Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[iBeach]

We need some BFP!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Yes we do!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Ibeach, when do you test? And what dpo are u?

 

[Wishing1010]

I'm so glad we are a on first name basis now!! Do you think we could make a front page list Wishing (Kenna) So we can remember them? For all of us dedicated to this thread I'm Amy...I know, shock! lol - My dad traveled to Japan for business long ago and San is I guess what you put after your name..or something...I dunnno...he used to call me AmySan..my ex and his 3 kids called me 'Famous' for years and years lol..But it would be super nice to have a list! Cause I am already trying to scroll back to find everyone and am having trouble! I knew Jrepp was Jessica from YouTube.

Currently on CD 10, BDed, barely, last night (poor OH...He was expecting a 6k return from the IRS, and ended up owing 2k...He doesn't know I know how much he has in his checking account alone (way more than you should keep in a checking account!!) and said he has never had to dip into savings before, which scares him....Totally understand that...but...yeah...he was in a pissy mood last night and almost couldn't do it. My birthday is on Sunday, so he promised he would snap out of it for then...Mom is out of town ...I hate birthdays. ugh. 28.

Getting flashy smilies on CBOPK - So that is good. Also still suing softcup with preseed in it, and a little preseed inside.

Hope you ladies are off to a wonderful Friday!

Ooo almost birthday time!!! You are still young!! I may make a list if all ladies are willing to have their names posted, but will not do so without their permission

Oh no, that stinks about the return!!!! I'm so sorry, I hope he feels better soon, that was a devastating blow, I'm sure!

FX that you catch your sticky bean this cycle!!!

 

[steph_466]

Ladies I need some advice!! Cd 35 now. Temp is still high today, bfn cheap preg test. Some bright blood after bm.. any ideas?? Getting frustrated!

 

[Wishing1010]

Hmm, I'm not sure steph! When was AF due? I'm sorry I'm sure you have said previously but there are so many ladies on here lol!

 

[Jrepp]

Amy, I accepted. You look way different than your profile picture. Did someone else send a request too? I had two and accepted them both but I neglected to even see who the other one was lol.

Baby shower almost all set up for tomorrow. It should be for me but whatever will be will be

 

[Jrepp]

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[Jrepp]

How long are your normal cycles? Could you have ovulated later? How long have you had high temps?

 

[aidensmommy1]

Ladies I need some advice!! Cd 35 now. Temp is still high today, bfn cheap preg test. Some bright blood after bm.. any ideas?? Getting frustrated!

how many days have u had high temps in a row for? And how many dpo are u? AND what type of tests are u using? Hopefully it was IB for u! FX!

 

[steph_466]

Af was due cd29. Its always within a day. I didnt do opks this month temps have been up for eight days now. I use an app on my phone and cant upload it. I missed a lot of temps at the begining of the month so im unsure of when I ovulated.

 

[Jrepp]

So my best guess would be that you ovulated late, and are 8dpo based upon 8 days of high temps. If you haven't started in a week I would retest (or at least wait another 2).

 

[aidensmommy1]

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I just watched it. My doc had said the same to me about my tube that if I have her try and unblock it, it may lead to her having to completely remove it so dh and I, like you and ur husband, are ultimately going to do what we have to do. We decided we would give it a year on enzymes and if that doesn't work, we will go ahead with the surgery. I figure if its not working anyways then its worth TRYING to fix, u know? But hopefully u dont have to worry about that! And omg that's scary that u may have something with your blood causing complications that they dont have a test for! I will be praying for you everyday, and I mean that. I hope everything goes GREAT and u have a bfp for our bdays and I'm sorry but that is hilarious about the aliens! My dad always makes sexual remarks to the nurses when he's waking up from it LOL. (and he's a very Christian man!) We always have to warn them as well. Ive never had an issue w it but I ALWAYS worry I will lol. Good luck!!! ill be watching for an update

 

[aidensmommy1]

Af was due cd29. Its always within a day. I didnt do opks this month temps have been up for eight days now. I use an app on my phone and cant upload it. I missed a lot of temps at the begining of the month so im unsure of when I ovulated.

I agree with jrepp, I'm guessing ur only 8 maybe 9dpo and u just oed late. Ur temp rises within a day or so after ovulation so it def sounds like that's what's goin on and If thats the case, there's a good chance u experienced IB because normally it happens between 7-12dpo. Good luck!

