Anyone testing around March 26th?

[Miskas mommy]

Ha smile, I know right... Somedays I would like to..... But that's another story...

 

[faith2015]

Damn it, had a huge temp drop this morning, have a ginormous back ache, and feel crappy, pretty sure AF is on her way
Why is it that all these ppl who are not trying or don't want to get pregnant can get it without even trying, and those of us who want to get preggo can't! Grrrr sorry just pissed off and ranting... The lady I work withs daughter is pregnant, and they were not even trying! So all I hear about all day is oh when the baby come this and that... No one at work knows we are trying, so I have all I can do to not tell her to stfu.

Ugh i so understand the frustration! ! On the news i seen this lady decapitated her baby head. And another couple killed their baby from abuse. I'm dealing with a brother in law and his girlfriend who just gave birth oh baby this baby that and that they used the name i wanted to name my baby boy, and I'm over here crying so damn hard in the inside thinking about this whole ttc shit. I hate that I'm so jealous over all these babies, i hate that I can't change how i feel.

but one thing i know is we aren't all alone, we all have each other. Even with a disappointment month after month you ladies are the only one who gets what we are going through. We aren't here to say oh it will happen just let it or it's just not your month or maybe you shouldn't try so hard bull shit, we are hear to be our support system.

One of these months we will get there, we will be mommies or have another new wittle baby. ♡

 

[Miskas mommy]

you ladies understand, I'm just sad.. I know its coming when my temp takes that big of a drop..... Oh the best one is when everyone keeps asking me, well when are you gonna have kids?? It's like go f yourself, if you only knew the trauma I go through every month bfn after bfn...

 

[faith2015]

you ladies understand, I'm just sad.. I know its coming when my temp takes that big of a drop..... Oh the best one is when everyone keeps asking me, well when are you gonna have kids?? It's like go f yourself, if you only knew the trauma I go through every month bfn after bfn...

Omg that's the fucking worst! Are you pregnant yet? No mf'r if i was im sure you would be able to tell , as I'm thinking i wanna slap you

 

[Smille24]

Damn it, had a huge temp drop this morning, have a ginormous back ache, and feel crappy, pretty sure AF is on her way
Why is it that all these ppl who are not trying or don't want to get pregnant can get it without even trying, and those of us who want to get preggo can't! Grrrr sorry just pissed off and ranting... The lady I work withs daughter is pregnant, and they were not even trying! So all I hear about all day is oh when the baby come this and that... No one at work knows we are trying, so I have all I can do to not tell her to stfu.

Ugh i so understand the frustration! ! On the news i seen this lady decapitated her baby head. And another couple killed their baby from abuse. I'm dealing with a brother in law and his girlfriend who just gave birth oh baby this baby that and that they used the name i wanted to name my baby boy, and I'm over here crying so damn hard in the inside thinking about this whole ttc shit. I hate that I'm so jealous over all these babies, i hate that I can't change how i feel.

but one thing i know is we aren't all alone, we all have each other. Even with a disappointment month after month you ladies are the only one who gets what we are going through. We aren't here to say oh it will happen just let it or it's just not your month or maybe you shouldn't try so hard bull shit, we are hear to be our support system.

One of these months we will get there, we will be mommies or have another new wittle baby. ♡

I saw that on the news too. There were several incidents within a week. I cried after hearing about it. Place your baby up for adoption. There are plenty of couples who would LOVE and nurture that child.

We are very lucky to have each other. Honestly you ladies keep me going. No one else understands how difficult it is to ttc. All I hear is "it will happen when it's supposed to" or "you should be happy you have one". Ok thanks for your lack of support. All I want is to have a baby with my husband and the thought of it never happening horrifies me. At the same time I want to throw in the towel and forget about babies and the shit I'm putting myself through. Idk how to feel anymore.

I am so sorry your BIL used the name you wanted to use. If he knew that's just ignorant. It's going to happen for us. I know it will I don't know when but when it does, we're in this together.

 

[Smille24]

you ladies understand, I'm just sad.. I know its coming when my temp takes that big of a drop..... Oh the best one is when everyone keeps asking me, well when are you gonna have kids?? It's like go f yourself, if you only knew the trauma I go through every month bfn after bfn...

