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[poppy666]

and i woke up at a lovely 5am and here i am. hm.

so question for you ladiess. my SIL just set a date for her wedding (they have issues theyve been sorting for ages and we never thought theyd actually get married, let alone dump it all on us NOW!?) anyway, yesterday she told us that she set the date for September 18th 2011... and she expects me to be her bridesmaid (she was my bridesmaid in my wedding last year). September 18th is 3 weeks after my due date and she has known that. I definitely intend to breastfeed. Is it even possible to be a bridesmaid in a longgg catholic wedding, and bring a 3 week old who is nursing? And shes talking about us going to try on and size dresses and stuff, obviously that is impossible for me right now right? How will I know what size I will be 3 weeks after giving birth? Also, she expects husband to be an usher so its not like he can take care of the 3 week old baby.

Suggestions?

If it was me id just say im very honoured to be asked, but ask her to have someone on standby b/c you dont know what your circumstances will be, you could go over by 2wks if your consultant allows it ( A lot of 1st babies dont like coming early) The fitting of bridesmaid dress may become a problem basically that close to your due date anything could crop up.... But thats just something id do. Im chief bridesmaid for my friend this year sometime she's thinking end of June, but she's fully aware im TTC and ive already said if i become PG in next few months i will step down as bridesmaid cos i'll have a growing bump by then n i wont feel right or comfortable doing it x

 

[poppy666]

PK and Hopes yes i read about female spermies being slower swimmers too, think im just scared if i dont dtd 2 days prior to 0v i wont catch the eggy for some daft reason lol

But i guess i could try it out this cycle and if i dont catch eggy with holding off just take the risk of another boy dtd on Ov day next cycle but saying that there was a thread on 2nd tri when i was PG before and some were expecting both sex's who had dtd on Ov day

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Oh blimy, missed it all!

Sorry PK, but if you have a BFP brewing it will be there tomorrow, try and keep busy today and try again tomorrow. My FRER didn't show up till 11DPO and that was implanting quite early at 6DPO I see what your talking about on the 1st test, but I have also seen that sort of line on a defective test Having said that I see a hint of a line where the line should be, so I still got my hopes up for you. for your test tomorrow x

back later to catch up on everything else x

 

[lupinerainbow]

Coral- I will change it so you can see that chart as well then let you know so you can try again, thanks for trying though! Aww your OH is sweet bless him
MC- Nice to see your OH is happy with whichever you have Mine is happy with either but would prefer a little girl I have always wanted a girl but recently I want a boy so its also good with me whichever Hope connor feels better soon
Hopes- I think not being in the service is probably the best decision hun you wouldn’t be able to get a dress till like a week before anyway so if you decide you can in the mean time that would be okay too
PK- You still have plenty of time for bfp hun just wait a few days and test again, your definitely not out yet and if that was implanation cramping last night then you will have to wait a few days to get a hcg reading anyway
Caz- Yay! For +OPK :happdance:
Hey- Tink & PJ + any other dingdongs I haven’t noticed online
AFM- I am such an idiot! I set my alarm for 6.30 this morning so I could wake up do temp go back to sleep so then its set early so would definitely have been asleep for 3 hours… well I woke up at about 9.30 am and did temp and was annoyed that OH must have turned alarm off without waking me… came downstairs and moaned at him and he said he didn’t touch it.. just look on phone and I set it for 6.30pm
Took 40mg of soy last night and going to take 80mg tonight…
Dexter had stopped screaming through the whole night whenever he cries I always wake up and he was crying through the whole night and everyone was getting a bit sleep deprived but SIL has stopped breastfeeding and gone onto formula so now he is getting full up he sleeps all day and night and cries every 4 hours for 2oz of formula which he take 1 hour to take but its all good especially cause now I get to feed him

xxxxx

 

[poppy666]

Afternoon my little Soy buddy my turn tomorrow night 'gulp' Worse thing with a newborn is being sleep deprived lol... korben use to have 2oz and we took turns to feed him, but it took an hour to get that down him by the time you went to sleep you was awake again giving the next feed

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Almost forgot Coral, i did your avatar, although I wont be upset if you save it till another time cause you have your gorgeous 4d pic on there

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Hey Lupine

Currently got whacking headache, so keeping off comp for a bit. Prob be on in a little while x

 

[lupinerainbow]

Aww tink hope you feel better soon!
Poppy yep its your turn tomorrow it will be okay all
SIL is lucky she has me, OH, her OH and my MIL helping her with the night feeds etc and all day so she can sleep

xxxxxx

 

[coral11680]

thanks tink I love the avatar, you are a clever girlie! I will put it up soon just need to save to my comp as I'm on ipad at the mo. Will keep my 3d pic up for a bit longer though.
Well, guess what I have the stomach bug now been feeling a bit sick on and off today and went to Costco with the family. Just got back and all the way home I was feeling like I was going to throw up. Got in the house and had to run to the toilet to throw up my lunch tink maybe we should change our lunch date to another day this week, I prob wont be up to lunch and don't want to spread my lurgies to you. X

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Hey Lupine, she's one LUCKY gal how nice to have you all supporting her. Awww that baby is lucky too, so nice your family is close like that. Shame she couldn't continue breastfeeding though, would be about now where she would have enough milk to feed a creche Don't get me wrong, I'm not anti bottle at all, I mix fed all mine except my first from day one. She wouldn't be able to hand baby over so much though, think mine were attached to my tit for weeks until they would let up for more than an hour I just layed there like a cow being milked and had DH run round after me Don't worry bour your temp hun, to be honest the ones right at the beginning of your cycle matter the least x

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Oh poor you sick bugs are horrible without being preggo. Don't worry bout tomorrow, I'm free more or less all week so wait till you feel better eh? I like Ryan's face x

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Making your avatar made me wonder about why we have called ourselves what we have? My mum and dad called me Tinkerbell as a child, cause I was cute and fairly-like but also a little tinker Its my sentimental way of remembering them (both in heaven) x

 

[coral11680]

Thanks tink, yeah I'm free all week also so would rather enjoy the grub
Thats lovely that u were called tinkerbell by your mum and dad and sad you don't have them around still my dad used to call me Lou Lou bell
You know why I'm Coral right? Just my middle name. X

 

[coral11680]

Oh and my dad now still calls me his little angel sometimes prob because I'm his only daughter. He has my brother and 2 other sons with another woman(long story I can bore u with one day)!

 

[mothercabbage]

awww tink
coral i think i got that tummy bug too...i feel sick as a shit bag today!! and got wind/tummy cramps..ouch!...poor connor has been ill all day and now me...cant wait for OH to come home,relieve the pressure of looking after a poorly LO.....you cancelling your dinner date tomorrow girls?? xx

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

No I didn't, but its nice. Bout the only scenareo I could come up with was some kind of under the sea thing. Was amusing doing a google image search to find a pic to work with, using the phrase "pregnant mermaid"

 

[mothercabbage]

phoebe...babydream...where are ya?! xx

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Awwww I was a daddies girl too Lou Lou bell yes spout off your life story some time, be fun I'm nosey and like hearing about peoples lives so I'll be in my elemant

Your feeling ill also MC? bad enough looking after poorly LO's without feeling rotton yourself. FX DH gets in on time to give you a break. Wish you both better. Yes Coral is blowing me out

 

[coral11680]

tink.
Mc its shite isn't it

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

So why 'mothercabbage' ?