!! And thank you for your service!!! I was going to go into the Air Force and do tv/radio broadcasting but then decided not to. I chickened out bc DH and I were newly married and I didn't want to be away from him for boot camp/school. Kinda childish I know but I feel it was worth it as we have had such a good marriage and that first year was so important to building the foundation we have now.

Mdscpa, I hope this spotting is just old stuff getting out of your system!!! FX FX FX!!!

I hope so too. And praying it stops today then i'll be relieved. It's my first temping and i'll be happy even if i dont get i just don't like seeing a short LP if the decided to show up...... Anyways, i'll just wait for tomorrows temp then i know i will see a dip if af do come.

I'm so sorry for you jrepp, sometimes men do that yelling before you even open your mouth thinking it's gonna scare you and just listen to him. It's there defense mechanism.... Wish you'll be ok soon.

my doc said IB can last anywhere from a day to a couple wks or even longer. Most commonly lasts 2-5 days from what ive read but It depends in the person. I know people who full on bled their whole pregnancy and were completely fine so ur not out yet. FX for u!!

 

[mdscpa]

Hope you slept well, Megan!!! And thank you for your service!!! I was going to go into the Air Force and do tv/radio broadcasting but then decided not to. I chickened out bc DH and I were newly married and I didn't want to be away from him for boot camp/school. Kinda childish I know but I feel it was worth it as we have had such a good marriage and that first year was so important to building the foundation we have now.

Mdscpa, I hope this spotting is just old stuff getting out of your system!!! FX FX FX!!!

I hope so too. And praying it stops today then i'll be relieved. It's my first temping and i'll be happy even if i dont get i just don't like seeing a short LP if the decided to show up...... Anyways, i'll just wait for tomorrows temp then i know i will see a dip if af do come.

I'm so sorry for you jrepp, sometimes men do that yelling before you even open your mouth thinking it's gonna scare you and just listen to him. It's there defense mechanism.... Wish you'll be ok soon.

my doc said IB can last anywhere from a day to a couple wks or even longer. Most commonly lasts 2-5 days from what ive read but It depends in the person. I know people who full on bled their whole pregnancy and were completely fine so ur not out yet. FX for u!!

HUUUUGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEE temp rise you got there Mary!!!!!! im so happy for you..... I already read a ton regarding implantation i always come across of it while TTC... I read some only have it for less than a day, a day or for few days so that's really confusing. What i do know is that most of the time it occurs before your is due. Just praying that it stays brown or just stop at once so i'll be ok. Like i said earlier, i'm not worried if i didn't get this cycle i just don't like a short LP coz that's another problem.

Im just so happy right now that most of us here got a rise in temps. hopefully it stays that way.

FX and baby to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

FX for you all!!!! So many promising charts in here, hope to see lots of bfp's!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

I have so much cramping this morning, not horrible pain wise, just constant. I hope AF isn't going to show super early.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hope you slept well, Megan!!! And thank you for your service!!! I was going to go into the Air Force and do tv/radio broadcasting but then decided not to. I chickened out bc DH and I were newly married and I didn't want to be away from him for boot camp/school. Kinda childish I know but I feel it was worth it as we have had such a good marriage and that first year was so important to building the foundation we have now.

Mdscpa, I hope this spotting is just old stuff getting out of your system!!! FX FX FX!!!

I hope so too. And praying it stops today then i'll be relieved. It's my first temping and i'll be happy even if i dont get i just don't like seeing a short LP if the decided to show up...... Anyways, i'll just wait for tomorrows temp then i know i will see a dip if af do come.

I'm so sorry for you jrepp, sometimes men do that yelling before you even open your mouth thinking it's gonna scare you and just listen to him. It's there defense mechanism.... Wish you'll be ok soon.

my doc said IB can last anywhere from a day to a couple wks or even longer. Most commonly lasts 2-5 days from what ive read but It depends in the person. I know people who full on bled their whole pregnancy and were completely fine so ur not out yet. FX for u!!

HUUUUGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEE temp rise you got there Mary!!!!!! im so happy for you..... I already read a ton regarding implantation i always come across of it while TTC... I read some only have it for less than a day, a day or for few days so that's really confusing. What i do know is that most of the time it occurs before your is due. Just praying that it stays brown or just stop at once so i'll be ok. Like i said earlier, i'm not worried if i didn't get this cycle i just don't like a short LP coz that's another problem.

Im just so happy right now that most of us here got a rise in temps. hopefully it stays that way.

FX and baby to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet ur LP will be just fine . Last month u spotted for 7 days right? So hopefully it'll be 12-13dpo before AF would be due to show. Most women have an LP of 13-15 days...some 16 days but that's less common. If a bfp doesn't happen this cycle, I think ur LP will be a good length (based on the amount of days u spotted last cycle as well as ur "norm cycle length").

And omgosh id be in shock if my dip and spike amounts to something! I've never had a second esrogen surge or any kind of big dip below the cover line followed by a spike so its out of the norm for me personally. Maybe its a new normal thing for me. We'll see. I usually have alot more "symptoms" than I do now or they usually start earlier any ways. FX our charts stay up now!!!

 

[Jrepp]

Thanks ladies. I'm glad that others feel the same way I do. I haven't had any relationships in the past that dealt with trust issues. In fact I only had 1 boyfriend before h and we broke up because his friends were jerks. H (too mad for a d in front of the h) has never really given me a reason to distrust him, but I can't help but feel like when a guy says you can trust me, he's already done something he feels guilty for. I learned from my brothers friends, never trust a guy that says trust me. He should have known that I wouldn't be alright with him being there, and when he found out I was upset about it he should have left.....not stayed 2 more hours. Even if he didn't think anything was wrong, he should have apologized for hurting me and tried to fix things instead of trying it make me out to be wrong and worrying about his damn video game.

 

[aidensmommy1]

I have so much cramping this morning, not horrible pain wise, just constant. I hope AF isn't going to show super early.

ugh, I hope not! Hopefully its for O and not AF! Stay away from Kenna !!!!

 

[mdscpa]

If temp stays up until 10dpo i might test since it's gonna be 6 days passed my dip.... Might be a good Mother's day gift at that time,

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thanks ladies. I'm glad that others feel the same way I do. I haven't had any relationships in the past that dealt with trust issues. In fact I only had 1 boyfriend before h and we broke up because his friends were jerks. H (too mad for a d in front of the h) has never really given me a reason to distrust him, but I can't help but feel like when a guy says you can trust me, he's already done something he feels guilty for. I learned from my brothers friends, never trust a guy that says trust me. He should have known that I wouldn't be alright with him being there, and when he found out I was upset about it he should have left.....not stayed 2 more hours. Even if he didn't think anything was wrong, he should have apologized for hurting me and tried to fix things instead of trying it make me out to be wrong and worrying about his damn video game.

your absolutely right. He should have apologized and he def should have left there when he knew you were mad. I learned alot from my brothers friends as well... and my own friends because Ive always hung out with ALL guys besides maybe 3 girls because I usually dont like girls! Lol (I love all u girls tho!!) but I learned most of the scandalous things men will do by dating my ex (the one who gave me Chlamydia and ruined my baby makin organs ) He cheated all the time, constantly had to be places with girls in skimpy clothes. Ugh. I think the fact that that particular ex cheated on me 50+ times (I didn't know at first) and not only did he cheat but he also possibly ruined my future in the baby making department, I think thats what makes my dh understand where I'm coming from so well.
And u know what, now that u mention it, every guy who has cheated on me has said "u can trust me" but dh hasn't and I KNOW he hasn't cheated. I hate that people even cheat!! It really causes unneeded worry & stress even when nothing is going on! I'm sure ur H had an innocent night BUT I do 120% understand why ur mad, id be too and I do agree with everything u said about him apologizing to you. Its not whether or not he actually did anything like cheating but its the fact that he lied and didn't find anything wrong with being where he was. I completely get it :-\. I'm sorry he's putting u through this. Sometimes men just dont understand that a nice apology/discussion is all it really takes and we'd feel a little better! (depending on the situation of course). I'm sorry I rambled and may have got off track somewhere in the middle of that. I hope u get a very nice apology tonight hun...u deserve one.

