Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Wishing1010]

Aww I love it Megan!!!!!!! Yay!!!! Woo!!!! So sweet!!!

 

[Megamegan]

Lol we are about to tell my mom. He couldn't hold it in hahaha!!

He already posted on FB about how great of a day it was.

 

[pitbullmomma]

Wanted to pop back in and see how everyone was doing! Looks like this might be another m/c for me my spotting turned heavy yesterday and continued today. Bright red and very thick. I haven't taken another test because, well, I'm just too chicken shit. I also haven't gone to the doctor because they will simple tell me there's no stopping a m/c at 5 weeks and call them if the bleeding is excessive enough that I pass out. I still FEEL pg, but I don't know....cramps haven't floored me like with previous m/c and my clots haven't been excessive and huge. Maybe I'm just grasping.

Baby's fathers (haha, yes two daddies. My story, I believe, is probably several pages back) are wildly optimistic even after I sobbed that they picked a bum surrogate. They told me all we can do is try and try and try and we'll only not try when I say it's time to stop. I guess I will test when the bleeding stops.

Has anyone ever tried Vitamin B-6 to help progesterone. Or hear any good things about bee pollen? I know my prenatal has 2.6 mg but I read something about 100mg helping with progesterone levels? Or uterine lining. Maybe I'll go the vitamin route.

I don't know. My heart just hurts.

I hope you are all feeling wonderful. Good luck and loads of baby dust. Maybe I'll be back to the TWW soon enough.

Love and babydust

Jill

 

[wncmomma]

Yayyyy! So cute!

 

[pitbullmomma]

Yayyyy Megan!!! Whoohoo!!!! Doing the happy dance for you

 

[Megamegan]

Jill,

I am so sorry! I hope this is not a loss for you. It is awesome that the dads are so positive. But I'm sure this is devastating whether they are positive or not. I hope to not see you in the 2ww again unless absolutely necessary

 

[pitbullmomma]

Oh, don't worry about me lovely. I'm hardheaded. It is devastating, but the thing about grief is that it's okay to visit...you just can't pack up an live there. I'll be alright. You! You need to celebrate and happy dance your bum off! Woohoo!

 

[Megamegan]

Aww what a great metaphor for grief- I love that. We are all in this together- I am happy for me at the moment, of course, but at the same time I want others to be happy too. I want everyone to get and STAY pregnant!

I just talked to my mom and she explained her full septum to me, and when I told her about the HSG she asked if I had one- nope. I don't think it's hereditary anyway but she was curious. It was so great to be able to talk to my mom about it! The way we told her was this: We were both smiling (on FaceTime) and I said "Do you think you'll be able to get off work next February?" and she instantly was like "No way!! No way!" and started crying. I knew she would know what I meant, lol. DH didn't even get a chance to say his line "Because that's when the baby is due!" haha! He has been researching all night about pregnancy tests just to make sure mine was positive. Well I did another this evening which was also positive. I will probably do one tomorrow with SMU again, or whenever it looks concentrated enough, and if it's darker, I'll get a test done at the doc so they can set me up with the OB.

Goodnight ladies!

 

[J2cap]

Aww what a great metaphor for grief- I love that. We are all in this together- I am happy for me at the moment, of course, but at the same time I want others to be happy too. I want everyone to get and STAY pregnant!

I just talked to my mom and she explained her full septum to me, and when I told her about the HSG she asked if I had one- nope. I don't think it's hereditary anyway but she was curious. It was so great to be able to talk to my mom about it! The way we told her was this: We were both smiling (on FaceTime) and I said "Do you think you'll be able to get off work next February?" and she instantly was like "No way!! No way!" and started crying. I knew she would know what I meant, lol. DH didn't even get a chance to say his line "Because that's when the baby is due!" haha! He has been researching all night about pregnancy tests just to make sure mine was positive. Well I did another this evening which was also positive. I will probably do one tomorrow with SMU again, or whenever it looks concentrated enough, and if it's darker, I'll get a test done at the doc so they can set me up with the OB.

Goodnight ladies!

I'm so so so happy for you girl! I go in weds and Friday for my beta and my doctor said he's optimistic but can't confirm till Friday. I told him it was fine as long as he confirms! Haha

 

[MarieMo7]

Congrats Megan! So happy for you!

 

[confuzion]

Huge huge congrats megan!

 

[sn0wbunnie]

Eeee I need some help! I started spotting today. AF isn't due for another week. Could it be implantation spotting? According to FF I am 11 DPO. But, a friend of mine said I could maybe only be 9 DPO. I also had a bit of a temp drop today. Got a BFN this morning... When should I test again???

 

[wncmomma]

That is awesome! My parents are coming in town in a few weeks so I will wait to tell them in person! And i want to get a darker positive before I tell hubby so I think I will wait until this weekend to tell him.... its already killing me!

 

[wncmomma]

I'm itching ro take another one because I've heard those stories where someone gets a bfn in the morning and then a bfp in the night. .. so makes me wonder if it would be darker. But I know i should wait!

 

[confuzion]

You're better off waiting wnc. Much more likely to see a difference. I got a BFP at 11 DPO with afternoon urine. It was a BFN the next day with FMU . Thought maybe it was a chemical but no tests did get darker and definitely still pregnant. Save yourself the squinting lol. Wait until tomorrow at the earliest!

 

[mdscpa]

So so happy for you Megan and Wcnmomma.....

 

[MandaB]

Thanks for the welcome ladies! We celebrated one of our fur babies 4th birthday today! Spoiled him rotten with treats and toys! Anyway...Day 13 dpo and bfn this morning...the waiting continues. I called my OBGYN for a Letrozole refill this morning and was told by her assistant that after 3 rounds they'll refer me to a fertility specialist...is that normal? Also, I had to ask her to check my progesterone this next cycle to see if I have a progesterone defect. Seems like they should be the ones suggesting to run tests, and not me?!?

Mdscpa keep us posted on how your labs turn out!

 

[ab75]

Congratulations wcn and j2, h&h 9 months xx

Megan, OMG, huge congratulations to you and dh, I teared up reading about you telling your dh and mum. H&H 9 months to you xx

 

[ab75]

I hope its not another mc Jill xx

 

[wncmomma]

I caved! But I could see it with in 30 seconds of testing. Still faint but I think it's getting better!