2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[robyn1990]

Hi everyone,
Il be trying ASAP so hopefully an April/may BFP!
Xx

 

[jessshakespea]

I would love to join in here. I found out I was preg end of January, at about 6 weeks I started spotting, it never went away and through u/s showed baby was not developing and HCg started to drop. I would have been over 11 weeks now, and I think I passed everything Thursday. I am still be tested weekly to be sure HCG drops. I reallllly want to start trying again ASAP. Do you have to wait to try again? Is there a higher risk for a repeat M/C? I am very confused and want to be back to normal, and can't believe it is dragging on so long, and would love other ladies to chat with!

Hello, sorry for your loss I've had all the blood tests they are going to do, they've asked me to do a hpt on 5th April and let them know if it is positive or not. I had pretty low levels by the time I started bleeding (1190) and they were 336 two days later but a hpt was still + yesterday. Gonna try again in a few days. I think they usually ask you to wait until after you have first af, although that might depend on whether you mc naturally or not which it sounds like you did. I was reading on the miscarriage support charity website, they say it is because it helps date later pregnancies and avoids confusion. But they also say unless there is a physical reason it is not bad to try straight away, and that getting pregnant in the first 6 months after mc is positively associated with a reduced risk of further mc.

We're going to try this month if I ovulate, I lost Bean 2 on Tuesday last week. But I am a little bit nervous about how I'm going to feel about it all. I have a feeling I will feel guilty and / or very scared!

for you anyway whenever you decide to go for it xx

 

[jessshakespea]

Hi everyone,
Il be trying ASAP so hopefully an April/may BFP!
Xx

Good luck!

 

[MissyMo120]

Now that AF has decided to show we are going to try! We lost our DD in Jan, @38 weeks. We were told to wait 6 months bc I had a c/s. But it took us a yr to get pg with her. Hoping our rainbow doesn't take as long!

 

[sedgeez]

I would love to join in here. I found out I was preg end of January, at about 6 weeks I started spotting, it never went away and through u/s showed baby was not developing and HCg started to drop. I would have been over 11 weeks now, and I think I passed everything Thursday. I am still be tested weekly to be sure HCG drops. I reallllly want to start trying again ASAP. Do you have to wait to try again? Is there a higher risk for a repeat M/C? I am very confused and want to be back to normal, and can't believe it is dragging on so long, and would love other ladies to chat with!

hi!

im sorry for your loss

im not waiting for my af before i start ttc. my gp told me there was no greater risk in conceiving before af. chances of ovulating are probably slimmer but theres no harm in trying.
she said as long as ive stopped bleeding and feel ready then its ok

what month should i put you down for?

 

[sedgeez]

Hi everyone,
Il be trying ASAP so hopefully an April/may BFP!
Xx

good luck

ill add you to the list now

 

[sedgeez]

Now that AF has decided to show we are going to try! We lost our DD in Jan, @38 weeks. We were told to wait 6 months bc I had a c/s. But it took us a yr to get pg with her. Hoping our rainbow doesn't take as long!

im so sorry for your loss

good luck and i hope your rainbow comes soon!!

do you want me to add you for this month?

 

[Misscalais]

I would love to join in here. I found out I was preg end of January, at about 6 weeks I started spotting, it never went away and through u/s showed baby was not developing and HCg started to drop. I would have been over 11 weeks now, and I think I passed everything Thursday. I am still be tested weekly to be sure HCG drops. I reallllly want to start trying again ASAP. Do you have to wait to try again? Is there a higher risk for a repeat M/C? I am very confused and want to be back to normal, and can't believe it is dragging on so long, and would love other ladies to chat with!

Hi Hun, sorry for your loss.
My Dr told me to wait one cycle, but we started BD a few days after I stopped bleeding.
My tests went full neg last weekend but my levels were very low to start with anyway.
I've done a lot of research and the main reason DRs like you to wait one full mth is because its hard to get a due date if you fall again before AF arrives. Also if a woman had a D&C they scrape a lot of lining away so they like it to be able to build up again. But with a natural it's not as bad. As for the risk that MC will be higher if you fall again right away is up in the air, some say it does some say it doesn't.
So in my opinion just try again when you are ready. My MC was very early so I felt ready right away. I feel like I don't want to waste any more time as it took. 6 mths to get bfp for it to end as quickly.
Good luck.

