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[Jenny Penn]

Poppy 3 or 4 days seem like forever and even then i will only be 1 week into the two week wait haha but at least im busy over the next couple of days so that might make time pass quicker lol
My SIL (not the SIL with 3 Daughters but the SIL with 1 Daughter aged 1 who is married to my Husbands Brother) announced tonight that she is wanting to try for another baby at the MIL's house, she knows along with the rest of our family that we are ttc and finding it hard to conceive. Well im happy that she wants another child but im anxious that she will get pregnant easily and i will feel such a failure I also feel that it will take the shine off the occassion if we do conceive and they announce just before or whilst im preg. I've went through 2 of my SIL's conceiving and giving birth 3 times whilst we've been WTT and TCC and i just want me n DH to experience it now. Does that sound terrible? I feel bad for feeling jealous but i can't help it x

 

[coral11680]

My OH just got back home whingeing about bad toothache so ive given him the painkillers, told him to get some Whiskey down him cos IM NOT DOING WITHOUT SEX tonight... even if i have to walk around naked with my wobbly bits hanging out he's getting it pfft.

you tell him pops!

 

[Jenny Penn]

Man that does sound terrible written down lol im jealous of a baby that hasn't even been conceived, i have way too much time on my hands x

 

[babyhopes2010]

went to toilet no cramps just lot of blood mix of brown bright red.
spoke to dr refered me to epu unit hopefully tommorow!Dr thinks im miscarrying.
bleeding has slowed down and stop.dr told me not to go to work tommorow

please keep me in ur prayers im deverstated!

 

[poppy666]

Poppy 3 or 4 days seem like forever and even then i will only be 1 week into the two week wait haha but at least im busy over the next couple of days so that might make time pass quicker lol
My SIL (not the SIL with 3 Daughters but the SIL with 1 Daughter aged 1 who is married to my Husbands Brother) announced tonight that she is wanting to try for another baby at the MIL's house, she knows along with the rest of our family that we are ttc and finding it hard to conceive. Well im happy that she wants another child but im anxious that she will get pregnant easily and i will feel such a failure I also feel that it will take the shine off the occassion if we do conceive and they announce just before or whilst im preg. I've went through 2 of my SIL's conceiving and giving birth 3 times whilst we've been WTT and TCC and i just want me n DH to experience it now. Does that sound terrible? I feel bad for feeling jealous but i can't help it x

No you dont sound terrible sweetie, you been trying for so long why wouldnt you want all that excitement and spotlight on you and your OH for once? Its just natural

Its like my sister which got pregnant when i was pregnant, she keeps saying to me now 'oh dont rush into trying again' i know whats she's like, she just dont want me pregnant now cos my will be younger than hers and all the attention will be off her which i think is silly, if anything she should be encouraging me to try again because im older than her and the clocks ticking etc but thats my sister

 

[poppy666]

went to toilet no cramps just lot of blood mix of brown bright red.
spoke to dr refered me to epu unit hopefully tommorow!Dr thinks im miscarrying.
bleeding has slowed down and stop.dr told me not to go to work tommorow

please keep me in ur prayers im deverstated!

Hey sweetie will pray for you and bubba, but you know with reading the threads on here loads of women bleed/spot some even pass big clots and baby is totally safe and snuggled Just hang in there xxx

 

[Hopes314]

went to toilet no cramps just lot of blood mix of brown bright red.
spoke to dr refered me to epu unit hopefully tommorow!Dr thinks im miscarrying.
bleeding has slowed down and stop.dr told me not to go to work tommorow

please keep me in ur prayers im deverstated!

of course. hope its not as bad as you're thinking my dr. said if i ever saw any bright red bleeding to go to the emergency department for an ultrasound, etc. do you guys not do things that way there? either way, will keep you in mind

 

[babyhopes2010]

he said if gets worse go to a & e but cos im only 6wks theres nothing they can do to stop me MC xx im praying for a miracle x

 

[Jenny Penn]

Babyhopes like i said on the other thread i would go to A+E and demand a blooddraw but do what you feel is right and don't give up on your little bean yet sweetie. Will keep you in my prayers hun x x x

