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[p0ptart]

Having some brown spotting, so I have a feeling AF is going to show up even though I'm having weird, abnormal pains all over in the stomach: both ovaries, normal cramps, pains on right side above hip and on right side of belly button. If there isn't a bun in the oven, these pains are going to make me paranoid.

Babydust for everyone! ::

 

[starluck]

Camichelle, I'm so so sorry to hear this You must be heartbroken. I pray for you that the specialist can help you get your sticky baby.

 

[starluck]

sorry the witch showed jumpingo. best of luck for august

 

[maggz]

Oh no camichelle

 

[cakelady09]

Acted stupidly and tested way to early at like 5 and 7 dpo. Makes me not even want to test Friday which is 10 dpo and has been my plan all along. My period is on time every month so I am thinking about maybe just waiting if she doesn't come. Just don't want to face a negative again.

 

[Mintastic]

Camichelle so sorry
Good luck with the specialist and going forward.

 

[maggz]

Totally understand cakelady. My couple of bfns kinda discouraged me although I know they're too early to detect anything, so I'm waiting until anticipated af day now.

 

[ready4babies]

Camichelle I'm so sorry to hear that sending positive thoughts your way.

 

[NDurham12]

Well ladies, my news isn't good. Got my second beta back and hcg level dropped from 87 to 78 so another loss is inevitable.
Positive thoughts and to all of you and thanks for all your support. Going to take a break and see a specialist snd hopefully get some answers. Good luck ladies....

I'm so sorry camichelle. I hope you get the answers you need! Maybe a naturopath dr can help.

 

[HotMessJess84]

Today is 13 dpo, cd29 and AF was due. I've felt cramps off and on the past two days so I'm pretty sure she's coming. My period has been right on schedule the past 3 months or so.. I tested yesterday (twice!) with dollar store tests and both bfns. I'm trying not to get my hopes up. I've ran to the bathroom twice today expecting to see blood but it was a creamy yellow tinged cm instead. I may go out and get a frer in the morning if I still haven't started. I felt different about this whole cycle and was so hopeful it would work. The last time we bd I even felt like that was the one that would get me pregnant, I just had a feeling. I will be crushed if AF shows. Will keep you updated as soon as I know anything!

 

[starluck]

Having some brown spotting, so I have a feeling AF is going to show up even though I'm having weird, abnormal pains all over in the stomach: both ovaries, normal cramps, pains on right side above hip and on right side of belly button. If there isn't a bun in the oven, these pains are going to make me paranoid.

Babydust for everyone! ::

FX poptart!

Acted stupidly and tested way to early at like 5 and 7 dpo. Makes me not even want to test Friday which is 10 dpo and has been my plan all along. My period is on time every month so I am thinking about maybe just waiting if she doesn't come. Just don't want to face a negative again.

cakelady, maybe waiting to test is a good idea for you ~ i am thinking it will be better for me too. testing early and seeing bfn is discouraging. not that getting AF isn't discouraging, but then at least you're only getting one 'sign' that you aren't pregnant - instead of 2.

Today is 13 dpo, cd29 and AF was due. I've felt cramps off and on the past two days so I'm pretty sure she's coming. My period has been right on schedule the past 3 months or so.. I tested yesterday (twice!) with dollar store tests and both bfns. I'm trying not to get my hopes up. I've ran to the bathroom twice today expecting to see blood but it was a creamy yellow tinged cm instead. I may go out and get a frer in the morning if I still haven't started. I felt different about this whole cycle and was so hopeful it would work. The last time we bd I even felt like that was the one that would get me pregnant, I just had a feeling. I will be crushed if AF shows. Will keep you updated as soon as I know anything!

FX hotmessjess!!!

 

[Karen916]

Camichelle, I'm so sorry that you are going through this! I'm praying for you and your little bean that things will turn out ok!

Jumipingo, sorry the witch got you.

Poptart, those signs sound pretty promising!

cakelady, I also understand the draw to test early. Fx that you will get better results really soon!

Loobs, Fx that you did indeed O! Welcome to the tww!

Happy almost-weekend, everyone!

 

[MiaGirl]

Gosh camichelle that's gotta be so hard. I'm so sorry, I hope and pray things can get worked out for the future and you'll get you sticky bean for good. to you.

So a girl at my small group last night announced her pregnancy and it made me too curious for myself. My temp shot up this morning again too so I decided to test. Used a FRER...bfn
That took away most of my hope since I'm already 12 dpo. I'm not overly bummed though since it's our first month and I had crazy delayed O.

Fx for all you girls who are still in it!!

 

[Karen916]

Sorry about the BFN, Miagirl! However, I think you still have a chance! I found that using FMU made a big difference. When I was pregnant before, I got a BFN with an Internet cheapie at 12dpo. It was in the evening after work, and it was a 7-hour hold (that was not easy, lol!). I thought that long of a hold would have been enough, but not so, apparently. This was around 11pm at night. The next morning, 13dpo, I used FMU at around 6 am, I think, and got my BFP on the ClearBlue Digital.

So, I think it was a combination of it being FMU, and using a better test (although supposedly the internet cheapie was more sensitive than the CBD, but who knows... I definitely trust the digitals more!).

As for me, I had the tiniest bit of brown spotting today. I usually get brown spotting from approximately 14 through 16dpo and then AF comes, but I am only 7dpo today, so I am hoping against hope it was implantation bleeding! We shall see...

 

[p0ptart]

Looks like I am out. Got what seems like my period a day early with some lovely, painful cramps. /sigh. Onto the next month. lol

Good luck to the rest of you.

 

[NDurham12]

Looks like I am out. Got what seems like my period a day early with some lovely, painful cramps. /sigh. Onto the next month. lol

Good luck to the rest of you.

I'm sorry poptart! Fx for next month.

 

[NDurham12]

Having a bum day. :sad: temp dropped this morning and I've cold for the past two days. Not good.

Thinking positive and on to next month, I think I will take a break (been trying very hard every month for a while now).

Given my low amh and the fact that I do ovulate, I think I will switch my focus on increasing the egg quality. Takes 90 days to make an egg to I'll just focus on doing things to increase my quality. CoQ10, Dhea, l arginine and maca. Those will be my focus. I'll also see my naturopath again for a follow-up to see if she has any additional suggestions.

The fertility massage sounds interesting too.

Trying to stay positive.

 

[hanrh]

Mintastic and Karen - thank you for your book recommendations! I have ordered both. Am going to need some thing to occupy my mind as have 6 weeks off work soon.

Camichelle- my thoughts are with you. Xx

Poptart - sorry to hear af arrived. Xx

I was thinking ... We have such a lovely bunch of ladies here, now I am out for the month I don't want to have to leave u all. Would u mind if I added my august testing date to the list? Maybe we could all stick together/ keep the group going until the list is full of bfps??

 

[maggz]

Sorry for you ladies that are out

Mintastic there's still a chance, don't feel down

Karen - sounds promising! Fx for you

AFM I'm having some af like cramping this morning, usually cramping starts when my af is here (very bad for my underwear lol tmi ) but no af yet... fx that it keeps away!
Testing tomorrow with FMU.

 

[hanrh]

Ooooh fx for testing tomorrow maggz.