 

[Wishing1010]

Argh!!!!! I'm like ready to whoop some butt, Jess! You need me to come over to CO? Maybe he'll apologize today, which is way too late, but hopefully you two can make amends and he won't ever do it again.

 

[mdscpa]

Hope you slept well, Megan!!! And thank you for your service!!! I was going to go into the Air Force and do tv/radio broadcasting but then decided not to. I chickened out bc DH and I were newly married and I didn't want to be away from him for boot camp/school. Kinda childish I know but I feel it was worth it as we have had such a good marriage and that first year was so important to building the foundation we have now.

Mdscpa, I hope this spotting is just old stuff getting out of your system!!! FX FX FX!!!

I hope so too. And praying it stops today then i'll be relieved. It's my first temping and i'll be happy even if i dont get i just don't like seeing a short LP if the decided to show up...... Anyways, i'll just wait for tomorrows temp then i know i will see a dip if af do come.

I'm so sorry for you jrepp, sometimes men do that yelling before you even open your mouth thinking it's gonna scare you and just listen to him. It's there defense mechanism.... Wish you'll be ok soon.

my doc said IB can last anywhere from a day to a couple wks or even longer. Most commonly lasts 2-5 days from what ive read but It depends in the person. I know people who full on bled their whole pregnancy and were completely fine so ur not out yet. FX for u!!

HUUUUGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEE temp rise you got there Mary!!!!!! im so happy for you..... I already read a ton regarding implantation i always come across of it while TTC... I read some only have it for less than a day, a day or for few days so that's really confusing. What i do know is that most of the time it occurs before your is due. Just praying that it stays brown or just stop at once so i'll be ok. Like i said earlier, i'm not worried if i didn't get this cycle i just don't like a short LP coz that's another problem.

Im just so happy right now that most of us here got a rise in temps. hopefully it stays that way.

FX and baby to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet ur LP will be just fine . Last month u spotted for 7 days right? So hopefully it'll be 12-13dpo before AF would be due to show. Most women have an LP of 13-15 days...some 16 days but that's less common. If a bfp doesn't happen this cycle, I think ur LP will be a good length (based on the amount of days u spotted last cycle as well as ur "norm cycle length").

And omgosh id be in shock if my dip and spike amounts to something! I've never had a second esrogen surge or any kind of big dip below the cover line followed by a spike so its out of the norm for me personally. Maybe its a new normal thing for me. We'll see. I usually have alot more "symptoms" than I do now or they usually start earlier any ways. FX our charts stay up now!!!

Last cycle i spotted for 9days but very very small just see it with CM and it started 2 days before i expected my period but it stayed away for a long time maybe due to medicines im taking. This spotting is different and it's goes to my undies and its dark brown this is waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy to early to arrive before my expected af unless this is my normal cycle now if af does arrive... Expecting it on May 15th, that's 7 more days.... So hoping for a good temps or af arrives on schedule to know if i have a normal LP.

Can't wait to see BFPs in this thread... I love you all ladies......

FX.

 

[Jrepp]

Lol! It makes perfect sense to me....but neither of us has a penis. I know he would never cheat on me. I always know where he is. But it's the principal of the matter.

Thanks Kenna, I would love for you to come to Colorado but not for my h's sorry behind.

I did puke again so I think it's from the Tylenol and not eating since 10am yesterday morning.

Listen to me rambling on about how douchey my husband is when we have charts to analyze and discuss!

 

[Wishing1010]

Hey, issues with our SO are just as important as charts!!! Well, if I could, I would come over and take you to whatever your fave breakfast spot is and let you vent out loud! I think my problem is that I have no one to talk to, I have a sister but she is in Illinois and my mom doesn't get good reception where she lives so I can't just pick up and call her.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hey, issues with our SO are just as important as charts!!! Well, if I could, I would come over and take you to whatever your fave breakfast spot is and let you vent out loud! I think my problem is that I have no one to talk to, I have a sister but she is in Illinois and my mom doesn't get good reception where she lives so I can't just pick up and call her.

