TTCAL 2015 Rainbows! (7 Rainbows & 2 Angels)

[KylasBaby]

Just makes me so mad! that was their future grandchild that I lost, I expected a little bit of compassion.

I'm sorry. It's hard for some people to grasp what happened. You can always come here and we will understand

 

[slowloris]

Hard to keep up in at work at the mo! He he!

it is true people don't understand, it took me years to get over.my first mc. But everyone else moves on around you. That's why bnb os so good cos you can vent all you like! And no one thinks your crazy!

kylas i love my ratties too my oh wants to breed them they are two girls so wed need to get some boys. But in.over protective of them! IM not sure about it as they might fight more and also wed have to much to handle. Hard enough keeping the cat away!

will respond better when not on my phone! X

 

[Fairydust22]

Kylasbaby thank you so much for the response. I wish I could find someone with similar experience and advice but haven't found it. I think it's not the most comfortable think to talk about. Because the doc recommended IUI that may be the route to go for all the problems going on but time will tell. If no BFP we go to specialist on the 23rd.
Congrats on the weight loss! My friend has pcos so tells me about her struggles with losing weight. Send some motivation my way I like food and being lazy too much!

Slow loris what is 30 day shred? Hope AF stops for you soon!

Aknqtpie so very sorry for both your losses. We will be testing around the same time

Bushmumma I know my AF was wacky after d and c. Mine waited 6 weeks to come and my afs have been kind of crazy and annoying since then. I have been more irregular but not sure if I can say that is because of d and c.
Sounds like you have a great home and family life!

Hi fairy hope you catch that surge soon! How do you like the digital OPKs? I have wanted to try, they are just so expensive.

Hi ladders I'm sorry for your loss and understand your impatience. We found out my DH has sperm issues also recently ( much further after the loss) and he is taking vitamins for this, a fertility blend. I'm not sure if it's helpful yet but here's hoping. So frustrating not to be able to control any of this. Will you see a specialist?

Brunette where are you in your cycle?

Hard to keep up here.. Hope I didn't miss anyone and hope everyone is doing well! Im in TWW now so just waiting.

I love doing the digital opks I have used them for months they are very expensive but worth it I love to see the smiley face to show your LH surge xx

 

[aknqtpie]

I have noticed that people who haven't been through it.. even our significant others, don't really understand the toll that it takes on us. It's physically and emotionally painful. It will be two years in October since I found out I had a blighted ovum, and I am still not over it. I think I took the miscarriage harder than losing my DH. And I think part of losing my DH that was hard was that I thought I was losing my chance at having a family. But even my DH didn't understand what I was going through.

 

[brunettebimbo]

Kylasbaby thank you so much for the response. I wish I could find someone with similar experience and advice but haven't found it. I think it's not the most comfortable think to talk about. Because the doc recommended IUI that may be the route to go for all the problems going on but time will tell. If no BFP we go to specialist on the 23rd.
Congrats on the weight loss! My friend has pcos so tells me about her struggles with losing weight. Send some motivation my way I like food and being lazy too much!

Slow loris what is 30 day shred? Hope AF stops for you soon!

Aknqtpie so very sorry for both your losses. We will be testing around the same time

Bushmumma I know my AF was wacky after d and c. Mine waited 6 weeks to come and my afs have been kind of crazy and annoying since then. I have been more irregular but not sure if I can say that is because of d and c.
Sounds like you have a great home and family life!

Hi fairy hope you catch that surge soon! How do you like the digital OPKs? I have wanted to try, they are just so expensive.

Hi ladders I'm sorry for your loss and understand your impatience. We found out my DH has sperm issues also recently ( much further after the loss) and he is taking vitamins for this, a fertility blend. I'm not sure if it's helpful yet but here's hoping. So frustrating not to be able to control any of this. Will you see a specialist?

Brunette where are you in your cycle?

Hard to keep up here.. Hope I didn't miss anyone and hope everyone is doing well! Im in TWW now so just waiting.

I'm 7DPO I think. This TWW is dragging!!

 

[Bushmumma]

Hello lovely ladies!!

Little ratties aye, they are super cute I did have mice for my children but they only lasted for about 6 months and they had had enough of them... I do know that feeding them is not expensive but by golly housing them was I got them a pretty cool mouse house it was 1.6m long and 1.2m wide by 50cm high... Lucky little rascals . I ended ip passing then on to a young friend of mine and as far as I know they are still going strong .

I must admit that I do love animals a lot! They keep me calm, I speak to them all like they are my babies and capable of talking back, ummm sounding strange?? Probably but who cares lol.. I'm sure they talk back in their own way lol.

So sorry for the newbies that find them selves here bud you couldn't get a better bunch of women!

No T.V!!!!! I know that feeling only to well, where we used to live we had no power and lived off a generator: that was fun hHa

 

[brunettebimbo]

I used to have rats. Love them! At one point we had 18! I also had ferrets, they are great pets too but stinky!

I would have a houseful of pets if I had the time and no OCD! I can't be doing with them mess now. We only have a cat now but I'm happy with that, working and being a Mum is time consuming.

 

[Bushmumma]

Hello lovely ladies!!

