Cattia
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Oh wow, huge congrats Nimbus!!!
I don't think your new school can refuse to take you becasue you're pregnant, so I think it is really up to you whether you take the job or not if they have actually offerd it to you. I would go with what you think will make you happiest and less stressed in the long run. Whatever decisions you make are bound to P some people off, but I have learned that you can't worry about that sort of thing - you have to get on with your own life and do what's best for you and your family. I sometimes feel guilty about going off on mat leave again so soon after having Abgail, but when I look back on the past 7 years that I've been working here, I have put so much into it and done so many extra duties and hours, that now I think I deserve my break!
I don't think your new school can refuse to take you becasue you're pregnant, so I think it is really up to you whether you take the job or not if they have actually offerd it to you. I would go with what you think will make you happiest and less stressed in the long run. Whatever decisions you make are bound to P some people off, but I have learned that you can't worry about that sort of thing - you have to get on with your own life and do what's best for you and your family. I sometimes feel guilty about going off on mat leave again so soon after having Abgail, but when I look back on the past 7 years that I've been working here, I have put so much into it and done so many extra duties and hours, that now I think I deserve my break!