Team GB Bumps - UK BFP's *30 BFP's*

[jellyfish24]

I've had 9 cycles now where i have either been so down or upset i just think there might be another 9 cycles before we get anywhere so i am trying to be as relaxed about it as i can. DH is really supportive which helps, sometimes i think he wants babies more that i do if that's possible.
I'm an only child too so i would love 2 children and i think my parents are hoping it will happen soon (even though they don't know we are TTC) as we have been married for 2 yrs so the next natural step would be to have a baby. Not that easy though is it girls.

I really do hope you have good news soon anniepie. My sister-in law had her first at 35, the week after they went for a consultation about fertility treatment they conceived! so you never know!

 

[laurac1988]

Know the feeling jelly - 9 cycles here too

 

[Cheska8]

I'm almost into month 11 but still only cycle 6 But I agree that the relaxed and keeping positive approach is best. Not that I'm very good at keeping both but I try! a bit more dust for you ladies!

 

[MrsSmartie]

Aww yeah, that sounds good. Just before we got BFP I booked myself on courses to develop my skills and career and booked a trip to Paris. Just to do some stuff to carry on with things I would do if I wasn't ttc. Sometime life gets completely put on hold when actually there are lots of lovely things to do as well as ttc limbo. Xx

 

[Cheska8]

I've put my life back into place now too Jess, I was too focused on ttc and I was letting life pass me by, but now I'm back focused on my career and spending time doing things I like that maybe aren't the best for ttc (drinking and horse riding - not at the same time though!) but they make me happy while I'm waiting to be blessed with my rainbow.

 

[MrsSmartie]

Sounds good. I'm sure your rainbow baby isn't far away xxx

 

[Cheska8]

It's Sod's law that just when you change job or book lots of things that you can't do when pregnant you'll fall! That's what I'm hoping anyway!

 

[MrsSmartie]

Yeah hopefully so! I'm now battling through all the courses I booked and the coursework! Still glad I did it though because occupy me waiting for baby as well! X

 

[Cheska8]

Does it feel like it's flying by because you're busy or is it still dragging waiting for each scan? Have you told everyone you work with?

 

[MrsSmartie]

Well it's certainly not going quickly! But getting out of the first trimester is a relief. I can hear the heartbeat on my doppler so not so worried about scans. Everyone at work has known for ages because I was so sick! I don't know how people hide it! X

 

[Cheska8]

Ah that's so cool having a Doppler so that you know little bubs is doing fine. I guess if you're really sick then it must be hard to hide it. Plus in your profession people can probably tell quite early with pregnancy being in everyone's minds!

 

[StefanieC]

I was wondering about getting a doppler myself but I couldn't tell which one to get so i've left it for now.

 

[Twag]

Have lovely weekends ladies

 

[Cheska8]

You too Twag!

 

[Satine]

How we all doing ladies?

 

[laurac1988]

Having opk confusion over here

 

[jellyfish24]

not too bad and yourself? cd20 so in tww now

 

[Twag]

Lots of wasted ewcm here!

for your TWW

 

[Cheska8]

Ooooh Jellyfish, good luck! When will you test?

Will pop over to your journal Laura to see what this opk confusion is all about!

 

[Satine]

Also in the 2ww, good luck Jellyfish.

Why wasted Twag?

Also gonna have a look at your journal Laura.