TTC After Loss Buddy Wanted :-)

[EMC0528]

Mirage that could be a good thing! My boobs always hurt before AF but they do also with pregnancy. I hope you get some answers soon.You too Brooke!

 

[kgriffin]

i think im having another annov cycle. that is 2 in a row. SO FRUSTRATING.

 

[EMC0528]

kgriffin what's an annov cycle?

 

[kgriffin]

annovulatory, its a cycle when you dont ovulate.

it can happen following a miscarriage, but 2?? my current feeling is bitchy too, im thinking that maybe i am going to ovulate late? i swore i could feel o pains yesteday, but i guess not

 

[EMC0528]

kgriffin

This whole experience is SO FRUSTRATING!!! I hope your body finds it's rhythm soon, the worst thing is not knowing what is happening!

 

[kgriffin]

Thanks EMC - suprisingly im feeling optimistic, and will likely still take an hpt in 2 weeks lol. am i crazy?

 

[mirage25]

No! Ur not crazy @ all! I've never used opks b4 but I plan on getting 1 2morrow! I thought I O'd 2wks ago...now I'm not so sure! This is so darn frustrating! I need 2 know whats going on! Will my body ever b the same again!

Thanks Emc I hope I get answers soon too! Lol 1 glass of wine should calm my nerves!

 

[kgriffin]

mirage, i feel that way too, like will my body ever go back to normal?!!? so frustrating!! I figure everyone is more relaxed in the summer months, so maybe we will get our bfps after all

if you think you ovulated 2 weeks ago, will you take an hpt soon?

 

[mrsmax]

KGriffin - how annoying. Do you have any idea why it is taking your body so long to get back into its stride? Can the doctors help? I hate this process

Thanks for such warm welcomes - I have no idea where I belong anymore. I had been planning on joining LTTTC last month but got my BFP. Now am kind lost so thanks for being so nice!

 

[kgriffin]

mrsmax - of course we welcome you!!! Hopefully you will get your bfp again soon, fx for everyone in this thread.

Not sure if doctors can help, i suppose I will call my obgyn in a few weeks, i have only been ttc for 5 months so they likely wont do anything for me, but its good to know what my options are regardless. I had a bit of a spike in temp today, but nothing to write home about

 

[mirage25]

Kate,
I don't know what to do! I don't want to take 1 yet because I don't want 2 be disappointed & then they say it can be 4-6 weeks before af comes & this is just week 4. My levels have been at 0 for 2 wks now.ugh...I feel like I'm going crazy!

 

[EMC0528]

Kate and Mirage the wait is so crappy. I felt the same way and then AF showed up?!

I was relieved at first so I could start over, but honestly I'm just so sad right now. I will likely ovulate in about a week and I'm starting to panic. I'm not sure I can wait another 8months of trying just to miscarry. I'm sorry girls I don't mean to be a downer but I don't know where else to vent these fears. I'm just really really scared

 

[mirage25]

No need 2 apologize! That's what were here for and ur definitely not being a downer! It's perfectly normal to feel that way. I'm scared out of mind too! All we can do is hope & pray for the best! Don't panic just bd'ing like crazy, lol! It's going to happen & happen right!

How long did it take for af to show up for u?

 

[mrsmax]

EMC - I know how you feel. After taking so long to get that BFP and then m.c it is terrifying to think it might take that long to get the next BFP. I clinging to the "fact" that once you have a m/c you are more fertile for a while...I like to think that now our bodies know how to get prgs they will do it again and this time stay prg for 9 months.

This whole thing is like one long frustrating heartbreaking nightmare - thank god for BNB so we can vent somewhere other than at our dh's
Good luck with the spike Kgriffen!!

 

[EMC0528]

Thanks guys.

Mirage I started bleeding May 30, I passed the sac on June 1 and I was finished bleeding (aside from small amounts of spotting for a few extra days) by June 4 and my AF came on June 30. It was basically a typical 4 week cycle for me.

 

[mirage25]

Well I'm hopeful mine will show up any day now...I don't wanna wait another 2 weeks!

 

[Brookegarrett]

I hope it comes soon.. Right now i am nauseated alot idk y.. I've still got a few days b4 testing:/

 

[mirage25]

How many days before testing?!

 

[mirage25]

Never mind! Lol...I c it!5 FB days! Fingers crossed!

 

[kgriffin]

wanna hear something weird?

okay when i started to bleed with my mc, it happened on the day af was SUPPOSED to arrive. odd, but not weird really.

here is the weird part...

Here i am waiting for af to arrive *not so patiently* and it came on the day it was SUPPOSED to.

???????????????

so dont worry about af not showing up, it will.