Think I'm out already

[hopefullys]

I'm really tired today n cramping again right in my ovaries n all way through the middle I'm sat down cos of it

 

[mrs unicorn]

Thanks, I don't want to get my hopes up either. I'm actually scared to do a FRER incase there's nothing. I'll see how I feel later on but I'll prob give in and do one. Yes 11 DPO if I o'd on cd13 which is most common for me. I'm surprised/nervous as it's still really early, af not due till Wednesday which would mean it's too early to do a FRER till tomorrow. I think DH is worried that I'm getting my hopes up and it might not be anything.

Don't give in and buy any tests. I'm only doing them to use them up! By not testing early you'll know for definite.

 

[mrs unicorn]

Omg I've just done a FRER! DH can def see this one!! Omg I can't breathe!!

 

[Aspe]

Yahooo. Congratulations

Can you share what you done last cycle?

 

[blakesmummy09]

Aww congratulations unicorn in so happy for you 😊 X

 

[mrs unicorn]

Thanks ladies, we're in shock! (Which sounds mad as its what we were aiming for!)

Aspe, not sure what we did differently really. You can see when we bd in my chart - I normally o on cd13 - also used preseed twice, I didn't do opks or temping. But honestly nothing special. I drank, ate lots of food and was merry over Christmas. Even decorated our dining room over new year!

 

[hopefullys]

Omg omg! Big congratulations that's amazing! So glad one of us got that bfp! U must be in shock! Really chuffed for u x

 

[hopefullys]

What symptoms have u had? X

 

[mrs unicorn]

Thank you hopefullys! I think the main difference this time was my skin broke out badly right from o. Also, I suppose my nausea was stronger but in shorter waves, I had more vivid dreams (normally 2-3 nights, I've had them 5-6 nights) oh and normally my bbs hurt a lot from around cd18-20 this time they started to hurt cd22 but hardly at all. Still don't really, I probably won't notice if I wasn't prodding them! So not much really. Definitely nothing major to make me think 'maybe' my skin was probably the biggest difference but I wasn't letting that get my hopes up as I have had break outs when I was I the pill. All other things like my cramps were just as every other cycle. Apart from last night, had spotting and very light af style cramps. No spotting overnight so hopefully nothing to worry about. How are you feeling today?

 

[hopefullys]

Fab! Ive had bits of nausea in short waves every now n then n lots of cramps n my main one is this backache. Still got that this morning. Had a few vivid dreams. I smoke too, not a lot but have not fancied as many. I bought a vapour yesterday as going to try stop this weekend. Its the first time I've ever wanted to stop. I was terribly cold yesterday all day just couldn't get warm but that's normal for me I'm just a freezer! I have ordered some first response tests but they won't come til I'm due my AF anyway as they are really expensive in the shops x

 

[hopefullys]

So that's unicorn and rem so far that are pregnant! there's me, blakes and aspe to go!

 

[blakesmummy09]

I really hope it's soon as I'm getting impatient 😂 It's taking so long to wait for the next cycle. Af is due any day now so I'm going to start temping again when it arrives x

 

[hopefullys]

Yeh I keep feeling impatient but then when I see my friends with there bumps or babies I think no rush for now but then just wanna get my pregnant! Cant believe how many people I know that are at the mo! This year Is huge for babies! U never know blakes that af might not show? I'm 9dpo today x

 

[blakesmummy09]

Haha no it's definitely going to show its impossible for me to be pregnant this month lol. So many of my friends have just announced pregnancies and I want to join them x

 

[hopefullys]

Yeh its hard when others announce int it! Hope next month we have some luck! We haven't bd much this cycle again! Did around ovulation but still not as much as we should. Oh not been well so bit difficult. I said next cycle we r going at it more! X

 

[mrs unicorn]

Hopefullys, I smoke or used to I should say! I've been off them for a few days and I've obviously stopped since yesterday. Haven't craved one at all! Hope you guys don't mind me hanging about over here - it's still early days and well, I'd miss you! Fx!

 

[hopefullys]

That's good unicorn ur body must just know! Have u done a digital yet? Defo stay on here we wanna know how u get on etc anyway n hopefully we will follow soon! My vape cig is charging so I can try it soon! I've not fancied as many cigs last few days so I think I must be ready as I've never felt ready before x

 

[Aspe]

Hope.. There is still hope

I haven't ovulated yet. I really dont even know what days to bd. Usually when I put in a positive opk, my fertile week changes. So this time, going to try to do it on my now given fertile days. Might try 2 days of preseed just because I have no cm. Honestly, I do not feel very hopeful until I get on fertility meds

 

[hopefullys]

Aspe I would defo try that preseed cos there seems a lot of people who conceive on it. I'm going to buy some for next cycle n give it a go. I don't need it tho cos sorry for the tmi but when we BD I have lots of ewcm too much sometimes but I just thought maybe that preseed just helps those swimmers! Unicorn used it on last cycle n now she has conceived! Just try bd every other day your chances are much better then. I'm 10dpo tomorrow x

 

[Aspe]

We used the preseed everytime in December and bd before, on, and after ovulation but still never got pregnant. We tried the SMEP but it is hard on bd as my cycles are long.