please let me have a mummys little boy!!

[jennjennxx]

hi all I'm so so glad I found this GD forum, I thought I was just just being utterly selfish in feeling this way, but I know I will be devastated if I have another girl as will my husband and this will be my last little one, and we already have a beautiful daughter, and also our first beautiful daughter is now an angel, I just can't bare the thought of not having a son, doesn't help that everyone is either saying (due to severe morning sickness) "oh it'll be another girl" or "it doesn't matter as long as its healthy" and well ofcourse all I want is a healthy baby and I know more than most after losing a precious daughter, but I still can't help longing for a boy.

so am keeping this thread as a journey to either getting a beautiful son or having another beautiful daughter and have to come to terms with the fact I will never have a son :'(.

I have my twelve week scan I the 30th of April so am looking forward to people's guesses, I'm also half tempted to get a private gender scan at 16 weeks but I'm scared if it's another girl I will spend the rest of the pregnancy feeling depressed. literally since the minute I found out I'm pregnant I have been looking at every gender predicting theory going :0( doesn't help that husband says he will be disappointed with another girl.

so wish me luck guys :0) sorry if I sound really really ungrateful and selfish. xox

 

[motherofboys]

Hi there, I completely understand. I have 3 boys and am desperate for a girl. I have had my 12 week scan and had a couple of girl guesses here but mainly boy guesses. Just seeing the guesses broke my heart. I have a gender scan 7th of May and am so scared but I also know I will hear boy. I almost cancelled my gender scan but I KNOW I need to know as early as possible to give me time to adjust and get used to the idea.
I've done every online test and gender predictor going. I hope you get your boy.

 

[embeth]

Hope you get your boy xx

 

[shayzee]

Before i came across this forum i also thought i was the only one feeling this way but you arent alone hun, i really hope your dream of a blue bundle comes true & good luck with your scan,x.

 

[maybebaby3]

Don't feel bad. I wanted a girl but its a boy. I was disappointed at first but now I'm getting over it and I'm sure you will even if its a girl. Hope you get your boy tho!!!

 

[dollych]

Good luck and I hope you get you're boy. xxx

 

[Misscalais]

Fingers crossed for your boy!
Make sure you update us with your scan pic when you have it and we will try guess.

 

[jennjennxx]

thank you soo much for your lovely replies :0), I don't feel so alone now. I think I will eventually get over it if I am having a girl I'm almost trying to think in my head it will be a girl so maybe I won't be so disappointed when I do find out.

I have my first scan on the 30th so will put the pic on here to see what peoples guesses are.

I may get a gender scan booked at 16 weeks but I'm really not sure yet. xox

 

[MeAndMyShadow]

Hope you get your little boy hun xx

 

[jennjennxx]

eeek I'm getting excited now, only a week tomorrow and I will be having my first scan :0). xox

 

[minties]

Best of luck! Boys are so cool. If I ever have a 3rd I'll be wanting another.

 

[jennjennxx]

oh dear!! I'm starting to get a little bit obsessive now about having a boy :0( it's really not healthy I'm driving myself bonkers lol. anyone else feel like this. I think I may have to book at gender scan 16 weeks so I can stop thinking!! my first scan is on Tuesday which I'm really looking forward to, but I'm scared I won't enjoy it as much as I should as all I'll be doing is nub searching lol!! I think I've definitely lost it!! xox

 

[Misscalais]

Don't worry Hun I will be the same, i think it's easier to relax and accept when you find out.
I think I'm going to do the early gender scan with next bub too.

 

[motherofboys]

Thats why I decided to go for the gender scan. I was getting so obsessed and I think its just best to know one way or the other so I can get over it if its a boy and start enjoying my pregnancy rather than thinking about the gender all the time.

 

[jennjennxx]

oh my!! its now tomorrow and I will be having my first scan of bubba :0), thing is all I can still think about is nub, I know it may not be 100% to guess gender but seems pretty accurate. rahhh!! wish me luck guys will post a piccy up tomorrow for guesses. also does anyone know the website that you can get a guess from a tech, I've seen people on here say about it but can't find it? :0) xox

 

[Misscalais]

oh my!! its now tomorrow and I will be having my first scan of bubba :0), thing is all I can still think about is nub, I know it may not be 100% to guess gender but seems pretty accurate. rahhh!! wish me luck guys will post a piccy up tomorrow for guesses. also does anyone know the website that you can get a guess from a tech, I've seen people on here say about it but can't find it? :0) xox

Good luck! Can't wait to see your little bean.
I've heard about that one too but I can't remember motherofboys you sent yours into one didn't you?

 

[motherofboys]

I would recommend genderdreaming and also in-gender a lot of the main guessers of in-gender are also on genderdreaming but I trust the other advice on GD more that IG.

Good luck for your scan. Please try not to spend the whole time worrying about nub, I did and I came away not feeling like I had had a scan and seen my baby. Its a very weird feeling.

 

[jennjennxx]

thanks so much guys :0), and I've made a promise to myself, NOT to worry about the gender and just try and enjoy the scan else I'll prob regret not taking it in properly as it is such a special moment.

well my scan is 1.30pm UK time so as soon as I'm home I will upload a piccy of my little bubz xox

 

[maybebaby3]

Ingender but make sure you get a good nub shot. Mine wasn't good enough

 

[jennjennxx]

oh my!! only 4 hours to go now :0) xox