I'll be a plum tomorrow, well in 7hrs 40 mins
OMG i need you ladies to tell me not to panic!
my best friend that was 1.5 weeks ahead of me in pregnancy just called and said they cant find the heartbeat anymore.... 2 weeks ago they found it and she measured 7+1. They did a Pap today and the Dr. tried using a doppler even tho she knew they prob wouldnt hear anything.... which they didnt so they did an abdominal US which they could barely see the baby.... so they did the vaginal US and they saw the baby but no HB..... they sent her to the hospital to get another opinion...
OMG, im freaking out. How sad theres no way this is good news, if they saw the HB 2 weeks ago the baby would only get bigger so since they cant see it now, its for sure gunna be sad news for her.
im panicing bc what if that happens to me?! OMG OMG y do i keep thinking the worst!! I feel like i wanna go see my Dr. again for another scan even tho i saw the babies heartbeat last week.
Just remember only 10 to 20% of known pregnancy, after the test becomes positive, end in miscarriage. That is very sad for your friend. I'm so sorry she has to go through that, but it in no way means you'll have any problem whatsoever. This isn't 100% because you'll always meet someone who has had this experience, but after you see the baby and you hear its heartbeat, chances are, the baby is alright. You have an 80 to 90% chance of having a healthy baby in 32 weeks. Those are about as good as odds are going to get. So relax, breathe, and be there for your friend. Your little one is just fine.
i wish i was a plum
i wish i was a plum
i know everything is in all of our favor right now, its just scary...
my friend just texted and said for sure she lost the baby.... it stopped growing after her scan 2 weeks ago. MC is sucha sad thing, no matter how far along you are... its just devastating ppl have to go thru that.
At her scan she said she was suppost to be 8 weeks bc she said she knew when she ovulated, but they only measured her at 7 weeks.... i just thought her timing was off, but maybe that was a sign that the baby wasnt going right?