so the plan of going on vaca, drinking relaxing etc,. good luck with it being cycle 3, month 3 (ie march) my bday month, post hsg, and confirmed by us ovulation within 6 hrs of iui.. and day 15 heaviest period ive had since hs.. made flying home a real treat. im just at a total loss. other than my age everything is PERFECT.. no pcos, normal ovulation each month, good response to femara, normal lining, 14day luteal phase, normal hsg. the only thing possible at this point is the dreaded "undetermined" or that im buying bum sperm. but since my freaking clinic keeps not getting a sperm count despite my repeated requests i have no idea. i could be spending over 1000 a month out of pocket for a lovely infusion of water.. just so upset and angry right now., i never expected this to happen,. i have 4 single friends who did iui.. all got pregnant on the 1st try. a coworker also first try. the one of my friends who took the longest was 3 iuis.. im just at a total loss at this point. i frankly think i CANNOT get pregnant and this is all a pointless waste