Oh no Ex!!!! I am so sorry but glad to hear you're feeling better now!!!! How scary!
Sprite and Cath, I bet you are both getting ready to O. Cath, you are still early in your cycle...I'm sure it will happen soon! I expect mine later because ever since my MC my O has been much further out and my cycles longer than they used to be. I think that's one reason we are having trouble getting pregnant this time, because my cycles and O are unpredictable and we probably keep missing the best time or the eggs are just in there too long or something. The month I got preg last time I O'd on CD 13 or 14 I think so the eggy was nice and fresh!! I just hope and pray it doesn't take too much longer for us!! I too have a ton of EWCM this morning, but I don't trust it alone because the soy can give you fertile CM at random times in your cycle.
OPKs have always been really accurate for me...I generally use the CB Digis but also have the IC ones for backup. One thing I've learned for me is that my temp isn't always an indicator of O, but when my cervix opens I can be almost 100% positive that I will O that day or the next. It was hard to determine at first, but now its really easy for me to tell the difference. When closed it feels like a tiny round pinhole, but when opened its a small slit (feels like a straight line instead of a circle). But as far as being soft or firm, high or low, that doesn't help much because mine changes back and forth throughout my cycle randomly. The open or closed though is always a clear sign for me. Every woman is different of course and I think you have to determine which fertility signs work best for YOU individually!
Melly, that sounds positive! MS is a good thing I've always heard! I didn't have it with the preg I lost so looking back that was a sign for me that something wasn't right. I know not all women have it but for the ones that do its a strong sign of a healthy pregnancy!
Littlej that test looks awesome!!! Very dark!!
Silver I did soy CD 2-6 last cycle and this time I did 3-7. I'm not sure which works better but I noticed its more common to do 3-7 for a normal to long cycle. It seemed like only the ladies with shorter cycles did 2-6 or even 1-5, so I just thought I would push mine out this time and see if it makes a difference. Hoping it pulls my O forward again just a little more.
I completely understand about the DH arguments and I agree...TTC makes things VERY stressful! Mine is the same way...he feels like "nature will take its course" and "it will happen when it happens", etc. He doesn't get all the OPKs and temping, etc. For me I feel like if we have these helpful things to use when TTC, why not use them?? If they help it happen sooner then I'm all for it! He is 38 so he's ready to be a father and talks about it all the time though. I actually think he was more willing and excited the first time, and then when I MCed I think it just scared him to death. So part of him is afraid.it will happen again. I feel the same but that doesn't stop me from wanting to be preg again, because I want a LO so badly!! I have heard the "you're just wanting sex from me to make a baby, not because you want me" argument too LOL. So now I try to make a point to have special time with him all throughout my cycle instead of more around O....so that he feels more loved!