I am so very sorry for your loss xxxHi Guys,
Just an update. We sadly said goodbye to our beautiful surprise on 09/08/20 at 20weeks. It has been the most awful time. It was a little boy and he kept the nickname Gruffy, our 2 boys called the bump baby Gruffy (as in the gruffalo), we couldn't call him anything else.
It's been heartbreaking, we had to make the decision to end the pregnancy. The guilt is unbearable at times but there was really no choice. I'm getting better though, bad days/good days.
We are thinking of trying again and the hospital have been so supportive, they were all amazing through the whole thing. The only positives I can take from this is that we fell pregnant easily and we got that far, as in no early mc and we were told it was just bad luck. We can have all the early scans and tests too. So I just need to wait for things to settle....Im 40 now so I don't feel time is on my side. I'm getting impatient lol.
Anyway I just want to wish you all well and I hope everyone is feeling good. Take care xxx
Hi Guys,
Just an update. We sadly said goodbye to our beautiful surprise on 09/08/20 at 20weeks. It has been the most awful time. It was a little boy and he kept the nickname Gruffy, our 2 boys called the bump baby Gruffy (as in the gruffalo), we couldn't call him anything else.
It's been heartbreaking, we had to make the decision to end the pregnancy. The guilt is unbearable at times but there was really no choice. I'm getting better though, bad days/good days.
We are thinking of trying again and the hospital have been so supportive, they were all amazing through the whole thing. The only positives I can take from this is that we fell pregnant easily and we got that far, as in no early mc and we were told it was just bad luck. We can have all the early scans and tests too. So I just need to wait for things to settle....Im 40 now so I don't feel time is on my side. I'm getting impatient lol.
Anyway I just want to wish you all well and I hope everyone is feeling good. Take care xxx
I'm here still, more lurking than anything else really. Suffering really badly from SPD, PGP and torn ligaments in my pelvis. I have a consultant appointment on the 9th Nov so I'm going to speak about induction as can't cope with this pain much longer.
Hope everyone is doing as well as they can be xxx
Hello all.
hope you’re all doing well? My December baby ended up becoming a November baby yesterday! Delivered him at 36+6 days. Should’ve been full term today!!
has anyone else delivered?
Congrats! So jealous. Still pregnant. I am ready for this pregnancy to be over. SOOOO many complications and struggles. Hope you both are doing well!