 

[Misscalais]

Now that AF has decided to show we are going to try! We lost our DD in Jan, @38 weeks. We were told to wait 6 months bc I had a c/s. But it took us a yr to get pg with her. Hoping our rainbow doesn't take as long!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I think they say wait that long so your scar gets a chance to heal but I know people that have fallen right away after a c/s and everything has been fine.
I think if you feel ready and your healing nicely then go for it.
I truly hope you get your rainbow soon xo

 

[Misscalais]

How is everyone going?

 

[twinmummy06]

Hey, wondering if you could join you ladies

We just recently lost our baby early in the 2nd trimester and will be TTC again ASAP once the bleeding ends from birth/D and C.

 

[Miniegg27]

Thanks for setting his thread up!! I've only just found it! Can I join too? According to my OPK I've just ovulated so we'll see what happens this month! Fingers crossed for you all!

 

[Neverending]

Hey ladies I know I joined but haven't really been particpating. At the moment I'm a little worried I had my d&c on March 6 after the the natural m/c didn't complete itself my levels were 27 before so I'm guessing zero after well I now feel pregnant I felt ovulation about 1 week ago and like before my only pregnancy my cm is still there and there is so much of it. I have some pressure in my tummy and my lower back is achy my nipples hurt and my boobs are tender I'm not trying to look into it to much. On march 12 I had a tiny spot of blood when I wiped and it was only that one time I never spot when I ovulate and last time I don't recall implantation bleeding. I truley feel pregnant. TMI he never came in me it was always near though and I know some had gotten in by leaking down. I'm scared and dobt want to say anything as it seems nearly impossible but....
All these things are screaming at me last night I even had a dream I was pregnant going to bed I was telling myself I wasn't. What do you think? ♡♡♡♡
Best of luck to all!

 

[Kasey84]

Hey ladies I know I joined but haven't really been particpating. At the moment I'm a little worried I had my d&c on March 6 after the the natural m/c didn't complete itself my levels were 27 before so I'm guessing zero after well I now feel pregnant I felt ovulation about 1 week ago and like before my only pregnancy my cm is still there and there is so much of it. I have some pressure in my tummy and my lower back is achy my nipples hurt and my boobs are tender I'm not trying to look into it to much. On march 12 I had a tiny spot of blood when I wiped and it was only that one time I never spot when I ovulate and last time I don't recall implantation bleeding. I truley feel pregnant. TMI he never came in me it was always near though and I know some had gotten in by leaking down. I'm scared and dobt want to say anything as it seems nearly impossible but....
All these things are screaming at me last night I even had a dream I was pregnant going to bed I was telling myself I wasn't. What do you think? ♡♡♡♡
Best of luck to all!

It sounds possible that your pregnant! Are you going to test? My fingers are crossed for you...hope you get your rainbow soon

 

[Neverending]

Hi thank you I am going to wait until april if I can stand it right now I feel like I have the flu and just want to sleep been feeling twinges on both sides of my tummy keep going to the bathroom thinking my period is here and just cm also I had weird cramping by my groin area very weird but thank you for replying I'm already going crazy I'd be scared as hell but happy. I've decided I'd love everyday I have with a new bean and not worry, easier said than done.

 

[2013myyear]

Hey ladies I just wanna say I hope to see everyone get there BFP soon xx
I'd love to join if that's okay? I'm looking to TTC asap once this MC is over xxx

 

[george83]

Hi thank you I am going to wait until april if I can stand it right now I feel like I have the flu and just want to sleep been feeling twinges on both sides of my tummy keep going to the bathroom thinking my period is here and just cm also I had weird cramping by my groin area very weird but thank you for replying I'm already going crazy I'd be scared as hell but happy. I've decided I'd love everyday I have with a new bean and not worry, easier said than done.

I can't believe somebody on this thread is waiting to test already it's so so exciting you must have such will power to hold out until April I'd be a poas addict by now! You'll have to keep us updated on symptoms x x x

 

[ece77]

Hi ladies! It seems I might have had a partial molar pregnancy (due to pathalogy). So I guess it will take a little bit more than we planned for TTC. So I'll shift to July and hope it will be so...

 

[2013myyear]

Ece77 I'm sorry to hear that sending lots of hugs xxx

 

[DebbieDobs]

Hey ladies I just wanna say I hope to see everyone get there BFP soon xx
I'd love to join if that's okay? I'm looking to TTC asap once this MC is over xxx

Hey hun, I am waiting for my MC to be over too. I've been bleeding since the 13th March and passed my baby yesterday still in its sack. Have a scan on Tues to check if its all clear. xx