Omg that's the fucking worst! Are you pregnant yet? No mf'r if i was im sure you would be able to tell , as I'm thinking i wanna slap you

My MIL always tells me "you're getting up there in age, you better start making a baby". Or "My son deserves a child of his own". I just want to slap the shit out of her and tell her to f off. I am so fing sick of her and her rude comments. Up there in age?? I'm 28 jackass.

 

[faith2015]

Damn it, had a huge temp drop this morning, have a ginormous back ache, and feel crappy, pretty sure AF is on her way
Why is it that all these ppl who are not trying or don't want to get pregnant can get it without even trying, and those of us who want to get preggo can't! Grrrr sorry just pissed off and ranting... The lady I work withs daughter is pregnant, and they were not even trying! So all I hear about all day is oh when the baby come this and that... No one at work knows we are trying, so I have all I can do to not tell her to stfu.

Ugh i so understand the frustration! ! On the news i seen this lady decapitated her baby head. And another couple killed their baby from abuse. I'm dealing with a brother in law and his girlfriend who just gave birth oh baby this baby that and that they used the name i wanted to name my baby boy, and I'm over here crying so damn hard in the inside thinking about this whole ttc shit. I hate that I'm so jealous over all these babies, i hate that I can't change how i feel.

but one thing i know is we aren't all alone, we all have each other. Even with a disappointment month after month you ladies are the only one who gets what we are going through. We aren't here to say oh it will happen just let it or it's just not your month or maybe you shouldn't try so hard bull shit, we are hear to be our support system.

One of these months we will get there, we will be mommies or have another new wittle baby. ♡

I saw that on the news too. There were several incidents within a week. I cried after hearing about it. Place your baby up for adoption. There are plenty of couples who would LOVE and nurture that child.

We are very lucky to have each other. Honestly you ladies keep me going. No one else understands how difficult it is to ttc. All I hear is "it will happen when it's supposed to" or "you should be happy you have one". Ok thanks for your lack of support. All I want is to have a baby with my husband and the thought of it never happening horrifies me. At the same time I want to throw in the towel and forget about babies and the shit I'm putting myself through. Idk how to feel anymore.

I am so sorry your BIL used the name you wanted to use. If he knew that's just ignorant. It's going to happen for us. I know it will I don't know when but when it does, we're in this together.

Hes just an idiot! Lol that's all i can say! But I'm off to bed, i have that appointment in the morning! Stay positive! And smille, try not to think in the morning to test! Give your self another day

 

[Smille24]

No testing tomorrow I promise lol. Good luck tomorrow!

 

[Miskas mommy]

GL faith!!


Smile mil's can be harsh sometimes... Mine doesn't know we are trying, and we aren't planning on telling her until we are preg.. She already has 2 grandchildren, my dh's sisters kids, they are 23 and 18, she had kids very young.
But she made some crack a while ago about babies being to much work and how if we ever have kids I should feed them formula because breast feeding is gross! I almost went off the deep end.....I'm a firm believer in breast feeding if you can. Not everyone can, and that's fine as well, but to have the nerve to tell me something like that...

 

[FLArmyWife]

:/ so i'm pretty sure AF is going to appear while i'm sleeping.
oh well. at least I'm working a lot these next two weeks to keep my mind off of AF and the disappointment

GL smile!

Faith- anxious to hear how your appointment goes.

 

[kittykat7210]

my MIL s better now than she used to be, when me and hubb first started dating she made it very clear i wasnt good enough for her son, telling everyone she could that his 'tattooed girlfriend just isnt right for him' and that 'i'm sure he doesnt really like her, its just a phase'

that started off a hate relationship with his family. and my SIL is a strange one, shes 22 years old now, but when we first lived together i had to live with his family for a bit (we were originally a young long distance relationship) and she (at 18) was so clingly and would never leave him alone! she had to come with us EVERYWHERE and i wasnt allowed to get dressed in our room because she was in there, getting comfy in OUR bed, i had to leave and go to the bathroom?? she always tried to sit on him or hold his hand, sometimes i swear she wanted to be his girlfriend!! and she was always like, 'you guys arent going to stay in the same room are you?' with a disgusted look on her face, yes actually we are. she was such a strange one :S.

oh well, all done and dusted now. i seem to have gone on a bit of a rant haha, sorry!

 

[Smille24]

GL faith!!


