Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

[Ms Elizabeth]

and....ladies correct me if i'm wrong....but I hear you can spot either way.

 

[patienceiav]

The next few days will be crucial, 3/4 times I got my bfp while spotting lightly, then temp crashed, lines vanished and on came AF before i even made it past the end of my LP it's hard not to be cynical after all that ! I'm upping the cream just in case it can help keep the spotting away, maybe just long enough for my body to realise not to have AF... but tonight i shall not worry, hubby will be home soon and we can do everything non baby talk related maybe i can sleep well tonight after seeing that line at least !

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

ok FINALLY caught up. Lord help me because I can't remember everything I just read. lol.

Patience, I haven't looked at the pictures yet so I will as soon as I can! they wouldn't load on my phone and now I'm on my lap top so I will go back and look. but I AM PRAYING you have your sticky bean!!!! You soooooo deserve it and I am soooooooo hoping this is it for you!!!!

Turtle, That is a huge bummer! I really hate when my friends announce they are preggers and I'm over here like DAMN YOU!!!!!!!! but I am happy for them. It's really a huge pot of mixed feelings when that happens.

Welcome back Lavender!!!

Seriously my brain is a major fail!!!! Geez. Thats all I got. haha.

AFM: I took a HPT this morning..... BFN! As I expected. AF is due this weekend but so sign of her yet. I think I am about 14DPO so she should be right around the corner. I told the DH about how long my eggs last when I ovulate last weekend, and he was kinda shocked. This weekend I am sitting him down and telling him WE ARE getting pregnant this month. I'm done with waiting. IT IS HAPPENING. Which means he has to have a lot of sex with me. lol. Poor man.

This is was only my second Cycle on Clomid so we have to give it a few cycles. If we don't get a pregnant this coming cycle I will call and ask for some further advice and see what the DR has to say. She is right on top of the whole lets get you pregnant thing. Which is amazing and I know she won't lead me in the wrong direction. The Clomid is doing it's job, I just wasn't anywhere near little swimmers when I ovulated so not a great recipe for success. lol.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

yes, relax....enjoy hubby...try and think of other things...
temps, lines, and us...we will all be here in the morning!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

patience - i'm not SUPER familiar with those strips you were using....but playing in photoshop....there's def something there in the second nuclear pee one. can you see something on that one? I have no idea what they are supposed to look like...

 

[patienceiav]

Charlie, there must have been a lot of pages to catch up on ! hopefully the eggy info for your hubby will make him realise he has to step his game up, it's only for a week and when you're on the chlomid you'll be pretty regular this is going to happen for you !! I'm so pleased your dr is on board, that must make things so much easier

MsE I absolutely see it irl, looks nicer once the test is dry but it's hard to tell the colour of it, i mean it's absolutely there but looks more like a dark purple to me, probably the pee my line detecting eyes even see it on the top one from yesterday which i did with about 3seconds of diluted pee in a public toilet lol !

maybe i'll snap it now it's dry to get a comparison, i'm still miffed the ICs show NOTHING !! but i found out these other tests i'm using are 10miu as well

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Patience....i really dont want to give false hope...but i see something!! I'm keeping everything crossed for ya Hun!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

And public toilet pee....radioactive pee.....Hun, we need to talk about that. Lol

 

[DannaD]

https://i1128.photobucket.com/albums/m482/real-dufresne/patienceTestcopy.jpg

testing testing

 

[Charmed86]

That's brilliant Danna! Definitely something there!

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Patience I definitely see a two lines on the tests!!!!!!!And Yes hoping DH gets the idea and doesn't fuss when I start dressing up and prompting sex haha. At least I try to be sexy for him! It's not like I walk up and say hey I'm Ovulating Put your sperm in me! ROFL. I did tell him his little guys CAN live for like 3 days but thats IF it's ideal conditions in there. haha. Poor man. He gets more info than he wants sometimes.

AND OMG This pee convo is killing me! ROFL!!!!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Haha, charlie....so true... I'm always like....did you know.....men dont need that much info...but i sure do like to share!

 

[Charmed86]

I'm so upset DH & I had this silly thing going that when I got pregnant, we'd buy a 4 slice toaster. He's wanted one for ages, but I said we have no need yet. so we made a deal! I was so looking forward to surprising him with one when I got my BFP.. I know it sounds so silly & nerdy!

Tonight, a pipe burst outside & DH had left the kitchen window open, so water went all over our appliances Including our old toaster. So now we have to buy a new one. DH said he's annoyed to buy a 2 slice one, only to replace it when I get my BFP, so I said to get the 4 slice now.. I mean, who knows when I'll get my BFP.

This TWW is getting to me & I just want to cry because I am certain that this isn't my cycle

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Awww charmed....i SOOOO want to send you a 2 slot toaster....what a cute idea.....stupid pipe.

 

[Charmed86]

Aw thanks MsE It's so annoying! I'll have to find a new way to surprise him now! The toaster was fun though, very us xx

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

that's such a cute idea!!! I want you to keep it! Wish I thought up something as cute as that!! my way....yeah....not as cute and memorable as a toaster!!

MAN, can I ship one via amazon!?!??!

 

[Turtle0630]

Thanks ladies, I really appreciate your support. I know it's probably silly for me to get so down about it, it's just hard when you want something so badly and you just can't get it, and other people seem to be able to so easily (as I KNOW you ladies understand). Don't get me wrong, I'm really quite happy for both of these couples, it's really wonderful news! Just hurts at the same time. Anyways, thanks again!

Patience, I am so happy for you!!! And so, so anxious to see how tomorrow goes for you. I couldn't hope any harder that this is your sticky bean. I agree with Cdex that I think I want this for you at least as much as I want this for myself, as I know what a hard road you've had. In fact, I want it for all of you lovelies like that! I agree that we're in this together.

Charmed, I'm sorry about the toaster thing! That was a really cute idea though! I bet you'll come up with something equally as good though!

 

[LavenderLove]

Hahaha this convo of radioactive pee and the "pee on everything" quote has me laughing so hard! I have radioactive pee so much now myself. Any more brightly coloured and I think it'll glow in the dark!

Patience I swear I see the lines, too! They're faint but they're there. I'm crossing my fingers so hard for you! Fat kitty pictures are definitely in order too, haha.

Hugs Charmed. The toaster idea is SO cute! Maybe you could get a new... blender? Ha I'm not great on ideas. DH and I are huge gaming nerds and somehow I don't have a clue on how to tell him creatively!

Turtle it is such a mixed bag! You're happy for the other people but frustrated all at the same time. But venting and talks are what we're all here for.

 

[patienceiav]

Oh damn Charmed that's a cute idea about the toaster though ! I'm sure you'll find a new way of surprising him so you're holding off for a couple of days to see if AF comes ?

It's ok Turtle, we're here regardless sometimes you need to step back and take a breather, maybe it'll help you get your bfp this month or maybe it'll help you be in a better mindset when trying next month, either way keep smiling !

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Charmed that's such a huge bummer!! Stupid pipe!! I love the toaster idea so cute. Maybe you will get your BFP and you'll have a great idea pop into your head!💜