January Jellybeans 2013!...

[Nikkilewis14]

Yea it wont be forever! Hang in there!

 

[BlossomJ]

I really felt like the last couple of weeks I'd 'popped' & was really looking pregnant now, but I just took a bump pic & I'm a bit deflated. Just looks like I've eaten too much!

https://i1048.photobucket.com/albums/s365/lynnh22/Facebook/Test/284132_10152170822035271_1274123037_n.jpg

 

[Nikkilewis14]

Awe its coming dont worry blossom! Ur so tiny so thats expected i do see a bump coming tho!

 

[BlossomJ]

Aw thanks Nikki. I know it's a pathetic effort at a bump (no offence to my little jelly bean) but that makes me feel a little better

I'm thankful that I've not filled out with fluid like I did with DS, but I'd still like the baby bump. Guess I'm never satisfied!

 

[snowangel187]

Dh is annoyed that there's no bd'ing for the rest of pregnancy. Hes actually very attracted to my current stage of pregnancy. He said its not fair that the sexy prego is coming out and I'm shut off. I told him to talk to my dr.

 

[snowangel187]

Tomorrow is third tri. anybody else's heartburn getting ridiculous??

 

[DeedeeBeester]

Tomorrow is third tri. anybody else's heartburn getting ridiculous??

Mine is beginning.

 

[JCh]

Tomorrow is third tri. anybody else's heartburn getting ridiculous??

Yep! Been getting it off and on for a couple weeks - Drinking a small glass of milk seems to be the best option as I HATE chewing tums.... Tastes like chalk!

 

[Hunnibunni113]

Tomorrow is third tri. anybody else's heartburn getting ridiculous??

omg yes for the past 3 nights it has woken me up at 4 am and meds the dr prescribed me are starting not to work they only give me 2 a day and it only last for 4 hours now. very frustrating. i actually threw up last night and had a rice crispie and milk a few hours before bed and still got heart burn with nothing on my stomach. everyone says Little Gavin is going to come out with a head full of hair lol however i was born bald all the way up to kindergarden.

 

[Hunnibunni113]

ok beings how im a new user a i just reached the minimum amount of post for a signiture can someone please tell me how to get the cute signitures like you all have?? they are just so dag on adorable!!

 

[DittyByrd]

Is anyone else feeling really unattractive? My husband has taken a non-initiating approach to the physical side of our relationship since I started showing, too, which isn't helping me feel any better about my body. I just feel so bulky and clumsy and awkward. And the fact that my husband won't try and get me in the mood just makes me feel like he sees those things too.

Last night I broke down sobbing with my DH because I said he doesn't find me attractive anymore. We've got doctor's orders not to BD, I've got a red nose from a cold (I think), and of course, there's the belly. I told him I didn't want him to turn to some woman on the internet. LOL. Irrational but that's hormones for you.

Self-esteem issues were pervasive before pregnancy, so I am fighting a battle every day.

 

[DittyByrd]

I personally feel unattractive... I feel clumsy and big and get frustrated dressing myself. However DH thinks I'm gorgeous and sexy. I feel bad because I want nothing to do with the physical stuff. I think he's pretty much come to terms with the fact that there won't. E much dtd until well after baby is here. I wish I felt more up to it but have absolutely no desire. I sometimes feel horrible because I'm denying my husband tht intimacy...

I thought about how awkward it was for me to put on socks and shoes this morning. And how much worse it will get!

 

[JCh]

ok beings how im a new user a i just reached the minimum amount of post for a signiture can someone please tell me how to get the cute signitures like you all have?? they are just so dag on adorable!!

There is a limit where u can only have up to 5 i believe - this includes using the little emoticons.... If u click on the boxes of the tickers u like, u can go make one through the site - it will give u a URL that u can copy and paste into ur signature on the USER CP page. U can also check that it worked by previewing it. Hope that helps...

 

[JCh]

There are lots of other things u can do to satisfy him and it might help to take the initiative on something like that. Even just snuggling for a bit or getting into a makeout session or something. Obviously depending on ur preferences u could give oral or get him to play with u there....?
Apparently after discussing with DH when Dr Drew was talking about men using porn.... I don't feel quite so awkward about it all.... They watch it to get off, yes but it's not anything in comparison to u and it's just something they've always done. They usually don't even want to do the things they watch, it's just something that hits their fancy.

 

[brieri1]

Thanks for all the replies ladies. You've definitely helped me feel less alone. If I initiate, he does go for it, but it doesn't help much. My husband doesn't watch porn or masturbate, so it isn't like he shouldn't be in the mood on his own. I don't even know what to say if I were to talk to him about it. And he's sick right now, so he's not even interested if I initiate at the moment. The last time we had sex was last Wednesday, and after I started everything, he was very into it. Its just so hard to feel attractive right now. And it doesn't help that I'm not sleeping much anymore because Lilah thinks that waking me up at 2 in the morning to pee and then keeping me awake for some playtime is the bee's knees.

 

[JCh]

Thanks for all the replies ladies. You've definitely helped me feel less alone. If I initiate, he does go for it, but it doesn't help much. My husband doesn't watch porn or masturbate, so it isn't like he shouldn't be in the mood on his own. I don't even know what to say if I were to talk to him about it. And he's sick right now, so he's not even interested if I initiate at the moment. The last time we had sex was last Wednesday, and after I started everything, he was very into it. Its just so hard to feel attractive right now. And it doesn't help that I'm not sleeping much anymore because Lilah thinks that waking me up at 2 in the morning to pee and then keeping me awake for some playtime is the bee's knees.

Maybe buy a cute little nightie/ teddy? Might help to feel a bit sexier, some cute new panties?

 

[jrowenj]

ladies. i feel soooo lost because I haven't been keeping up with the thread!!! Today is my 2 year wedding anniversary! I love my hubby sooo much! We have been spending every minute of every day renovating the house so we can finish before the baby arrives. So, we took Sunday off in honor of our annivesary and we just vegged on the couch and watched movies and tv and we made a yummy dinner together. It was perfect!

To the women talking about not feeling attractive. I know what ya mean! It's hard to get naked and strut your stuff with a belly that is holding your baby in it!!!

Speaking of baby bumps... my baby must have gotten really big over the past couple days because i have been very uncomfortable it feels like he is all lumped up on one side and under my ribs... i dont know how i am gonna last 12 more weeks !

 

[Little J]

happy anniversary jrow!

im wondering if LO is getting bigger too... i keep feeling more pressure and i can totally tell when he flips position bc it gets tight/pressure in my tummy for like a few seconds.

 

[DeedeeBeester]

Last night hubby wanted some, can you believe it? I was exhausted crampy legs and just wanted to sleep after acting like a cleaning maniac all day long! I had to look for an exit... because it seemed like he wanted me to help with my hands... so I had to joke around and said with my fake southern accent: "I reckon I ain't wanting no participation with the awakening of 'em fainted... fainted mushroom of yours..." He just cracked up and said "Oh, are we having a 'King of the Hill' play role kinda thing?.." Hahaha, I managed to sleep away after without helping xD But i'm sure i'm gonna have to accept sooner or later, and it's his birthday saturday... I can't say no now LOL hahaha.

 

[Little J]

i had THE best sex dream lastnight with hubby..... i told him we should re-enact it tn, haha I think saying that def. made his monday