I'm right with Kenna! id beat up anyone for my girls! and SO issues are def very important as well! We're always here for each other for ANYTHING and that's what I love about this particular group. We discuss EVERYTHING!! I you ladies!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hope you slept well, Megan!!! And thank you for your service!!! I was going to go into the Air Force and do tv/radio broadcasting but then decided not to. I chickened out bc DH and I were newly married and I didn't want to be away from him for boot camp/school. Kinda childish I know but I feel it was worth it as we have had such a good marriage and that first year was so important to building the foundation we have now.

Mdscpa, I hope this spotting is just old stuff getting out of your system!!! FX FX FX!!!

I hope so too. And praying it stops today then i'll be relieved. It's my first temping and i'll be happy even if i dont get i just don't like seeing a short LP if the decided to show up...... Anyways, i'll just wait for tomorrows temp then i know i will see a dip if af do come.

I'm so sorry for you jrepp, sometimes men do that yelling before you even open your mouth thinking it's gonna scare you and just listen to him. It's there defense mechanism.... Wish you'll be ok soon.

my doc said IB can last anywhere from a day to a couple wks or even longer. Most commonly lasts 2-5 days from what ive read but It depends in the person. I know people who full on bled their whole pregnancy and were completely fine so ur not out yet. FX for u!!

HUUUUGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEE temp rise you got there Mary!!!!!! im so happy for you..... I already read a ton regarding implantation i always come across of it while TTC... I read some only have it for less than a day, a day or for few days so that's really confusing. What i do know is that most of the time it occurs before your is due. Just praying that it stays brown or just stop at once so i'll be ok. Like i said earlier, i'm not worried if i didn't get this cycle i just don't like a short LP coz that's another problem.

Im just so happy right now that most of us here got a rise in temps. hopefully it stays that way.

FX and baby to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet ur LP will be just fine . Last month u spotted for 7 days right? So hopefully it'll be 12-13dpo before AF would be due to show. Most women have an LP of 13-15 days...some 16 days but that's less common. If a bfp doesn't happen this cycle, I think ur LP will be a good length (based on the amount of days u spotted last cycle as well as ur "norm cycle length").

And omgosh id be in shock if my dip and spike amounts to something! I've never had a second esrogen surge or any kind of big dip below the cover line followed by a spike so its out of the norm for me personally. Maybe its a new normal thing for me. We'll see. I usually have alot more "symptoms" than I do now or they usually start earlier any ways. FX our charts stay up now!!!

Last cycle i spotted for 9days but very very small just see it with CM and it started 2 days before i expected my period but it stayed away for a long time maybe due to medicines im taking. This spotting is different and it's goes to my undies and its dark brown this is waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy to early to arrive before my expected af unless this is my normal cycle now if af does arrive... Expecting it on May 15th, that's 7 more days.... So hoping for a good temps or af arrives on schedule to know if i have a normal LP.

Can't wait to see BFPs in this thread... I love you all ladies......

FX.

I have a very good feeling for u! If ur spotting is out of the norm this cycle, it could def be a good sign FX!!!

I like dont even want to temp tomorrow lol. Well I really badly want to but I dont! I just dont want to see it go down. Lol. I will temp so we'll see. I have been cramping yest and today and the weird thing is is I usually cramp from the day before O all the way until AF comes. This cycle I haven't been cramping much at all until yest a.m-ish. And my bbs dont hurt! This is all just weird. Maybe the enzymes are affecting everything. We shall see! :-D. I just hope at least one of us ladies get a bfp at test time. That'd make my month

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hey, issues with our SO are just as important as charts!!! Well, if I could, I would come over and take you to whatever your fave breakfast spot is and let you vent out loud! I think my problem is that I have no one to talk to, I have a sister but she is in Illinois and my mom doesn't get good reception where she lives so I can't just pick up and call her.

if u ever want to exchange #'s we can txt anytime! . Then if I'm not on and u need to talk, u can always reach someone . If u want to do that, let me know and I'll msg u my number.

 

[Jrepp]

I tried to talk to both my mom and sister and they took his side