Team Ding Dong... Bonking, Bumping, and Burping Along Together! ;-)

[Damita]

:wave: afternoon ladies, hows everyone?

 

[lupinerainbow]

Hey damita :wave: I'm okay how are you? Where are you in your cycle now?

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[mrsamyrach]

Goodluck pops! And blimey amy did u go for a jog before taking your temp

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noooooo i had just woke up and took it i didnt ovulate last month thanks to fecking soy month before so hoping xxxx

 

[lupinerainbow]

Oh dear, i didn't take soy this cycle but did the last 2 so will be interesting to see if it happens to me also! Hope you catch the egg this time amy- have you done anything different this cycle?!

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[mrsamyrach]

nooo havent started shagging yet but might start tonight with temp going up i use cbfm as well

 

[poppy666]

Well im back doc seemed nice i guess, felt very awkward talking and didnt get everything out 'he'd think i was psyco if i had' anyways he referring me to see someone, but thinks ive postnal depression WTF my LO is 10mths so doubt that pfft, did mention medication, but id prefer to see how talking does before being drugged up

So thats it

 

[future_numan]

Your right, Poppy ! Our kids are almost the same age !!

 

[mrsamyrach]

Well im back doc seemed nice i guess, felt very awkward talking and didnt get everything out 'he'd think i was psyco if i had' anyways he referring me to see someone, but thinks ive postnal depression WTF my LO is 10mths so doubt that pfft, did mention medication, but id prefer to see how talking does before being drugged up

So thats it

popples ive been putting it off got psychiatrist on friday but i need to go im on verge of a breakdown
it may be post natal hun my niece was told when her lo was 14 months she too also bottled it up xx

 

[phoebe]

Well im back doc seemed nice i guess, felt very awkward talking and didnt get everything out 'he'd think i was psyco if i had' anyways he referring me to see someone, but thinks ive postnal depression WTF my LO is 10mths so doubt that pfft, did mention medication, but id prefer to see how talking does before being drugged up

So thats it

Glad u spoke to the dr Popples, it really was for the best hun. And it could be PND, but i imagine u just toddled along thinking all was cushty. But then with what happened at xmas, pushed u over the edge so to speak. I hope the counselling helps hun, i do think its better to air ur demons, rather than bottle them up. Big hugs to u gal, i am proud of yaxxxxxx

 

[poppy666]

Well make sure you go Amy dont want you ill sweetie

 

[phoebe]

Your right, Poppy ! Our kids are almost the same age !!

Hello Future_Numan, welcome to the clan xxxx

 

[poppy666]

Well im back doc seemed nice i guess, felt very awkward talking and didnt get everything out 'he'd think i was psyco if i had' anyways he referring me to see someone, but thinks ive postnal depression WTF my LO is 10mths so doubt that pfft, did mention medication, but id prefer to see how talking does before being drugged up

So thats it

Glad u spoke to the dr Popples, it really was for the best hun. And it could be PND, but i imagine u just toddled along thinking all was cushty. But then with what happened at xmas, pushed u over the edge so to speak. I hope the counselling helps hun, i do think its better to air ur demons, rather than bottle them up. Big hugs to u gal, i am proud of yaxxxxxx

Thats exactly what the Doctor said, cos i dont talk to anyone about my feelings and stuff etc Xmas may have just push me too far/ too much to handle on my own.. but i went and nearly chickened out again

 

[phoebe]

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Well im back doc seemed nice i guess, felt very awkward talking and didnt get everything out 'he'd think i was psyco if i had' anyways he referring me to see someone, but thinks ive postnal depression WTF my LO is 10mths so doubt that pfft, did mention medication, but id prefer to see how talking does before being drugged up

So thats it

Glad u spoke to the dr Popples, it really was for the best hun. And it could be PND, but i imagine u just toddled along thinking all was cushty. But then with what happened at xmas, pushed u over the edge so to speak. I hope the counselling helps hun, i do think its better to air ur demons, rather than bottle them up. Big hugs to u gal, i am proud of yaxxxxxx

Thats exactly what the Doctor said, cos i dont talk to anyone about my feelings and stuff etc Xmas may have just push me too far/ too much to handle on my own.. but i went and nearly chickened out again

U is very nawty again hehehe!! a definite trip for mr handy to botty land I know its hard to talk about feelings. It may shock and stun u to know that i am also a very private person, i think we all our to a certain extent. And to talk about ur most deepest and private thoughts is an unbearable thought. But trust me on this, it will help hun. U have taken the 1st step and that alone is a massive start in getting u back to feeling a lot better xxxx

 

[pk2of8]

good morning luvs

poppy, i hope your doc appt goes well sweetie your cycle will be back to normal soon hun.

regal! so good to see you back sweetie! you're right on track for starting to get back into the swing of things to start ttc again in march

tink, phoee, and coral...how are you doing today?

