TTC Bonfire babies

[justmarried24]

Hi muncho, nice to meet you.
I'm not sure when implantation occurs tbh, some same 5dpo, others say longer, think it depends on your cycle. Also difficult as not everyone has implantation bleeding so that makes it hard to predict too.
I feel really rubbish not, got a cold coming on! Making me very tired and emotional! Feel very run down . Hope a cold won't affect any impending implantation!! Think I'm 2dpo, but not 100% sure
Hope everyone has had a nice day and is feeling positive!
xxxx

 

[justmarried24]

Ahhh, yes and now a question for anyone out there, something i haven't wanted to admit or question myself yet is......i have a retroverted uterus - does anyone know whether this could decrease the possibility of me getting preggers??? anyone know of anyone else?? My mom has 1 but i can't ask her as no one knows that we are TTC (actually everyone thinks i am way too much of a career girl to have kids and seem to enjoy telling me that i'll never have children...it hurts sometimes) so i only have you ladies to ask, google doesn't really have that many answers for me either...Lv R. -X-

P.S Zoe, was in same predicament last week, i told my OH to suck it up, get himself ready and impregnate me!!lol! i had to half abuse my hubby, but he thought it was funny the next day!! No excuses, we want BONFIRE BABIES!

Hey Rogue,
I'm not sure about a retroverted uterus, haven't heard of it before tbh. I'll see if I can find anything for you.
I think you should ignore people who say you'll never have children. There is often too much pressure on women to be expected to not want children, or to wait a long time to have them so they can have a career. I'm a great believer that you can have a career and still be a great mum. I have many friends who put off having children due to work pressures and then regreted it. I think you should go with what you and OH want.....that's what's most important xxxx

 

[Ava Grace]

Hi Rogue,

I have a tilted womb and recently saw my dr about this who said that it shouldn't make a difference although the sperm has further to travel so you need to think about the positions in which you have sex and he suggested raising legs in the air for 5mins afterwards.

I don't know if that helps!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[charmed]

hey wow more new ladies this is fabbie
im ok feeling more postive as lines getting darking today is cd14 and tonights test i can defo see a line ok so not as dark but so much beta, n my body telling me have sex, tummy pains owch, very wet excm (i think) and higher sex drive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
WE BD sat sun, every other day from cd 7 n will be morro so is that ok if did ov today to not danced today??????? hope so used concieve plus so hope helps sermies live lol
neph is still in hosiptal but no news good news i guess
thanks for support....
sorry can name u all say hi bad memory....but welcome
how u doing wanna#4 r u still thinkin u ov so early, i dont think i did, hoping for tasey line morro or a temp rise xxxx

 

[charmed]

morning , just a update, i think opk is postive!!!!! wooopp,
darkest line i have seen on them, bit silly question low i had a wee at 5 am went sleep bit then tested with 2nd 8.30 am wee, this is ok ant it as says not to use fmu.
boobs feel bit funny today, not as much ewcm and slight temp rise 35.8 to 35.9, so will have see if afternoon test is darker or lighter,
so with my bding on sat sun even nothin yest but will tonight, will the sperms from weekend still be useable n in correct place xxx

 

[charmed]

here are the pics of this morning test... what ya think girlies xxxx

 

[justmarried24]

Think it looks V good Charmed....def a positive. I think you should test later today to confirm....but defo think you'll be OV soon!! How exciting! How long is your cycle usually? xxx

 

[Charliemarina]

defo pos babes get bedding ov could happen anytime now within 12 36 hours of that pos yay temp rise a coming too so exited for ya huns now dnt forget temping it vital part of cycle xxxxx

 

[charmed]

just married my cycle 28days so think cd15 is bang on wooooopppppppp
so had me bding last sunday, so if bd tonight defo then should have best chances!!!!
charlie, you really think it positive even low from 2nd ish wee of day, dont wanna get hopes up if it not cos it could be classed as 1st mu, but did ee early hours, will test at 12 ish, fingers crossed line dont disapear!!! xxx
see ic do work dont lose faith girlies xx

 

[GossipGirly]

ooo good luck charmed.. ee I need help I have 7 days till testing and Im so tempted to poas now!! give me some will power! I only have 4 frer so need to try and not waste them as they are not the cheapest! xxx

 

[charmed]

go gossip girl, come on, just think if get a neg now it is too early and all that negative energy will put a downer on things, keep smiling and hopeful babes... PUT THE TEST DOWN, it will only make you frown!!!!
test in couple days n will be postive im sure im due on 10th, cant believe how body so regular, period on the tue last cycle, period tue start this cycle, 2 weeks later on tue postive opk woooowwww, i thought i was not working and so sad but i mega happy now, well i bet until do next test be bummed if it negative lol
xxxx

 

[Rogue]

Thank you so much Ava Grace & Justmarried!!! Very kind words, and i'll try the legs thing Ava Grace - thanks for the handy tip!

GossipyGirl- totally agree with Charmed, its horrible this blasted waiting game but you will be sooo much happier when you get your BFP in 7 days.....!!! Keep up the will power, i nearly slipped but then thought how devasted i would be if i got a false negative!

Also side point....i may be getting symptoms???? Totally not sure but since last night i have felt really queasy...could be something i ate cos i googled it and apparently you don't feel this queasy so early but i feel proper crap and i never really get poorly.....

Have a FABULOUS day ladies. Lv R -X-

 

[charmed]

update could not help it tested again with defo not fmu n dark line come up sooo fast wooop still not the whole bit mega dark but same as one in pic maybe tiny bit darker and come up within a min so that brilliant..... sex tonight yippppppeeeeee

 

[jaytee]

Charmed ~ YAY for the positive OPK's. I knew you would get them when the time was right. Go get your BD on girl!

