TTCAL 2015 Rainbows! (7 Rainbows & 2 Angels)

[KylasBaby]

Thought I'd open a thread for those of us trying for our 2015 babies after a loss or losses. Basically anyone conceiving after April will be expecting a 2015 rainbow!

Little about me. I'm Kyla, 25. I'm going at this alone as a single Mama with a donor. I had a MMC requiring a D&C on March 17th at 9 weeks. Not sure exactly when the baby was lost, but never seen on ultrasounds. I was in the emergency room around 5 weeks with a high white blood cell count that pointed to an infection somewhere. I believe that's probably when the baby passed. I go in on May 15th to get the results from the tissue tests. Hopefully I'll find out why the baby passed and what gender it was. I feel that will help with the closure as I can finally name it.
I will be trying at the end of this month so testing in June!

Be sure to tell me when you are testing and for what number you are TTC so I can add you to the front page!

Good luck everyone!


October Testers
Bug222
KylasBaby

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Rainbow Babies!!
brunette bimbo EDD January 17!!
hanni EDD February 27!!
Ladders EDD February 5!!
ankqtpie EDD April 21!
Bushmumma
buttrfly1553
Shilo EDD June 2!!

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Angels
slowloris
nessaw

 

[slowloris]

Hi! IM on my second cycle now after mmc at 11 weeks at the beggining of April.

im 25 and oh is 28 and we are ttc our first.

 

[KylasBaby]

Welcome! Sorry about your loss

I will be on my second cycle post MMC next Saturday so were pretty close to each other. FX and

 

[hollydazzles]

I'm in! Me:26 tomorrow Hubs:28 in August. ttc #1. We had an ectopic loss back in 2008. Just started actively trying this year

 

[KylasBaby]

Welcome! Sorry about your loss.

Best of luck!

Will you ladies let me know what month you will be testing so I can put us all up on the front page?

 

[brunettebimbo]

I'm in. I've had 3 early losses since October 2013. Will be testing on 12th may I think.

 

[slowloris]

Happy bday holly!
my af will be due 31 may so ill prob start testing around 28th?!

babydust to everyone!

 

[Bushmumma]

Happy birthday Holly!!!

I am start of 2nd cycle post mc, AF should be due around 26th so I think I wait til then because I'm hoping she doesn't come. . If this changes I'll let you know.

Good luck ladies FXD here's to a thread of SHBFP!
Xo

 

[Fairydust22]

Hi ladies I'm in I had 2 mc last year one in aug & mmc in nov I'm on cycle 3 I'm approaching ovulation I hope we catch the egg this month good luck every one xx

 

[hollydazzles]

Thanks guys! I'm out for this month for sure. June testing for me. Not exactly sure on the day yet. My cycle has been fluctuating lately.

 

[KBCupcake]

Hi all. I need a thread like this. I'm still MCing, baby stopped growing at 6w. MC'd at 9w. It's been just over a week, waiting for this to be over. It's been awful but I've collected myself and I feel about ready to try again.

I'm very much hoping I can conceive this month. I want a baby asap... and a February baby especially.

 

[hanni]

Can I join? I'm ttc number 1.

I had a mmc in February at 12 weeks.
now on CD 11 on my 2nd cycle after.
Sadly had a chemical pregnancy last cycle.
Should be testing around the 22nd.

Fingers crossed for everyone Xx

 

[KylasBaby]

Happy Birthday Holly!
Sorry you're out this cycle. FX next cycle is your cycle

Welcome all newbies. Really sorry you all have a reason to join this Rainbow group. But I'm looking forward to getting to know you all and following your journeys. I really want to keep this a nice and close group. I've been apart of many groups where peoples posts get ignored or just overlooked and I'm really going to try my hardest to address everyone and make sure we all feel welcomed and supported here. After all we are all going through one of the hardest things there is - losing a child or children.

Also, if any of you have journals be sure to point them out! I'd love to cyber stalk you all . You can find mine down in my siggy.

I've edited the front page. If anything is wrong or needs to be updated, please let me know. I'll figure out a better format for our info and testing dates once more people join. Maybe a breakdown by month or something.

So AFM, I started my progesterone last night. How it usually works for me is I take it for 5 days and then AF arrives 3 days later. Which would start my cycle on May 10. And if I conceive my due date would be February 14th!! Valentines Day! That would just be amazing. I'm on my fourth day of antibiotics for the strep throat the little ones I nanny gave me. Feeling so much better! On Thursday I couldn't hold my head up or even walk. It was bad. I was so sick with a 103degree temperature. Not good. My temp is back down to around 97degrees today and I'm feeling good!