amy, my temp jumped up oddly a few days ago. i think it's ok if it's just the odd one here or there and shouldn't affect your chart.

lupe, sounds like you're pretty busy sweetie just try to enjoy the wedding planning hun. it's such a big deal and you want to be able to remember it fondly...not for being stressful

babyd, i agree with tink and the others hun. defo better to quit than to be in a job that you're miserable with. it's not worth the stress. i hope your aunt and dh's gran get the medical help they need to get better sweetie i'll be praying for them as well.

hopes and ladyb, i defo want to get a doppler as well! it sounds so exciting to have one at home. i just wish my dh would be able to hear it i wonder if we can find one with a video display??? hmmm...have to do some research on that...

hopeful, you'll do fine with us sweetie...we'll help you keep pma up

damita, you sound like you have your plate full too hun!

caz and jenn...how you holding up in tww?

china, when do you think you will ov sweetie?

hmmmm.....who am i missing.... i can't remember now, but great big to everybody!!!

afm, i think i need to just learn to keep my mouth shut about how dh is doing on the front every time i complement him and say how wonderful he is doing and how good i am feeling about it all, something happens to go and screw it up. i'm jinxing myself with it anyway, so after i said that, dh said he was too tired (of course) to bd, so he said he would bd after a few hours sleep or in the morning. so fine, i accepted that...what was i gonna say?? but then in the morning, he was still too tired and didn't want to which made me very upset, naturally. so then the stress of it got to both of us, but then dh said he would masturbate into one of the softcups for me. so he went to do that, but he didn't want me involved at all and then he was so aggravated by that time that he couldn't finish so the whole morning was a total bust. totally sucked. i really really thought i would ov yesterday too b/c of my temp pattern and previous cycles. turns out i didn't tho and my opk yesterday was still neg. so i seduced dh last night thank God he "let" me so got the goods last night, and we've had a really good "every other day" bd pattern so far this cycle. BUT (of course the story doesn't end here, why would it ever be that simple??? ) we're closing on the sale of the house in SC on Friday, so we were planning to drive up there on Thur after i finish work. well, this morning in talking to dh about the plans b/c my older girls want to stay with friends instead of going on the trip and i'm not comfortable with that, dh suggests that i just stay here with the kids and he goes on his own. i did not take that suggestion well at all which pissed off dh, so now we're in another argument. arrrrrrrrggggghhhhhhhhh Good Lord, i just want to get through ONE cycle without something like this happening RIGHT AT ov time to screw up the WHOLE damn cycle so that maybe (just MAYBE) we'd have a REAL chance at our bfp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so, he's going to be pissed at me if i insist on taking the kids and going with him, but then we more than likely will miss my ov day. i MIGHT ovulate tomorrow based on previous cycles, in which case, i'm going to tell dh that if he insists on travelling alone that he must bd with me tonight and tomorrow afternoon before he leaves and again as soon as he gets back. that's going to be the condition, and right now, i don't care if it pisses him off to hear it. God! i feel like everything we try to accomplish always has to have so much drama involved!!! i hate that!!!!! plus, he's not going to have an interpreter there at the closing if i'm not there. he says it's "fine" and this his brother will fill him in with anything important. i just want to say "f*** THAT!!!" b/c all his brother can do is a little bit of fingerspelling (and he can only just barely do that and not well either......... as an aside, fingerspelling in American Sign Language [ASL] and British Sign Language [BSL] are 2 very very different entities. actually both languages are completely different, really. i know very little about British sign, but i do know the manual alphabet for BSL is done on both hands, whereas the ASL alphabet is done on one hand just different, anyway...) so dh thinks his bro will tell him what's "important" through fingerspelling!!!???!!! what that means is his bro will tell dh what he considers important, and not necessarily what is important enough to make dh able to make independent and competent decisions. the whole situation really gets my blood boiling b/c the same thing used to happen with dh's mother when she was alive. (God forgive me for thinking ill of her, but some things about her just really REALLY bother(ed) me....) the whole situation is going to be technical information too with information that dh won't be familiar with b/c we're not in real estate. damn it, i HATE when he sets himself up in situations like this!!!! sorry for the rant girls obviously this is a passionate issue for me. i just hate when dh claims "oh i'll be fine, i don't need a terp...i'll be fine" and insists on not hiring one or not letting me go, and then later says how much he wished i had been there or something b/c of all the info he missed, or b/c he felt like he came off as stupid or uneducated b/c there was some miscommunication or misunderstanding with speech or he has to ask people to repeat what they said b/c he didn't understand them. don't trust what anybody says about being able to read lips, girls. it's inaccurate. only one-third of the English language is even formed outwardly visible on the lips, so it's a crock of bs when somebody says they can "read lips" with any truly significant accuracy. my dh is someone who would be considered to be an excellent lip reader and he struggles with it all the time still. plus all kinds of things affect it, like if the man has a moustache and lots of other things with the way people talk or facial expressions and other things make it difficult. anyway, that's my soapbox for the day. *sigh* now i've got to figure out how to get dh back on track for the next 2 days so this whole cycle isn't gone to pot again.

