Wow!! I miss a few days and then there's load so pages!!
So many gender reveals! I love it! I cannot wait to find out! I didn't want to know but the party has me a bit pumped. And knowing all out family and friends will be there to share in the excitement is even better!!
I leak like crazy with my bladder. Did before being preggo as well. Not only do I have a double ureter but my bladder is tipped. So baby has been putting pressure on it from the getgo. Panty liners and cotton are you BFFs.
Not too much to report. Changed my diet a bit to keep bp elevated and so far so good.
baby is soooo bouncy! I feel hard kicks and rolls daily now. It's absolutely incredible.
We finally. Finally. Settled on a girls name. I'm so excited. I absolutely love it. But I think we may keep it a secret until delivery. Unless it's a boy. But may do the same then as well!!
Evelyn
I love it!
Side note: I'm beyond amazed at the amount of people who find it necessarily to comment on the size of a pregnant woman. It's horrifying. A woman at the bus stop yesterday got my attitude and all the moms probably thought I was nuts! She asked if I was pregnant then commented on how big I was. That in itself is an oxymoron. So I just told her I was getting lazy and chubby and walked away. Good grief. I'll have to post a belly shot for you all later!!
Regarding the episiotomies. They. Suck. I had a horrible one with my DD. Differences between a dr and midwife. Glad I learned that lesson. But remember it's your body and your baby. If you are delivering naturally be. VOCAL!!! Make the lube up and massage your perineum. My son had a bigger head than my daughter and he slid out!! I had a 4th degree tear with her and was horribly restricted. If you aren't happy find a doctor willing to listen. And yes you can interview doctors!! After my son I switched hospitals and found a women's center. Best decision I ever made. Make sure you are happy and that they are willing to follow your requests.
Especially in the us!! A friend just posted his daughter had a c-section and a week later ended up in the ER due to a blood clotting side effect. All her fingers ended up with clots. We have horrible maternal care, which is why it's so hard to find good care. Idk about other countries. But finding a decent ob here is like a needle in a haystack!!!