Anyone else TTC/NTNP #2 and have a LO under 1yr?

[ArmyWife1984]

I guess I am just supposed to let nature take its course.. Its an impending miscarriage

Thanksgiving is next thursday , Big holiday celebration here. I'm hoping me and LO will be able to join in the festivities with our families. They haven't seen LO in a long time.
Never had a miscarriage before, so not sure what to expect. hopefully I wont be in too much pain.

 

[Kirstiedenman]

As hunii I am so sorry to hear that! Hopefully the process is not to painful and it's great that you will be surrounded by family! I had a misscarriage when I was 16 so I can very much so sympathise with you! I really hope though that things turn around for you and either your levels go back up or you have a speedy recovery and get your bfp in no time!!!




I did test again and I am still not to sure what to think

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[Kirstiedenman]

I have taken two others of these over the last two days and today it got darker but I am still not gettin my hopes up until I see really dark. My temps still haven't dropped below the cover line since the day I ovulated even when I had implantation dip I didn't but who knows definitely not getting excited yet

 

[d1kt8r]

Army wife im so sorry xxx. i had a MC with our first its not a very nice feeling, i had people all around me saying "you'll be right" when i wasnt at all. i hope your doing ok.

ive only just started getting a darker line now man i must ovulate really late! when do you start counting from the 1st day of you period or the last? i cant remember, i think i still have baby brain lol xxx

 

[Kirstiedenman]

Lol baby brain I still use that excuse sometimes an my lo is 11 months. You count from the first day of real flow. Exciting about the opks getting darker!!!

 

[d1kt8r]

So weird u just did another and it's light again meh I'm confused!

 

[Kirstiedenman]

Yep me also I am just going to stop obsessing and wait for my blood rest results.

 

[ArmyWife1984]

When do you get you blood test results kristie?

I can't wait to start trying again. I want to be pregnant again so bad.

 

[Kirstiedenman]

I get them back tomorrow but I took a test today and stark white but a ridiculously dark positive on an opk yesterday and today so I am bding just in case I am ovulating now. I for some reason feel very calm about the whole situation, I let myself get a bit to obsessed this month and have decided to tone it down and relax but from previous experience for me it makes my cycles worse to ttc so I am gonna focus on my 12 week body challenge and still chart and I am not going to test till ad is late from now on save myself the disappointment.

How are you feeling? When has the doctor given you the all clear? I truly hope you get a quick!!! Did they say what the reason could have been or just one of those things?

 

[ArmyWife1984]

I get them back tomorrow but I took a test today and stark white but a ridiculously dark positive on an opk yesterday and today so I am bding just in case I am ovulating now. I for some reason feel very calm about the whole situation, I let myself get a bit to obsessed this month and have decided to tone it down and relax but from previous experience for me it makes my cycles worse to ttc so I am gonna focus on my 12 week body challenge and still chart and I am not going to test till ad is late from now on save myself the disappointment.

How are you feeling? When has the doctor given you the all clear? I truly hope you get a quick!!! Did they say what the reason could have been or just one of those things?

Hmmm that's really weird. You had a faint postive HPT and now a bfn, but a dark postive opk Your body is buggin out!
Ya, TTC can become so obsessive and stressful. Now that I have a LO, I don't think I will be soo obsessive with TTC #2.

I am feeling crappy. Heavy bleeding and clotting started yesterday. And now I have lots of lower back pain. From what I read, this should last about a week.
Emotionally though I feel sad but ok. It happened so early in my pregnancy that it kinda feels like a late period. I never actually felt pregnant yet since it was so early.
This Thursday we are going to my MIL's for the celebration, I just hope I don't bleed all over her couches!! No one knows I miscarried beside my mom and dad.

I read online that having a miscarriage is like a period, so I should ovulate a couple weeks after?? The nurse who called me about my miscarriage said they typically recommend waiting a cycle or 2, but I feel like trying right away.....not sure if that is a bad idea??
And they really didn't do any testing on me or anything just checked my hcg levels....so not sure why I miscarried.

 

[Kirstiedenman]

My body is definitely confused lol I got my blood results and not pregnant so I would say the positive opk is ovulation which explains my crazy cramps yesterday!!