Also, if ur using frer or any sensitive brand you could probably test again in 2-4 days and get a bfp, especially if today was IB...fx!

 

[steph_466]

So my best guess would be that you ovulated late, and are 8dpo based upon 8 days of high temps. If you haven't started in a week I would retest (or at least wait another 2).

Im lost now, check out my chart I threw it online and see when you think I may have ovulated, my temping sucked this month. https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4e6e54

 

[Jrepp]

Based on what I see, I would say you ovulated sometime between cd 25-27 and you would be 8-9dpo.

 

[aidensmommy1]

So my best guess would be that you ovulated late, and are 8dpo based upon 8 days of high temps. If you haven't started in a week I would retest (or at least wait another 2).

Im lost now, check out my chart I threw it online and see when you think I may have ovulated, my temping sucked this month. https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4e6e54

AF is only late if u ovulate late (unless ur pregnant of course) but with charting, u know its not late because ur LP (after O) should be about 11-15days long and its hard to tell with the missing temps but it looks like u could be anywhere from 8-10dpo from looking at ur chart. I'd say test in 2-3 days. If this is ur first cycle charting and u don't get ur bfp, next cycle u will know how many days ur LP is and that's what ur new AF estimator would be based on. If you go to fertilityfriend.com it explains alot about charting and how to know if ur period is truly late and all that good info. I didn't realize before charting temps that when AF was late, it wasn't truly late, I just oed late and had no clue because i was originally just going by an ovulation calendar which sets itself at the normal CD14 ovulation day but most women O before or after this day. Anyways, I'm rambling on now and may not be making sense! Lol good luck! FX today was implantation bleeding for u! It def looks like its too early for AF so unless midcycle spotting is normal for u, it could be a good sign! FX!


EDIT: I dont know why I completely spaced that u already use FF as I was typing this even tho I had JUST looked at ur chart lol. Anyways, I hope I explained the dpo and AF thing right to u...if it didn't make sense I'll find a site to explain what jrepp and I are saying

 

[steph_466]

I understand lol, Ive been charting on and off the last year. My cycles are always 28-31 days tops. Always ovulate between day 14-16. Hence why im so confused. I dont use FF, I just inputed my info in tonight so I could show you my chart and see why im so lost lol I use a app on the iphone since I always have it with me. I know I had ovulation pain around day eight and I thought that was weird being to early, and again around the 20th, and that could be possible to I guess if you just remove the temp on the 25th no? I just want this cycle to be done, one way or another. FX

 

[Megamegan]

Hey steph... first of all I recommend getting the FF app on your phone since it directly uploads it to the website when you input on your phone, and I still use the free version and it works. So, concerning your chart- since many of your temps have the open circle, meaning an unsure temp based on the time you took it or whatever, that makes me think the temp on CD 25 may be incorrect and you might have O'd between CD 20-25. It's hard to say since you've never had a cycle this long, but now I see why temping is so useful- sometimes our cycles CAN do wacky things (like delayed ovulation) for no apparent reason and a clear chart would remove the question of whether or not you're actually late for your period. At this point I'd say you should just take a test like every 3 days or so unless AF shows. And keep on temping just in case it shows a drop (impending AF) or steady high temps for the next 10 days (they say 18 days of high temps means pregnant). Good luck!!!

 

[steph_466]

Hey steph... first of all I recommend getting the FF app on your phone since it directly uploads it to the website when you input on your phone, and I still use the free version and it works. So, concerning your chart- since many of your temps have the open circle, meaning an unsure temp based on the time you took it or whatever, that makes me think the temp on CD 25 may be incorrect and you might have O'd between CD 20-25. It's hard to say since you've never had a cycle this long, but now I see why temping is so useful- sometimes our cycles CAN do wacky things (like delayed ovulation) for no apparent reason and a clear chart would remove the question of whether or not you're actually late for your period. At this point I'd say you should just take a test like every 3 days or so unless AF shows. And keep on temping just in case it shows a drop (impending AF) or steady high temps for the next 10 days (they say 18 days of high temps means pregnant). Good luck!!!

Thanks! I just downloaded the app to my phone! Will make this a lot easier too.. I give up for a couple days I think. I really think af might be showing up now.. even know my temp was still up today. Im cramping and a bit of spotting so hopefully something will happen soon. Thanks for all your help Good luck to you