January testing thread / Starting 2019 with BFPs

Discussion in 'Two Week Wait' started by Nima, Dec 18, 2018.

  1. Penguin20

    Penguin20 Well-Known Member

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    thanks everyone for letting me rant and for your replies, just was having a bad evening as af arrived,

    Me and my partner are going away for couple days next week so that be nice cocktails and relaxing I think is needed even though I know I’ll miss my DD I know she excited for a nanny sleepover lol
     
  2. KansasMamas

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    Man.

    It has been a roller coaster of a week.

    In the TWW journal I have been discussing and joking about my giant left breast.

    Well. The giant left breast became very NOT funny this week. When it didn't go down in size after my cycle, we began to become concerned. And then we noticed the red, sunburn like, discolorations.

    My fertility doctor was alarmed after her exam and sent me for an immediate screen. The screen looked good, but we didn't have any answers and they were still alarmed.

    Today I had an apt at the women's breast cancer clinic at the university. They did a biopsy and now we wait to see what it shows.

    We are in a weird limbo with my cycle. Assuming that the biopsy comes back normal, we can continue to try this month.

    My scan to see if my femara worked is on Monday morning. I should have my biopsy back Monday or Tuesday.

    Here's to hoping that my follicles still need a day or two to grow, and I will get my results before it's time to trigger!

    We are definitely not taking any hormones or trying to get pregnant until we get the biopsy back.

    Today made me feel much more confident. The doctors were great and really happy with the scan. We are just at a "better safe than sorry" position.

    Fwew! Today is cycle day 8.Next week the biopsy will come back clear and we will get to move forward and put this week behind us.

     
  3. amoreamy

    amoreamy Well-Known Member

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    @KansasMamas you poor thing, what an awful thing to put into the mix. I hope everything is okay, please keep us informed x

    Afm, I'm confused. I'm 2 days late, I've had 6 long days of spotting and every single day has felt like my period is seconds away. I haven't tested for a few days as I'm trying to leave it a little while to do whatever the flip its got to do. I'm just a bit bummed out at this point. Sorry for the rant!
     
  4. Nima

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    Oh no @KansasMamas I'm so sorry you are going through this! I hope the results come back quickly and that they are normal. Hope you have some good plans for the weekend to distract you from the wait. Praying for you.

    @amoreamy you can rant as much as you want! This is hard and you're in this journey for so long now. 2 days late is something though, and if you test at least you're going to get a definitive answer. But sometimes you just can't risk seeing one more bfn. Hugs.
     
  5. MinnieMcMoose

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    Oh KansasMama, I feel your pain, I really do. I had to have a breast biopsy back in November after finding a lump. Thankfully, it turns out I just have cystic breasts, but it was scary there for a while. Nevermind that the biopsy bloody hurt and my boob was bruised every colour of the rainbow.
    Statistically, the majority of biopsies come back clear and I'm very much hoping that will be the case for you. Keep us updated xxx

    As for me, I'm out this month. It was a strange one for me - bleeding before ovulation and spotting on and off all the way until AF. My chart was bizarre too. Thought it was giving me odd readings as the thermometer batteries were dying but they remained odd after I changed them. My chart ended up like a heartbeat. Up, down, up, down.
    I've run out of Letrozole for now, so I'm going to try a month with Soy Isoflavones.
     
  6. amoreamy

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    @MinnieMcMoose I'm sorry af got you. I swear as soon as you start ttc things go a little freaky. Fxd for this month.

    @Nima thank you. I swear my hormones have me going in every direction at the moment. I thought you're right though, I should test. I feel like it's a bfn but I'm seeing something.

    We've been to the doctors and got our referral for ivf, so that's good news. Dh sperm results were under normal but I'm sure they can be improved. He's a coeliac so I think that has something to do with it.

    I'm 13dpo today and this was taken in the time frame.

     
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  7. Nima

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    @MinnieMcMoose uff I'm sorry AF got you and that you had such a roller coaster month.
    @amoreamy something is catching my eye but I don't know if that's because I know where the line should be... I hope you get some clarity soon and even better if you won't need this IVF referral. <3
     
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  8. Plus1More

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    Have a lovely time! Enjoy! :plane:
     
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  9. Plus1More

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    I do see a touch of a line, it is frustrating however if this is your bfp it should darken slightly every 2/3 days. Fingers crossed.
     
  10. Nima

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    Thank you!!
     
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  11. Plus1More

    Plus1More Well-Known Member

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    That pesky breast! Truly hoping it is just hormonal and that you will hear some reassuring news soon.
     
  12. EMSwife1124

    EMSwife1124 Mommy to Odin & Pregnant with #2!

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    So holding out til Monday or Tuesday didn’t happen. I had a dream last night that I tested today it was positive.. then my MIL texted me this morning that she dreamed we had a little girl and named her Opal.

    So I held SMU for 3 hours but didn’t withhold any liquids... and this showed up before the time to read it.

    DH said he sees it but isn’t ready to call it.

    I’m shaking. I’ve been cramping on and off for 3 days and my boobs were tender yday but I blamed my workout.

    Please be real. 8dpo today.

     
  13. mrsmummy2

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    Definitely looks bfp to me EMSwife!
     
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  14. amoreamy

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  15. Nima

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    @EMSwife1124 yesssss! Beautiful lines! That's so exciting !
     
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  16. EMSwife1124

    EMSwife1124 Mommy to Odin & Pregnant with #2!

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    Thank you ladies! I’m in complete shock.

    I think Opal is cute but DH vetoed it as soon as I told him what his mom texted haha.. he’s impossible.
     
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  17. EMSwife1124

    EMSwife1124 Mommy to Odin & Pregnant with #2!

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    FRER two hour hold not withholding liquids. 5 minute mark.

     
  18. PurplePear

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    Emswife congrats those lines look great!
     
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  19. mrsmummy2

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    GREAT line EMS!!
     
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  20. TTC74

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    EMSwife- congrats!

    Kansasmamas - thinking of you and hoping you get your results back soon!
     
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