I remember when I had mine I had a lot if bleeding I was 12 weeks though and it was awful! I think they sometimes say to wait a few cycles just invade of emotional trauma because I have heard of a lot of people falling pregnant straight away, as long as you feel good in your mind and your body I say why not!!

 

[ArmyWife1984]

My body is definitely confused lol I got my blood results and not pregnant so I would say the positive opk is ovulation which explains my crazy cramps yesterday!!

I remember when I had mine I had a lot if bleeding I was 12 weeks though and it was awful! I think they sometimes say to wait a few cycles just invade of emotional trauma because I have heard of a lot of people falling pregnant straight away, as long as you feel good in your mind and your body I say why not!!

Hopefully you were bd'ing! When do you think you'll be able to test again?

Well my miscarriage is almost finished. It was only about 2/3 days of heavy bleeding and 4 days of cramping. I'll be a week on monday from when it started.
The party at MIL's went well. Worried a couple times I may have leaked but all was well!

I told DH i really really really really wanna try again right away. He just looked at me and said ok lol

 

[Kirstiedenman]

Well according to ff I am 5dpo but I actually think I am only 2-3 and yes we bd but only twice as I wasn't really bothered so we only did if we actually felt like it. I am not going to buy a test until I am at least 5 or so days late I think. I have some ic's left so I will probably use them up from about 9dpo just to keep me sane lol but I actually don't think they work to be honest.

Do they class your 2-3 days of bleeding as your period and to count as cycle days from when you start bleeding? Are you going to chart this cycle or wait one cycle?
Glad your mil when well I bet it was hard for you. Do you feel strange not having anyone know or would you prefer it that way?

It is really hot here at the moment 44c today so I think I will be sitting all day in my pool doing nothing as I can because its my birthday today lol so just going to chill!

 

[ArmyWife1984]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I am gonna be 29 this feb. I feel so old!!
FX for you!! Hope you get a bfp and I get one too! It would be awesome to be bump buddies through pregnancy!

I am a lil confused too on what day to start counting as cycle day 1. I had 3days of spotting before i started bleeding heavily. I think I am just going to start cycle day 1 as heavy bleeding day.
I don't chart. I do use opks though. But I havent used an opk since before LO. I may use an opk this month since I am not really sure when I will be ovulating.
Last month we just ended up bd'ing 2weeks after my cycle day 1 and bam bfp! It was nice not using opks and stressing about bd'ing.

I actually told my MIL when we arrived about the miscarriage. She is such a sweet lady and I just felt like telling her before everyone else showed up. I told her that I wanted to keep it private and not make a big deal about it and she understood.

I even told her about the shirt i bought LO to wear so now when i am pregnant with #2 I will have to come up with something over the top!!!!!

 

[Kirstiedenman]

Thanks! I was the big 26 but I feel older at the moment lol.
I know it would be great to be bump buddies for fx big times its our month!!
I would just count that as cycle day 1 also, that is crazy that no charting its funny how that works hey. When we were trying with lo the month we stopped is when I got pregnant, we went on holiday and the day after we came back I just decided to do a test on my clear blue fertility monitor and I got a peak day and bam we fell pregnant it was crazy all the months of stressing and the one month we just joke about we fall pregnant!!
It's a good thing you have told a few people as if you need to talk about it then you know you have someone which is good!
Google or YouTube it there is heaps of awesome ways to surprise your family. I love watching the surprise videos

 

[d1kt8r]

What do u guys think?

 

[d1kt8r]

This is my tweaked one

 

[Kirstiedenman]

I am see a really faint like but can't tell if its link I would test again tomorrow Hun. When is af due?

 

[Darlin65]

We are having a month similar to this. Had a gap between birth control where it may have given us a window and we weren't careful. Now hoping something might come of it. I really want to try for another one but DF says he wants to wait Says he just isn't ready yet but if it happens it happens.

 

[ArmyWife1984]

We are having a month similar to this. Had a gap between birth control where it may have given us a window and we weren't careful. Now hoping something might come of it. I really want to try for another one but DF says he wants to wait Says he just isn't ready yet but if it happens it happens.

Hope you get a bfp!!!!! How many dpo are you ?? any symptoms?
After hold your bum in the air to keep inside , when he asks what your doing say
My dh wasn't sure at first either about trying for another one but he cant stop me lol He seems more accepting now because he realizes LO needs a playmate and adding one more will make our family complete.