OMM....get an electronic toy and use it in front of him!
And tonight, give Kirby the spot next to you in bed and have him sleep on the sofa!
OMG i cracked up at this, just too funny, hmmmmm now you have given me an idea lol. And the sofa is too good for him, to the shed i say lol.
omm- hope hubby starts behaving himself very soon! Your doggie-so cute! Lava- omgoodness! I'm so very sorry for your friend. I'm so sad for her. Please try not to transfer that on yourself..you need to take good care mommy and your two lil ones...even though it's a really tough situation. MommysAngel- what jerks!!!! sorry but I don't understand why they didn't do the 3d & 4d...you want to see your baby and you have every right!!!!! I hope you can get it sorted very quickly. (my posts are going to look funny from now on....since, I spilled a glass of wine on my laptop, my enter/return key doesn't work...we have ordered replacement parts from our friend that deals with this for a living...thank god.
https://www.dukesmalibu.com Dwrgi- I never even thought to do a link...here is where we had my birthday dinner. I loved the hotel, I read the history...300 years old...wow! I love Europe for that....amazing history and buildings!!! The hotel was absolutely beautiful....if I'm ever able to visit Wales...that will sure be on my list to see. The boat ride also looks so serene and beautiful!!! How fun!!! I'm doing okay. I stopped temping, opks...everything...just really needed a break. I'm really excited to hear about your ivf protocol. I know it will work out and you will be holding your baby/babies before you know it!
It looks like the place you'd imagine in a tropical resort-you are soooooooo lucky living nearby! I'm glad you had a good time! I loved the hotel we stayed at so much, that I would like to get married there next year-working on OH as he thinks we're doing it in a marquee at the castle in our village!!!
Please try not to worry about your LOs 
honey and aren't they just so frustrating? I know it's hard enough TTC as it is without them being complete twazacks about it. I hope he comes to his senses and gives you some loving really soon as you are such a lovely and attractive lady how are things going for you honey?
honey, hope you are doing ok? Thank you for my congrats too 
and to anyone I have missed 
and 
to you all
So excited!
Thank you everyone for your sweet, sympathetic & encouraging words. I am sorry if it was a hard post to read, but I didnt really know who else I could tell my concerns to. My DH, who is normally very compassionate, I think is secretly scared too so he just said that I need to separate our situations. He is right, but y'all had better words.
Dwrgi,
Although my friend lost her baby after IVF, we know that happens without fertility treatment as well. They got pg with their 1st IVF and that should encourage you that it can happen on your first too. I keep trying to remind myself ... one step at a time. I am very excited about your next cycle.
Padbrat,
Thanks for checking in on us. I think of you often & wonder how you are doing so it was good to hear from you.
MA,
That was a wonderful post about Doug feeling Amelia kick. What a wonderful experience!
Butterfly,
So glad you got your DTD in before ovulation. Now you just need to sit back and try to relax.
Never,
Hope you & that sticky bean are doing ok. How are you feeling?
OMM,
I was actually composing a long post to you last night before my phone ran out of juice & powered off. I just wanted to say I can relate. Not that my sex drive is thru the roof, but it is higher than my husbands. Even before TTC, we got in fights about it b/c I got sick of initiating. Then I would stop and wait to see how long we would go before he initiated and we'd wait too long for my taste. He felt pressured & I felt undesirable. We went to see a counselor about it before we married. The issue wad tied to finances & work stress, not me or how attractive I am. We worked thru it by learning how & when to communicate about it (not in bed, when things were good btn us). Once we started TTC, we actually had more sex, but we both were frustrated by having to perform on a schedule. It's funny, but the IUIs took some of the pressure off doing it at the right time. All this to say, I know your husband loves you & thinks you are beautiful. Good luck. I know you all will work through it.
Skye,
Is your mom still with you & feeling better! Hope you had a great birthday.
Luv,
That place looks amazing! How romantic. I love the beach & the sunset!
Hi to Twinkle, FM, HA, Tiger, Purple, Macwooly, and anyone else I missed. It's almost the weekend and for me, only 1 more day until the final Harry Potter movie!
, aaah wee twins how fabulous.healthy and happy 9mths..
as you are there for your friend. it's a horrible situation and so very sad, I'll be thinking of her. and I'll be thinking of you and those tiny twins - remember to take care of yourself!
LOL funny you mention that, last night i said we should go for a bike ride tonight, that might just work, to relax him. And your right, we do tend to peak much later than them, so that is part of the problem. And a big part was me getting all upset about it, today i can see things much clearer, and i feel bad, i mean we dtd friday and saturday, so i should not have been all that upset that we did not do it tues or wed, but i knew i was ovulating and that was part of what was driving me. I think i just need to be more open with him, for my DH he actually does better if i tell him i am ovulating, then he is all for it to try for a baby, if i dont say anything then he is more likely to not want to do anything. I am much better this morning, not so emotional, at least i dont feel like i am going to cry at every little thing lol. Thanks so much for your help, i really appreciate all the advice and love.
that is 100% understandable. But for sure you have the right idea, get him out of that work headspace by doing something fun that you both enjoy and he should feel more receptive to 
ok i think there is something seriously wrong with me lol, for lunch today i just ate a peanutbutter and jelly sandwich, a container of Activia cherry yogurt, and some Taco flavored Doritos lol, what a combo 
I'm sure your being a wonderful friend is exactly what she needs right now. We had steak, mashed potatoes, roasted mushrooms and some Parmesan Truffle fries (my choice!) topped off with a piece of flourless chocolate cake! yum! After a little bit of i think i passed out in a food coma! 
