Hunni12 and GabesMommy, I don't know about you guys, but I don't think most women that are TTC just get mad or feel that the women around them who get pregnant aren't deserving of being pregnant, I know I sure don't. When my best friend from high school (who I'm not that close with now, as we don't live in the same state) found out that she was pregnant I was happy for her, honestly. I know that even though she may not have been trying and it just happened for her, she would not take having a child for granted. THAT is what upsets me about many of the women around me that can pop out babies left and right, they take things such as creating a human being for granted. How is that possible? Even if I hadn't had such a long road in TTC and it just happened from the get go I would still cherish and appreciate everything about getting pregnant. With my DD (who is almost 6) I was having irregular periods and she surprisingly happened after a year or so of NTNP, and I never thought I could have children..but the second I found out I was pregnant I quit smoking, didn't drink, and loved every single minute of pregnancy. THAT is what it should be about, not you endangering your child's life because you can quit a silly habit, or continuing to be irresponsible and having children you know for a fact you cannot provide 100% for.
So in the end, it isn't as though we (or mostly I) feel that fertile myrtles should feel, or are in any way underserving..but if you just so happen to be irresponsible and ungrateful about such a miracle then yes..I feel that they are absolutely undeserving.
Hunni12- I don't think you should feel bad about posting things about your pregnancy on fb. I don't know you, but I doubt you have the qualities of the irresponsible parent (or soon to be) that I mentioned above. So celebrate your gift however you'd like, I think you deserve it. & congrats btw : )