I really don't know how to feel right now. After being so excited for my positive this morning and told my hubby, and my side of the family. My husband told me that he isn't going to be happy for awhile because he doesn't want to get his hopes up. Then my sister chose to tell everyone that she is pregnant with number 2 and is due 2 weeks before I am. I just want to cry. I feel so overshadowed.
Men take a longer time to feel attached to a pregnancy. They don't feel the hormonal changes, they don't feel the kicks until later, and generally they are just cautious sometimes. I'm sure he's excited but also trying to prepare himself for the worst even though statistically everything will be just fine! Guys just take a little longer, but it's just because he wants it so badly! Just as much as you!
As for your sister, I'm sorry you feel overshadowed she probably thought it would be cool to share the news. My sister in law and I were pregnant very close together and while there were times I was a bit jealous overall it was really fun to share! And now our babies are so close!
Congrats and don't let anything take away your joy!'
hey ladies I just had a bit of pink/ pale red when I wiped, holding on to any hope that this could be IB, isnt it late though for IB at 12dpo???
just hoping this isnt af showing her ugly face, as it's really the last thing I need, would also be my second month in a row that af has come early I wonder why that would be.
But could it be IB this late???
Oh jrepp, your news is still just as exciting! It will be nice to have cousins so close in age! My sister in law is pregnant and due exactly one month before me, I'm hoping it will be nice to have a pregnancy buddy!
These are this mornings tests (13dpo)
Sorry quick question , is a dip when ur temps lower on the day of ovulation
Tested yesterday afternoon at 13dpo and got a faint bfp on a frer. Just tested again at 14dpo with both a frer and a digi. The line, while still light, is darker than yesterday and that beautiful word pregnant came up on the digi! I can hardly believe it after 1.5 years, bfn after bfn, and multiple failed IUIs! I'm in shock and just praying for this bean to stick!
Baby dust to everyone still waiting to test!
I really don't know how to feel right now. After being so excited for my positive this morning and told my hubby, and my side of the family. My husband told me that he isn't going to be happy for awhile because he doesn't want to get his hopes up. Then my sister chose to tell everyone that she is pregnant with number 2 and is due 2 weeks before I am. I just want to cry. I feel so overshadowed.
All the worrying yesterday made me freak out a little, but...........it's still pink!
Thank you all for your enthusiasm, support and kind words!
Tested yesterday afternoon at 13dpo and got a faint bfp on a frer. Just tested again at 14dpo with both a frer and a digi. The line, while still light, is darker than yesterday and that beautiful word pregnant came up on the digi! I can hardly believe it after 1.5 years, bfn after bfn, and multiple failed IUIs! I'm in shock and just praying for this bean to stick!
Baby dust to everyone still waiting to test!
Well I tested again this morning (after dreaming all night I got a BFP) and it's still a BFN. I'm not going to count myself out until Friday but I'm really not feeling it this month after all. Not going to get too down though, this is only our first month back trying so we will try again in September if AF shows!