But yeah, it really stinks
Makes me regret not starting 2-3 years sooner. If I'd known we would have fertility problems, that's what I would've done. Yep, it'd be nice if we all got our BFPs
The owner said that the condition report should come before New Years (he'll send it via email to DH as soon as he gets it) so we'll first take a look at it when we get it to be absolutely sure there aren't any major flaws before bidding (the owners were very open about 2-3 very, very minor issues that they know about). We may have to practically bid the amount they want though since they don't seem in any huge rush to sell, despite the fact they've bought their new house already (we'll be practically neighbours if DH and I get this house) and it's also only been on the market for a little over 3 months.
Do you get to start right after your IVF orientation?
Is there any reason they're doing ICSI and not "regular" IVF on you? My clinic at the hospital first do ICSI if your 1st IVF results in 0 or a very low fertilisation rate. My AF is due around the 8th and I'll be doing short protocol as well (my 1st IVF was long protocol and suppressed me way too much since I only got 3 good quality eggs; resulted in a CP) so sounds like we're pretty much in synch
Wish FB had something were you could semi-block people so you can't see them on your friends list and therefore aren't tempted to click on them to see what they're posting.
I'll update when we know. But it doesn't sound like there are any really major issues so still interested.
Which is why it'd be nice if you could hide certain people on your friends list some way. I don't know why I stalk, especially as my narcissistic sister does nothing but post non-stop pics of her 2 kids (the youngest, a 4 year old boy, I've never even met and never will) and occasional posts with quotes about motherhood It's actually insane how many pics of her kids she puts up, it's almost pathological and just screams "cry for likes and attention" to me
Thanks Kat! I think we may have chatted before, over the past couple of years.
Sorry about the family issues! I totally understand what you mean, I have some people blocked but I still stalk their fb pages.... It's just so tempting!
My background... I'm 31, ttc 2.5 years, hubby has no issues, it's all me and my PCOS. We did 3 rounds of clomid, followed by 4 attempts at iui (2 of which were cancelled mid cycle). I have never seen a bfp
I have had an endometrial biopsy/scratch in the summer. Then I just recently had laparoscopic and hysteroscopic surgery with a d&c and ovarian drilling.
I have been on birth control for almost 3 cycles now, which sucks!
I'm not 100% sure what happens next for us. We have 2 appointments in the next week. My doctor has mentioned that they will do bloodwork and ultrasound at some point this month to see where I'm at for number of follicles and how my body is recovering from the drilling. They have said it will likely be Feb we start stimulating. Our next appointments will go over all of this. I don't know about the medications or anything yet, but there was a recent change in our health care system and we found out that this cycle will be funded for us! Which is amazing!! (we just have to pay for drugs, which our benefits cover)
I'm so anxious to get on with this already! I hope they let us start sooner rather then later!
Here's hoping IVF is what works for you! I honestly don't know why I bother when I know how emotionally toxic my siblings are and how much they don't care about me, despite they've both said they love me although they haven't said it for a super long time. My brother being the worst of course since he constantly puts me down every single time we have contact (telling me how selfish, childish, evil I am and how much like our toxic mother I am ) plus will also gaslight me (rewrite history) so I'm always the wrong, selfish one and he looks like the innocent one, at least that is when he isn't silent treatmenting me which is what he's been doing the past year (although he stopped answering my emails a little over 2 years ago). All because I politely asked him to stop putting me down! Him and his enabler wife didn't even respond to my birthday wishes on FB this year, totally ignored me and responded and liked pretty much everyone else's. I'll also sometimes check out my enabler cousin's profile which I also need to stop doing. I'm planning on going no contact with them all but going to wait until I get my BFP and have had a baby, as per my former therapist's instructions (still have some contact with her; stopped due to how much it was costing).