Gossip Girl ~ Hold out sweetie, just a few more days to go. Every time I enter a store here I see the test and want to buy them but I always tell myself "NO"... its hard walking away from them. lol

As for everyone ~ I hope we are all doing well. Who's in the 2WW?

As for me ~ Cd 26 today and I'm almost positive that I have ovulated already only because of all the fertile CM I had earlier in this cycle and now its been pretty much dry for a few days. I'm not having any symptoms that I know of yet. I've just been extremely tired and thirsty for the last three days and now today. I have a slight headache this morning and boy have I been so cranky yesterday and so far this morning. lol I don't know for sure when I'll test. Maybe on CD 35 + since I'm not sure how long this cycle is going to be

I'm sorry for being MIA this weekend, but I was so, so busy with my dance graduation on Saturday and working on Uni work on Sunday. I promise to be around more often from now on out. to everyone!

 

[wannabubba#4]

Hi everyone

Welcome and Hi to Charliemarina :wave:

Rogue thanks for the advice, I am going to try to be in tune with my body a bit better-

Well, don't know if this works or not but here is the link to my chart for any chart stalkers out there, any advice or useful info welcomed lol -

My Ovulation Chart

If i discard the temp on 1st Oct then my crosshairs diasappear altogether and my cycle looks anovulatory or just totally unpredicatable from FF -so boo hiss I dont know!!

I think I will stop temping and charting now, and let things just happen naturally. Me and DH ended up kind of arguing about it on Friday and I have ben sulking since and decided to leave the BD initiation up to him; I was getting fed up believing that I wanted it more and that he didnt' seem bothered and it was upsetting me. For no good reason at all, he is just 100% more laid back than me in general!! The prob is, he believes that we can get pg anytime of the month, and I cannot convince him otherwise -if it's gonna happen then it will -probably because we got pg first month trying last time lol. I think in a few months when it dosn't happen then he'll may be listen a bit more, so I have jsut got to wait!!

I just SO wanted my BFP for Christmas -wanted a tiny Christmas bump, and wanted a summer baby.

SO Anyway , if I hadn't ovulated already (which I am SURE was too soon according to FF) then we have prob missed the boat this month as my temp has went up today , and more likely that I ov'd yesterday on CD14, than only CD9 and we've had no BD -ing over the weekend.(maybe I'll grab him the second he comes through the door and say impregnate me NOW lol)

charmed -go girly -get that eggy, I am no expert on OPK's but on that last one, the line is definately looking stronger, so get BD-ing, get that Bonfire baby lol PMA and baby dust to you.

Looks like most of us are in the 2ww wait now (although I am convinced I am out this month -but it's not over til that shows her face I s'pose) PMA and baby dust to all. Any-one SS yet?? Or any-one POAS already yet? ??

 

[wannabubba#4]

OMG I just read that previous post back lol
what a jumble -can you tell I am all over the place this month ??

Waht a roller coaster haha


More PMA needed and tonnes of Baby dust

 

[nb1984]

Hello ladies!

I had no idea that this was here! I made my little bonfire thing as soon as I was out of the junebugs club so if you don'r mind I will join your sparkly sig!

I am currently 6dpo and going to test on the 4th Nov, although if I have another 24 day cycle then the is due on the 3rd so hoping I will get to test!

Had a twinge on the left today so hoping that might have been implantation! Seeing to be coping with the 2ww a lot better this month, it doesnt play on my mind all that much and I dont seem to be obsessing, but I think that is down to me getting hubby to hide my thermometor!

Its only our 2nd cycle TTC and I hated how clinical it was becoming and that I was totally over analysing every single temp each day so I gave up, I think until it has been at least 9 months with no success I wont do it again, but fingers crossed I wont have to get that far!!

to all! xxx

 

[wannabubba#4]

nb1984
I know exactly how you feel -my 2nd month ttc too and I jumper head first in, with watching CM and temping and all i got was really stressed lol -worrying about if/ or when I ov'd etc

So I am going to put down the thermometer, and just relax a bit more and hopefully get that BFP, less all the stress lol

I ahve done this 3 times before, and never temped etc before, so it can be done lol.
I think I was just so worried about my advanced age this time around but stressing out doesn't help anyone does it??

xx PMA to all xx

 

[nb1984]

nb1984
I know exactly how you feel -my 2nd month ttc too and I jumper head first in, with watching CM and temping and all i got was really stressed lol -worrying about if/ or when I ov'd etc

So I am going to put down the thermometer, and just relax a bit more and hopefully get that BFP, less all the stress lol

I ahve done this 3 times before, and never temped etc before, so it can be done lol.
I think I was just so worried about my advanced age this time around but stressing out doesn't help anyone does it??

xx PMA to all xx

yes I totally agree! Thousands of women manage this without inspecting everything they can and I really want hubby and I to enjoy this process, not feel like its a massive chore! So no more obsessing and I feel so much better already. Although, ask me again in 2 weeks time if I get a BFN and I will prob be a very different person hahaha! Nightmare! I do believe though that less stress can only be helpful! xxx

 

[muncho]

hey guys
how are you all. I agree with the whole 'not getting stressed thing' secret is lots of sex!!!
Having sadi that i had a moment of panic this morning wondering what if i have missed ov

Wanna..know what you mean about DH, men are generally tooo laid back. I have learnt so much since ttc and we are women learning about our bodies, so imagine men are really not going to get the complex female body. luckily dh wants kids more than me so he is willing at the mo..

im about 6 dpo and have been having a bit of watery cm yesterday and today, any ideas??

not that im sympton spotting or anything xxx