August loss thread - TTC our rainbows!

[danser55]

Fingers crossed Danser! When will you be testing?

How is everyone else today? X

I tested this morning fully expecting a BFN and of course it was stark white negative. We will see what my temps do over the next few day though.

 

[LoraLoo]

Yeah it's a little early still. The earliest I've got a bfp is 9 dpo but usually 10. Fingers crossed for you.

xx

 

[Aayla]

got my cross hairs today!! 3DPO!! I am probably going to be symptom spotting like crazy. Comparing what i am feeling with the last time. But I know that every time is different so I hopefully won't freak out if a symptom is missing.

I will begin testing next monday. Although the urge to poas is so strong even though it's not possible to get a positive test. At min I have to wait until Friday which is 7dpo and when I will confirm ovulation. So really what is 2 more days?

 

[LoraLoo]

Monday sounds good hun- even at 7dpo it's highly unlikely you'd get a bfp even if you are pregnant x

 

[Aayla]

yeah. even 10dpo is probably pushing it for me. That's the earliest I can justify as that was when I got my first squinter.

I told my mom that I am not telling the results. She knows I'm due to test soon but I said I'm not even telling her. Not until Christmas Day. It will be hard. But if I am, my LMP would put me at 7 weeks on Dec 20 and they will likely want to do a viability scan then like last time.

aaah But I'm jumping ahead. Now to just get through this week.

 

[LoraLoo]

Well, you know ive said it before but there seems to be around a 30% bfp rate on most threads.
There's only been mine on 1st nov but technically would have got it in oct as I didn't test after 9dpo.

So there's got to be a couple of positives at least before the months out?!

 

[Aayla]

that would be sweet. FF says my score is high in timing, so did countdown to pregnancy.

 

[kakae]

AF got me. One more month to try to get a Christmas bfp. And it will then be 12 months of trying

 

[LoraLoo]

Sorry hun 😣 it's horrible to think about going into a new year with no bfp. Fingers crossed for a xmas bfp xx

 

[Aayla]

Oh sorry af came. Fx for his new cycle.

 

[danser55]

Sorry your period came.

Maybe you and I Aayla will be lucky and this will be our month!

 

[Aayla]

FX Danser

 

[Sweety21]

Sorry kakae, me too started spotting so af is gonna show up today or tomorrow.

danser,Lora and Aayla, fx this is your month!

 

[Sweety21]

Af is bang on time. So, the ttc has being postponed till March. Moving, going on vacation etc. Well, atleast will get some break from this.

How is everyone else doing?

 

[Aayla]

I am doing well. 4dpo today. I have little no symptoms compared with last time. But I know that most don't get anything until implantation. I have had some cramping yesterday and some more today. More than just twinges. Temps are still well above cover though.

 

[LoraLoo]

I'm sorry to hear that Sweety. Hopefully time will go reakly quickly for you.

4dpo here too.

Not feeling very confident though x

 

[Kandl123]

Sorry to hear sweety, hope the next few months fly by for you.
Fx for you both, lora and aayla X

 

[LoraLoo]

Thanks hun.

Bubbles how are things with you? Have you decided whether to ttc again or is it still too early to be asking? Xx

 

[danser55]

I'm 9 or 10 DPO I'm thinking closer to 9 though. Fertility friend said my chart is looking triphasic now, which I don't think is a clear sign. I still had a BFN this morning. I'm debating whether or not to even bother to test tomorrow. I feel like it will make me more sad and down somehow.

 

[Mrsmac02]

Sorry for not replying earlier ladies, been so busy at work - thanks for the lovely messages, I know I just need k get myself out of this blasted rut and I'll be ok!

Feeling a little more positive today. Got what is the closest to a positive OPK ever this afternoon (but wondering if it means I've I'd already?) and had a lot of cm (albeit not clear - not sure if that still counts?) Hopefully BD tonight! X

Edited to add a better photo - top one is an OPK I took a bit later on. Hate to get my hopes up but I think that's positive?!