Thanks Poppy thats exactly how i feel but i feel better knowing im not the only one to think it at some time, u always make me feel better *hugs* x

 

[Hopes314]

babyhopes- well like poppy said, sometimes the bleeding doesnt indicate a problem with the baby, but maybe just a problem in your cervix or uterus that will not affect baby at all. maybe no cramping is a good sign. put your feet up and relax. i know, WAY easier said than done! I had some brown spotting on and off for 2 weeks and was TERRIFIED. i put my feet up and did a lot of nothing, and have continued to do so since, and have never seen it again. I know how you feel, I was sure I was losing my baby around 5-6 weeks

 

[poppy666]

Babyhopes like i said on the other thread i would go to A+E and demand a blooddraw but do what you feel is right and don't give up on your little bean yet sweetie. Will keep you in my prayers hun x x x

Thanks Poppy thats exactly how i feel but i feel better knowing im not the only one to think it at some time, u always make me feel better *hugs* x

LOL Jenny just get a lot of bonking done now your on a mission we wouldnt be human if we didnt get jealous or selfish at times so dont beat yourself up about it

Hell im already wishing my sister DONT HAVE A GIRL lol cos i know she shit it when i was pregnant with Korben thinking id have the first girl in the family

 

[coral11680]

Baby hopes so sorry to hear ablout the bleeding but like the girls said the baby may be ok. I really hope this is the case and will be praying for you sweetie.x

 

[mrsamyrach]

Hi to everyone I didn't greet since I was back. lol Im not rude, just a little boggled.

Amyyyyyyyyy yes it's mushy peas. lol How have you been? Missed ya hon!

Pk2- it's so much calculating isnt it? lol That's the spirit though!

Poppy so true!!!!!!...beside balding and mid lifes what do they deal with? hmph.

I'm just sitting here happy I had a good lunch. It's the little things. Im still l frustrated about pinpointing where Im at cycle wise. Dah well I'll be over it in a few. Not that serious. Good thing about nature is it works itself out one way or another... I guess.

mmmmm ok mush had a shit couple of months xxx

 

[poppy666]

My OH just got back home whingeing about bad toothache so ive given him the painkillers, told him to get some Whiskey down him cos IM NOT DOING WITHOUT SEX tonight... even if i have to walk around naked with my wobbly bits hanging out he's getting it pfft.

you tell him pops!

Coral i got him pumped up on painkillers as i type, he moaning a bit but dont all men about everything.. im just smiling and giving him some sympathy 'which is rare from me' but needs must lol.. god things we have to do

 

[Jenny Penn]

Poppy your last comment made me laugh because i think my SIL is worried we will have the first boy because my DH's parents, my parents and her parents only have grandaughters. When she made her announcement tonight i straight away thought that was the reason. However i would be thrilled with either a girl or a boy x

 

[coral11680]

Pops you are too funny! Yes lay on some sympathy til you get what you want!

 

[Regalpeas]

Sorry Amy. Tough times are such a fin drag. I hope the storm is finally clearing up in your life. Glad you stuck it all out. Hope you feel better by each day.

Babyhopes- praying for your miracle right now literally. I had a friend who bled at first. She stayed in and out of the doctors. Now she has a healthy boy. I pray the same for you .

JennyPenn- Don't feel bad. It's hard it really is. I try to explain this to DH because he is super mr positivity. He knows I am very caring and happy for folks. However, this stings differently than other stuff. I had a family member just announce to everyone she's pregnant. It honestly took me awhile to process my own thoughts while trying to congratulate her. Yes I am happy, but it becomes a constant reminder at something I tried at and tried at to no avail. I admit I feel guilty sometimes thinking "how can I be so emotional about this?" I dunno. I am just am. It's okay. That's why we are here to support one another. You are not and will not be a failure. Hang in there!

 

[mrsamyrach]

where is cab?

 

[Jenny Penn]

Thanks Regalpeas, im glad i have u ladies because my DH doesn't understand when i try to tell him how i feel about stuff like that x

 

[poppy666]

Men dont understand full stop or they say they do just to humor us im sure lol, i get more conversation or understanding in the middle of foreplay than i do in a normal situation and thats only cos he wants his nooky