please let me have a mummys little boy!!

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  1. jennjennxx

    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    hi all I'm so so glad I found this GD forum, I thought I was just just being utterly selfish in feeling this way, but I know I will be devastated if I have another girl as will my husband and this will be my last little one, and we already have a beautiful daughter, and also our first beautiful daughter is now an angel, I just can't bare the thought of not having a son, doesn't help that everyone is either saying (due to severe morning sickness) "oh it'll be another girl" or "it doesn't matter as long as its healthy" and well ofcourse all I want is a healthy baby and I know more than most after losing a precious daughter, but I still can't help longing for a boy.

    so am keeping this thread as a journey to either getting a beautiful son or having another beautiful daughter and have to come to terms with the fact I will never have a son :'(.

    I have my twelve week scan I the 30th of April so am looking forward to people's guesses, I'm also half tempted to get a private gender scan at 16 weeks but I'm scared if it's another girl I will spend the rest of the pregnancy feeling depressed. literally since the minute I found out I'm pregnant I have been looking at every gender predicting theory going :0( doesn't help that husband says he will be disappointed with another girl.

    so wish me luck guys :0) sorry if I sound really really ungrateful and selfish. xox
     
  2. motherofboys

    motherofboys Mum of 5 boys

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    Hi there, I completely understand. I have 3 boys and am desperate for a girl. I have had my 12 week scan and had a couple of girl guesses here but mainly boy guesses. Just seeing the guesses broke my heart. I have a gender scan 7th of May and am so scared but I also know I will hear boy. I almost cancelled my gender scan but I KNOW I need to know as early as possible to give me time to adjust and get used to the idea.
    I've done every online test and gender predictor going. I hope you get your boy.
     
  3. embeth

    embeth Mum to 4 perfect children

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    Hope you get your boy xx
     
  4. shayzee

    shayzee Mum to ds,dd & angel

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    Before i came across this forum i also thought i was the only one feeling this way but you arent alone hun, i really hope your dream of a blue bundle comes true & good luck with your scan,x.
     
  5. maybebaby3

    maybebaby3 Proud mum of 4!

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    Don't feel bad. I wanted a girl but its a boy. I was disappointed at first but now I'm getting over it and I'm sure you will even if its a girl. Hope you get your boy tho!!!
     
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    dollych Well-Known Member

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    Good luck and I hope you get you're boy. xxx
     
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    Misscalais Well-Known Member

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    Fingers crossed for your boy!
    Make sure you update us with your scan pic when you have it and we will try guess.
     
  8. jennjennxx

    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    thank you soo much for your lovely replies :0), I don't feel so alone now. I think I will eventually get over it if I am having a girl I'm almost trying to think in my head it will be a girl so maybe I won't be so disappointed when I do find out.

    I have my first scan on the 30th so will put the pic on here to see what peoples guesses are.

    I may get a gender scan booked at 16 weeks but I'm really not sure yet. :confused: xox
     
  9. MeAndMyShadow

    MeAndMyShadow Mommy To Zachary And Sean

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    Hope you get your little boy hun xx
     
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    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    eeek I'm getting excited now, only a week tomorrow and I will be having my first scan :0). xox
     
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    Best of luck! Boys are so cool. If I ever have a 3rd I'll be wanting another.
     
  12. jennjennxx

    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    oh dear!! I'm starting to get a little bit obsessive now about having a boy :0( it's really not healthy I'm driving myself bonkers lol. anyone else feel like this. I think I may have to book at gender scan 16 weeks so I can stop thinking!! my first scan is on Tuesday which I'm really looking forward to, but I'm scared I won't enjoy it as much as I should as all I'll be doing is nub searching lol!! I think I've definitely lost it!! xox
     
  13. Misscalais

    Misscalais Well-Known Member

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    Don't worry Hun I will be the same, i think it's easier to relax and accept when you find out.
    I think I'm going to do the early gender scan with next bub too.
     
  14. motherofboys

    motherofboys Mum of 5 boys

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    Thats why I decided to go for the gender scan. I was getting so obsessed and I think its just best to know one way or the other so I can get over it if its a boy and start enjoying my pregnancy rather than thinking about the gender all the time.
     
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    oh my!! its now tomorrow and I will be having my first scan of bubba :0), thing is all I can still think about is nub, I know it may not be 100% to guess gender but seems pretty accurate. rahhh!! wish me luck guys will post a piccy up tomorrow for guesses. also does anyone know the website that you can get a guess from a tech, I've seen people on here say about it but can't find it? :0) xox
     
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    Good luck! Can't wait to see your little bean.
    I've heard about that one too but I can't remember motherofboys you sent yours into one didn't you?
     
  17. motherofboys

    motherofboys Mum of 5 boys

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    I would recommend genderdreaming and also in-gender a lot of the main guessers of in-gender are also on genderdreaming but I trust the other advice on GD more that IG.

    Good luck for your scan. Please try not to spend the whole time worrying about nub, I did and I came away not feeling like I had had a scan and seen my baby. Its a very weird feeling.
     
  18. jennjennxx

    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    thanks so much guys :0), and I've made a promise to myself, NOT to worry about the gender and just try and enjoy the scan else I'll prob regret not taking it in properly as it is such a special moment.

    well my scan is 1.30pm UK time so as soon as I'm home I will upload a piccy of my little bubz xox
     
  19. maybebaby3

    maybebaby3 Proud mum of 4!

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    Ingender but make sure you get a good nub shot. Mine wasn't good enough
     
  20. jennjennxx

    jennjennxx Well-Known Member

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    oh my!! only 4 hours to go now :0) xox
     

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