 

[lupinerainbow]

Amy- Ahh course you do, have you got a high yet? What day do you usually OV? Glad you got psychiatrist appointment because you had a hell of a rough time and it is good for you to be getting someone who can help you to cope you are a very strong woman for coping this long with everything
Poppy- Ahh good to hear and yeah but you have had it since korben was born so it could possibly still be PND just carrying on over the last few months glad your getting some help now hun hopefully you will be able to feel a bit better soon when you get your referral, I agree with phoebe that MC possibly made things worse
Sorry all you girls are having such a rough time of it, I am sort of the other side of where you lots seem to be (I had a mood disorder, severe depression, anxiety disorder, psychosis and I was suicidal) and I feel a hell of a lot better now I am just starting to enjoy life again, I know I am a lot younger than you lot but I totally understand the problems depression cause and I can honestly say that counselling and psychiatrists helped me a lot, I have actually been discharged at the moment but can make an appointment whenever I want to. Just want you to know that no matter how bad the problems are you can overcome them, time helps a lot and the person you go to see will help you to cope I hope you all end up in a very happy place like I have finally got to remember god would not give us challenges we can not cope with sorry for the whole rant thing I have never told anyone outside of close friends and family and it was nice to get it off my chest
PK- Wow! Glad u got all that off your chest now breathe your life seems very stressful! Lets hope your DH starts to see that you actually know what you are talking about and starts listening, i hope it all works out
xxxxx

 

[phoebe]

Aye Carumba PK,
Sounds like u have it all going on sweety, sorry to hear that. I really hope u can get o/h back on track again pronto. Life must be so very stressful with the house sale going on. Fxd life settles and gets back normal asap xxx

 

[phoebe]

Amy- Ahh course you do, have you got a high yet? What day do you usually OV? Glad you got psychiatrist appointment because you had a hell of a rough time and it is good for you to be getting someone who can help you to cope you are a very strong woman for coping this long with everything
Poppy- Ahh good to hear and yeah but you have had it since korben was born so it could possibly still be PND just carrying on over the last few months glad your getting some help now hun hopefully you will be able to feel a bit better soon when you get your referral, I agree with phoebe that MC possibly made things worse
Sorry all you girls are having such a rough time of it, I am sort of the other side of where you lots seem to be (I had a mood disorder, severe depression, anxiety disorder, psychosis and I was suicidal) and I feel a hell of a lot better now I am just starting to enjoy life again, I know I am a lot younger than you lot but I totally understand the problems depression cause and I can honestly say that counselling and psychiatrists helped me a lot, I have actually been discharged at the moment but can make an appointment whenever I want to. Just want you to know that no matter how bad the problems are you can overcome them, time helps a lot and the person you go to see will help you to cope I hope you all end up in a very happy place like I have finally got to remember god would not give us challenges we can not cope with sorry for the whole rant thing I have never told anyone outside of close friends and family and it was nice to get it off my chest

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Good on yer Lupes xxx better out than in hun. And like u said, God wouldnt give us these challenges if he/she knew we wouldn't cope. And i am a great believer in the saying that "That what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" xxxx

 

[pk2of8]

Amen to that!!

 

[poppy666]

Phew PK and i thought i had problems i really hope you get the goods next couple of days cos you worked so hard on this cycle sweetie for it to go tits up xx

 

[poppy666]

Amy- Ahh course you do, have you got a high yet? What day do you usually OV? Glad you got psychiatrist appointment because you had a hell of a rough time and it is good for you to be getting someone who can help you to cope you are a very strong woman for coping this long with everything
Poppy- Ahh good to hear and yeah but you have had it since korben was born so it could possibly still be PND just carrying on over the last few months glad your getting some help now hun hopefully you will be able to feel a bit better soon when you get your referral, I agree with phoebe that MC possibly made things worse
Sorry all you girls are having such a rough time of it, I am sort of the other side of where you lots seem to be (I had a mood disorder, severe depression, anxiety disorder, psychosis and I was suicidal) and I feel a hell of a lot better now I am just starting to enjoy life again, I know I am a lot younger than you lot but I totally understand the problems depression cause and I can honestly say that counselling and psychiatrists helped me a lot, I have actually been discharged at the moment but can make an appointment whenever I want to. Just want you to know that no matter how bad the problems are you can overcome them, time helps a lot and the person you go to see will help you to cope I hope you all end up in a very happy place like I have finally got to remember god would not give us challenges we can not cope with sorry for the whole rant thing I have never told anyone outside of close friends and family and it was nice to get it off my chest
PK- Wow! Glad u got all that off your chest now breathe your life seems very stressful! Lets hope your DH starts to see that you actually know what you are talking about and starts listening, i hope it all works out
xxxxx

LR