I do think the spotting u had is a very good sign tho that is something very positive, really hope u get a bfp. Not long to wait now, try not to panic, our bodies r so devious sometimes and of course we are noticing everything all the time n get it in our heads then and almost convince ourselves but can get really let down when we get af, I don't want that huge disappointment this month so really being chilled. I've had some pinching in left again it's just my ovulation calming down x