Stopping BCP to TTC***Updates & Progress/Noted Changes Since Stopping BCP***24BFPs***

[Ms Elizabeth]

I'll have to have a party when I'm done. Lol. Bye bye.

 

[LavenderLove]

Haha, yes! The "goodbye you headache of an ex" party!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Yes! I sort of...in a high school childish way...want to show up looking fabulous and very pregnant when I have to sign the closing papers. He thinks I moved in with my parents. Im about 8 states away. Rotfl.

 

[LavenderLove]

Hey, they say the best form of revenge is success and happiness!

 

[Emiloo]

Hey ladies! Just a little update! Ive been off the pill (cerelle POP) for 7 days now and just finished a 4 day bleed! Now the waiting begins...

 

[MrsHudson]

Awesome! I bet you're excited.

Ugh back to work for me . I'm so gassy today it's awful. And it's officially one week until AF is supposed to show up. I hope not.

 

[Emiloo]

I am... but also wish I had some idea of whats going to happen. Argh! Hate not knowing.

I hope your symptoms end up giving you a BFP!

 

[MrsHudson]

I know what you mean. The first month was really rough for me so if you have any questions please ask!

Me too. We'll see. Not much else going on other than that.

 

[mkyerby16]

All I want for Christmas is some bfp's, some bfp's, some bfp's..... lol just wanted to drop in and wish you ladies lots of baby dust!

 

[LavenderLove]

Thank you mkyerby! Funny thing is I've been singing that to myself, too!

The first month off for me was pretty crazy, Emiloo. Exciting, but crazy! Kind of expect the unexpected! I got symptoms I never had before and I swore up and down I was pregnant at times. I do hope it goes smoothly for you!

MrsH I'm sending you so much baby dust! Keep away AF, keep away!

Looks like I had a false alarm with O since I'm such a OPK newbie. Got a positive one today so now it's really BD time! Glad I got the other times in though, I'm sure that'll help.

 

[MrsHudson]

The first month off for me was pretty crazy, Emiloo. Exciting, but crazy! Kind of expect the unexpected! I got symptoms I never had before and I swore up and down I was pregnant at times. I do hope it goes smoothly for you!

THIS! I'm sure people think I'm nuts but seriously for me it was exactly that.... crazy! I'm surprised DH didn't divorce me lol. I felt like something had taken over my body. But as soon as AF hit for the first time I felt myself again.

Thanks Lavender . I really hope it's it for us.
Have fun BD'ing hehe.

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

Well Ladies, I'm officially on CD 31, I got my Blood test back for Ovulation and it was another FABULOUS Ovulation. I don't really know how many DPO since I don't Chart (i'm terrible at it because my dogs wake me up at random times), but I think I am about 12DPO. lol. My sister just called me and she said she was buying me HPT from Walmart because they were only $.88 each. lol. So she bought 13 of them haha.

I'm going to test this weekend and I'm SUPER nervous. I really want a BFP!!!! I am so tired of waiting. *sigh*

MsE, I dont know much about short sales, but I know they take a long time to go through and sometimes you miss out on a faster sale because people don't want to deal with the short sale. I know that we avoided it when we were buying our house.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Oooooh charlie....FX!!!

Yeah I'd avoid it too....but...I'm stuck ya know. My place is priced right....the same as similar places yet it has a garage, new kitchen, etc and others dont for the same price. So...I hope that does soemthing....ya know? I just need it gone...so I can move on!!

 

[CrazyCharlie2]

I don't blame you one bit MsE!!! I hope that you Get it sold soon!!!!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Thx. You should hear me on the phone being nice...err....trying to. "It's been 5 months....do you think you could give the realtor a key so she can show it?"

*bangs head on table*

 

[twinkie2]

MsE I hope its not too late to add my two cents. Short sale is great for your situation I think, however, you have to have bank approval for it first, so make sure it's an option before planning on going that route. Also, typically any equity in the home will be used to pay off closing costs at sale, so if there is any equity in the house, that will go to those costs as well. Lets say you sell the house for $100,000 and have an $80,000 mortgage, then the bank would take their $15,000 closing costs before giving you the remaining $5,000. Is there any equity that will help to pay off the costs? I know that often closing costs can exceed equity, so I understand that sometimes money still needs to be in hand. I just don't understand how a judge would allow him the house, yet let it totally ruin you? Seems like a lot of bullshit if you ask me! So not fair! Sorry you have to deal with this sort of crap from your ex.

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Never too late! Thats the part I'm not 100% on. He hasn't paid in months....so as of right now...what its worth is what we owe. So we are even. If he paid....well we would be better off. But he cant afford to catch up on it nor pay closing costs. I have to call the bank....just curious what people know....before i lock myself into some thing worse. Lol

Yeah, the judge. I can hire a lawyer to hold him in contempt.....for $395 an hour. Originally he said, yes get divorced. So i hired a lawyer for $395 an hour. For three months, he avoided being served papers. Cost me big $$$$$. Story of my life. Lol.

So I have to hire another lawyer to get him to pay the mortgage....which he doesn't have so....can you bleed a stone?

Thanks for the support ladies. I know its off topic!

 

[twinkie2]

Any legal aid offices you can contact for help??? I'm so angry for you! I understand the legal costs, I have a sister that desperately needs a judge to change her child support from her ex boyfriend (and include garnishments!) cause he is also a big pile of stinky poo like your ex, but she doesn't because the attorneys cost too much. Just started looking at legal aid stuff for her, hope it works!

 

[Ms Elizabeth]

Never though of that route....thanks!

I used to work in a prison, I was thinking one of those guys could help......i kid i kid....

I feel for your sister. Thankfully I was smart enough to not have kids with that one.

 

[twinkie2]

hey no problem, I really hope it helps!