 

[KBCupcake]

How adorable!!! My DH's birthday is on Valentine's Day as well, makes the occasion super special to me.

I really hope you get your bfp soon. Wishing you lots of luck this cycle. xxx

 

[KylasBaby]

How adorable!!! My DH's birthday is on Valentine's Day as well, makes the occasion super special to me.

I really hope you get your bfp soon. Wishing you lots of luck this cycle. xxx

Thank you! You as well! We've all been where you are before. I can't speak for the others but I'm here if you ever need to talk. Right after my D&C I was ready to try right away but within two or so weeks I realized I wasn't emotionally ready. Hence why I'm just starting to try again now. But as I said we have all been where you are. It doesn't make it any easier but just know we are here.

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Hi ladies, mind if I join?
Kylasbaby, hello again

My name is Leslie and DH and i have been ttc #1 since January 2013 when I got off BC. BFP came 3 cycles later and unfortunately mmc in may then d and c shortly after. Actually this week are those anniversary dates :/. It has been a year and we started wondering what was going on. Had some testing done and looks like DH's spermies are having difficulty. According to doc the bad ones are blocking the good ones,thankful there are good ones though! Recommending IUI but due to cost we wanted to try something else first .First cycle of clomid last month did nothing and I finally ovulated on day 27 , today. DH is also taking fertility blend for his male factor issues. Hoping to say we don't need it, but I have scheduled an appointment with a fertility specialist may 23. We are both impatient and would like more answers and if IUI is what is needed we are willing to try.
Sorry for the long story!
Kylasbaby I completely agree with you on wanting a nice and close group. I have also been in threads where I am ignored and end up leaving those threads.

I'm really sorry for everyone's losses and really hope that these BFPs come quick for all!
I think I will test May 17 if I can hold out until then I'm thinking of actually starting a journal as well so if I do I will post the thread.

 

[KylasBaby]

Hi ladies, mind if I join?
Kylasbaby, hello again

My name is Leslie and DH and i have been ttc #1 since January 2013 when I got off BC. BFP came 3 cycles later and unfortunately mmc in may then d and c shortly after. Actually this week are those anniversary dates :/. It has been a year and we started wondering what was going on. Had some testing done and looks like DH's spermies are having difficulty. According to doc the bad ones are blocking the good ones,thankful there are good ones though! Recommending IUI but due to cost we wanted to try something else first .First cycle of clomid last month did nothing and I finally ovulated on day 27 , today. DH is also taking fertility blend for his male factor issues. Hoping to say we don't need it, but I have scheduled an appointment with a fertility specialist may 23. We are both impatient and would like more answers and if IUI is what is needed we are willing to try.
Sorry for the long story!
Kylasbaby I completely agree with you on wanting a nice and close group. I have also been in threads where I am ignored and end up leaving those threads.

I'm really sorry for everyone's losses and really hope that these BFPs come quick for all!
I think I will test May 17 if I can hold out until then I'm thinking of actually starting a journal as well so if I do I will post the thread.

Hello again and welcome! Very sorry for your loss. FX for a sticky baby soon!

I highly recommend starting a journal. I find it helps me to write things down and get all my thoughts and feelings out there rather than keeping it all inside.

 

[brunettebimbo]

I agree about the journal. I have one and love just babbling away in it! If anyone wants to subscribe to mine the link is in my signature.

 

[KylasBaby]

I agree about the journal. I have one and love just babbling away in it! If anyone wants to subscribe to mine the link is in my signature.

I will be heading over to report for stalking duty

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Thanks ladies for the support and suggestion! I am going to probably start one once BD time is over this week. How would I put the thread in my signature?

Question for anyone that feels comfortable answering. I know tmi is not really a factor when ttc. Unfortunately my DH has performance issues at times due to NEEDING to BD on exact days and the stress on this. I also stress and I am sure it's a factor. Of course with my positive yesterday morning we were unable to BD last night. That's not to say we didn't BD enough, but just the thought of that important day being missed and the upset we both feel after. He does not have issues during my non fertile time so I know it's psychological. :/ anyone else have this or have any suggestions?

How is everyone else doing? I know we are all at different times with our losses