Little ratties aye, they are super cute I did have mice for my children but they only lasted for about 6 months and they had had enough of them... I do know that feeding them is not expensive but by golly housing them was I got them a pretty cool mouse house it was 1.6m long and 1.2m wide by 50cm high... Lucky little rascals . I ended ip passing then on to a young friend of mine and as far as I know they are still going strong .

I must admit that I do love animals a lot! They keep me calm, I speak to them all like they are my babies and capable of talking back, ummm sounding strange?? Probably but who cares lol.. I'm sure they talk back in their own way lol.

So sorry for the newbies that find them selves here bud you couldn't get a better bunch of women!

No T.V!!!!! I know that feeling only to well, where we used to live we had no power and lived off a generator: that was fun hHa

 

[KylasBaby]

18 is a lot of rats. At my highest I had I think the same amount. I had a group of girls then got another who popped out 14 babies on me three weeks after I brought her home. My rats are so spoiled. Their cage is literally as tall as I am. It's massive. I've actually found feeding them to be pretty pricey. They're on a special lab block designed for lab rats that covers their complete nutrition that's kinda pricey. And all the veggies I get for them for their dinners every noght. And their treats. I give them one before bed each night (as I do with my dogs) or else they stare at me until I go to bed and even then they make a racket! I love them though. I've had ferrets too. And rabbits and Guinea pigs which in allergic to both. So many hamsters and one mouse names bubbles haha. Not I just have my two dogs and my two cats and my three ratite boys.

So my strep never went away. I was on a heavy course of antibiotics for five days and on the sixth day (yesterday) my throat started hurtin again. I thought maybe it was dry air bc the medicine is supposed to keep working for another 5 days even though I'm not taking it. Nope. I'm in so much pain today. I really enjoy my job but I'm pretty upset how that because of them I'm in so much pain again . Hopefully the dr will just call me in more medicine and I won't have to be seen again.

 

[slowloris]

Sorry to hear about the strep.
as for my ratties they are moving house today! Well there house is moving. We are putting their cage in the front room rather than our bedroom. IM thinking they ll prefer it, especially in the winter our bedroom is cold but the fire is.in the front room!

cd5 today af finally easing off. So soon to be on the bd path! Waiting for pressed to turn up in the post. X

 

[Fairydust22]

Hi ladies how is everyone today I'm very happy I have just took my digital opk this afternoon and got my smiley face xx

 

[KylasBaby]

So the doctor called in a new medicine to the pharmacy! Yay! I get to the pharmacy after the dr called saying it was called in (it was about half an hour drive from work to here so it was called in before I left) and it was never called in! You've got to be kidding me! I just want some medicine so my throat can stop hurting. The first course of antibiotics didn't knock it out so now I need a second round. It's not like I cut my finger and need a band aid. My throat kills. I can't talk or swallow or breathe without pain. You'd think they wouldn't be dragging their heels so bad!

Sorry for the rant. I'm in pain and pretty pissed.

 

[ladders]

Was wondering if any of you ladies tried before your af after mc? Didn't know how long before you ovulate or even if you do

 

[brunettebimbo]

Yeh I did. After my first miscarriage I had a normal cycle and fell pregnant the second cycle, I then had a chemical, I fell pregnant that following month and miscarried again.

 

[KylasBaby]

Slow - almost BD time. Woohoo!

Fairy - yay! Congrats on the smiley. Now get to work

Ladders - I didn't so I can't offer any personal experience. After my surgery I was told to wait 3 weeks before anything went on below the belt. Then AF came the next week. I'm pretty sure I didn't ovulate then or the next cycle (which is my current cycle) so just waiting now. You want to make sure you give your body time to heal and make sure you have healed emotionally as well. I've heard women who have got pregnant right after a MC. Some have had successful pregnancies resulting in a child and some went on to have another miscarriage. There's no way of knowing if getting pregnant that soon again will be successful or not. I've heard cases for both sides. Sorry I can't help more.

 

[Fairydust22]

So the doctor called in a new medicine to the pharmacy! Yay! I get to the pharmacy after the dr called saying it was called in (it was about half an hour drive from work to here so it was called in before I left) and it was never called in! You've got to be kidding me! I just want some medicine so my throat can stop hurting. The first course of antibiotics didn't knock it out so now I need a second round. It's not like I cut my finger and need a band aid. My throat kills. I can't talk or swallow or breathe without pain. You'd think they wouldn't be dragging their heels so bad!

Sorry for the rant. I'm in pain and pretty pissed.

Aww I hope you feel better soon i hope the second lot of antibiotics work for you xx

 

[KBCupcake]

@Fairydust good luck this cycle! And to Kyla, I know how that is with pharmacies and all. CVS was particularly incompetent about calling in medication. Annoying stuff. I would wait a few days until calling in the doctor just to find out the pharmacy didn't do their job.

Ladders we're not waiting until AF to start trying again, we're just going at it every other day and seeing where it takes us

 

[KylasBaby]

I had to call the doctor to have them call on my medicine again. I have my stuff now so it's all good at the moment. It was just aggravating. It's antibiotics so I couldn't wait a few days. I needed it then and there. After about an hour waiting they finally had my stuff. Just frustrating. But I'm good and drugged up now

 

[brunettebimbo]

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG I have never had a line with my losses before 11DPO and even then they've been squinters!

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[KBCupcake]

Aww congratulations brunette!!! I hope you have the stickiest baby.