Smile mil's can be harsh sometimes... Mine doesn't know we are trying, and we aren't planning on telling her until we are preg.. She already has 2 grandchildren, my dh's sisters kids, they are 23 and 18, she had kids very young.
But she made some crack a while ago about babies being to much work and how if we ever have kids I should feed them formula because breast feeding is gross! I almost went off the deep end.....I'm a firm believer in breast feeding if you can. Not everyone can, and that's fine as well, but to have the nerve to tell me something like that...

Mine doesn't know we're trying either for a reason. She would call every day and blab to the rest of the world. I tried to nurse my DD but couldn't produce enough. She had colic and had a lot of trouble latching. My cousin bfs and she jokes that she might as well be top less lol.

 

[Smille24]

my MIL s better now than she used to be, when me and hubb first started dating she made it very clear i wasnt good enough for her son, telling everyone she could that his 'tattooed girlfriend just isnt right for him' and that 'i'm sure he doesnt really like her, its just a phase'

that started off a hate relationship with his family. and my SIL is a strange one, shes 22 years old now, but when we first lived together i had to live with his family for a bit (we were originally a young long distance relationship) and she (at 18) was so clingly and would never leave him alone! she had to come with us EVERYWHERE and i wasnt allowed to get dressed in our room because she was in there, getting comfy in OUR bed, i had to leave and go to the bathroom?? she always tried to sit on him or hold his hand, sometimes i swear she wanted to be his girlfriend!! and she was always like, 'you guys arent going to stay in the same room are you?' with a disgusted look on her face, yes actually we are. she was such a strange one :S.

oh well, all done and dusted now. i seem to have gone on a bit of a rant haha, sorry!

That's creepy!

When me and my dh moved in together (we were just dating) his mom would call me and tell me I need to move out bc she doesn't believe in living together b4 marriage. I told her I'm not going anywhere and she needed to deal with it. My dh told her the same thing. She still tries to force her input but we ignore her.

 

[kittykat7210]

my MIL s better now than she used to be, when me and hubb first started dating she made it very clear i wasnt good enough for her son, telling everyone she could that his 'tattooed girlfriend just isnt right for him' and that 'i'm sure he doesnt really like her, its just a phase'

that started off a hate relationship with his family. and my SIL is a strange one, shes 22 years old now, but when we first lived together i had to live with his family for a bit (we were originally a young long distance relationship) and she (at 18) was so clingly and would never leave him alone! she had to come with us EVERYWHERE and i wasnt allowed to get dressed in our room because she was in there, getting comfy in OUR bed, i had to leave and go to the bathroom?? she always tried to sit on him or hold his hand, sometimes i swear she wanted to be his girlfriend!! and she was always like, 'you guys arent going to stay in the same room are you?' with a disgusted look on her face, yes actually we are. she was such a strange one :S.

oh well, all done and dusted now. i seem to have gone on a bit of a rant haha, sorry!

That's creepy!

When me and my dh moved in together (we were just dating) his mom would call me and tell me I need to move out bc she doesn't believe in living together b4 marriage. I told her I'm not going anywhere and she needed to deal with it. My dh told her the same thing. She still tries to force her input but we ignore her.

yeh i know, i'm pretty sure she is like an 8 year old inside :S because it would be cute if she was like 8, not so much now...

I know she doesn't mean anything by it, but she doesn't understand how to interact with people, like whats okay and whats not :/

and too right! i'd have told her to butt out as well!

 

[FLArmyWife]

BFN this morning... that's the last HCG strip I have with me for this trip... Guess I'm out for March

 

[Smille24]

BFN this morning... that's the last HCG strip I have with me for this trip... Guess I'm out for March

I'm sorry . If you become late for af I'd test then. Hopefully she backs off for a few days.

 

[kittykat7210]

i took a test this morning, BFN but I expected it, I didn't actually ovulate until a week ago, my cycle was so messed up this month!

 

[Smille24]

I didn't test. Last night I had pressure in my lower abdomen and a slight backache. It wasn't like af cramps but I'm having doubts that this is my cycle. This morning I feel normal other than my left bb hurting lol.

 

[Smille24]

i took a test this morning, BFN but I expected it, I didn't actually ovulate until a week ago, my cycle was so messed up this month!

7 dpo is early yet. I hope that it's your lucky month!

 

[FLArmyWife]

Good luck Kitkat...

Smile that she doesn't come for you. I woke up with a massive headache... #1 indicator the is on her way