Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Megamegan]

Yay froggy, good idea to keep your mind off of it, and it's sorta nice that you know hCG is already there so symptoms don't count/you don't have to worry about what they mean!

Aidensmommy and... whoever else is Oing out there (there are definitely a lot of us!)... I'm Oing today too with you! Probably this evening, based on my super positive OPK this morning. I guess it's also possible it will happen tomorrow. I had acupuncture today and she focused on points that help with bloodflow for conception. So let's hope it's going to work. I also have BD'd the past 3 days, planning to for at least another 2 days- yesterday, today, and tomorrow I am using SoftCups too. My acupuncturist says there is still "stress" in my pulse, so I guess I'm not doing a great job at relaxing, but I don't feel that stressed. Maybe I'm used to being in a constant state of stress. lol. I bet many of us are, without even realizing it.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Yay aidensmommy and SweetMelodies for your os!!glad yall got some bding in! And wishing im so happy for you. !!! I have not been on as much the last couple of days. Been trying to stay busy so that I dont over think! Did some spring cleaning yesterday, and getting ready for my little love bug nephew to come spend next weekend with me! I cant really say if I have had any symptoms or not because the trigger shot is hcg, so it causes all kinds of symptoms! Fx so tight for all of us this cycle!

good luck froggy! I bet you'll have an awesome time with ur nephew! That'll definitely keep u busy

AFM, I believe I am O'ing as I type this. My ovary has been going crazy for a lil while now and I'm having cramping in my upper thigh as well now which usually happens for me with O but now the cramping has gotten more intense. They feel a bit stronger this cycle in general though, probably due to the vitex. I'm excited to see if a sticky bean can make its way through my tube this cycle! FX!

 

[Wishing1010]

Lots of eggs bursting through the gates right now! Swim sperm, swimmmm!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Yay froggy, good idea to keep your mind off of it, and it's sorta nice that you know hCG is already there so symptoms don't count/you don't have to worry about what they mean!

Aidensmommy and... whoever else is Oing out there (there are definitely a lot of us!)... I'm Oing today too with you! Probably this evening, based on my super positive OPK this morning. I guess it's also possible it will happen tomorrow. I had acupuncture today and she focused on points that help with bloodflow for conception. So let's hope it's going to work. I also have BD'd the past 3 days, planning to for at least another 2 days- yesterday, today, and tomorrow I am using SoftCups too. My acupuncturist says there is still "stress" in my pulse, so I guess I'm not doing a great job at relaxing, but I don't feel that stressed. Maybe I'm used to being in a constant state of stress. lol. I bet many of us are, without even realizing it.

I should def look into this because I have horrible anxiety and stress. I get what u mean about maybe being used to being in a constant state of stress...thats how I feel alot. I'd def love something to help it! I hope it helps u this cycle! It looks like we all have Easter-ish AF dates this cycle, hopefully its luck for a BFP! FX! As long as I O today (which the darkness of my opk this a.m def says I should O today) then AF will be due Easter day I had just put that date down on the front page as a guestimate and being hopeful for a later O and it actually came true lol. good luck this cycle! My fingers are crossed for u! FX!!

 

[missink2014]

hi ladies sorry i didnt get a chance to poas yesterday so have done one this afternoon.. not sure if i can see the line getting darker or not.

 

[Wishing1010]

I think 16 is darker than 14!

 

[missink2014]

I think 16 is darker than 14!

It seems to be slightly darker i think and was a pm test so will test again tomorrow morning and hope for an even darker line fx

 

[Wishing1010]

FX for you so tight!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Woah, I just got the darkest opk I have ever had! And only on an hr and 45min hold! The test line showed up like 10secs before the control line and wayyyy darker and even a little thicker! I think ill have a good O this cycle..fx everything works out!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Misink, It looks like 16 is a tad bit darker than 14! Ive seen women not get a darker line on those kind of tests (or ones that look like them) for a few days and then it'll finally get darker. I'd try again tomorrow a.m they say the levels double every 48hrs but my doc told me its really every 48-72hrs so maybe tomorrow there will be more of a difference. FX! good luck hun! Keep us posted!

 

[Wishing1010]

Yayayayayay! Sounds like the month for awesomely dark OPK's!

 

[missink2014]

Misink, It looks like 16 is a tad bit darker than 14! Ive seen women not get a darker line on those kind of tests (or ones that look like them) for a few days and then it'll finally get darker. I'd try again tomorrow a.m they say the levels double every 48hrs but my doc told me its really every 48-72hrs so maybe tomorrow there will be more of a difference. FX! good luck hun! Keep us posted!

aww thank you, i just hope this one is a sticky one. was so shocked at my mc last month, just didn't expect it, so now im on high alert. So happy to see/hear that you have a good pos opk, my fingers are very tightly crossed for you.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thanks ladies! Now lets just pray if the egg gets fertilized, that it can make it through the part of my tube attached to my uterus..(that's that part they said was blocked) but the other end closest to my ovary had some blockage that was pushed through during the test so I'm very nervous about ectopic. I kinda wonder if it was just a spasm when I think about it sometimes...Only because my doc thought the opposite end would be blocked and it was but was pushed through by the dye and that was the side she had to remove scar tissue from during my surgery 3yrs ago and there was no damage to the part connecting to my uterus at that time so that's why she thinks there's a little chance it could've been a spasm but as well all know, scar tissue tends to spread. Plus she said that the end closest to the uterus is where they usually see spasms when spasms occur so we shall see FX sooo tight this ends up being the case!!! I'm not getting my hopes up that maybe the test was wrong but either way I'm ok with it now. I KNOW my tube will work after some treatment if it really was blocked and I do believe in miracles so alls I can do is just keep praying!

 

[aidensmommy1]

So my best friends little sister just announced she is pregnant as well today. She is 17 and isn't in a good steady relationship. I dont get it! And she has the same condition as me but never was actually diagnosed with a blocked tube through an hsg or anything. Every a.m I wake up wondering which one of my non pregnant friends are going to call with a pregnancy announcement today. Ugh. Its hard to be excited for someone in situations like that because she's so young and has no intention of staying with the father but purposely got pregnant by using opks for one month. And it worries me as well because she had just been diagnosed with lupus and the doctor specifically told her to stay away from getting pregnant right now because she could miscarry and bleed alot more than usual or she could hemorrhage giving birth so its unsafe for her. This all feels like a dream to me. It all just very bad timing. My bff is even freaking out about it and she's pregnant so its not a jealousy thing with her at all. And my bffs little sister has been using Percocet for the last 6 months apparently as well. (just found that out today) It is just the worst time for her to be pregnant!!
Hada get my venting out...

 

[Wishing1010]

Oh no...that's horrible. Bringing a poor child into this situation for selfish reasons. Makes my heart ache reading this. She's apparently too immature to understand what she has done. So sad. to you, I hope you don't have to deal with too many more BFP announcements before getting your own!

 

[MarieMo7]

We have friends trying to adopt right now. They have 2 biological children but want to adopt for their 3rd child. They are going through hell trying to get everything ready for the home inspection and interviews, etc., and are stressing over things like a microwave with an exposed cord (5 feet off the ground, mind you).

And yet, anyone biologically capable can have a kid, whether or not they are responsible enough, financially stable enough, committed enough. It's a little scary.

 

[Wishing1010]

That is so the truth, Marie!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

It makes me just wonder...."how?" I don't understand the world sometimes! Its very heartbreaking.

 

[Wishing1010]

It makes me just wonder...."how?" I don't understand the world sometimes! Its very heartbreaking.

I'm right there with ya, Hun. argh!!!

 

[froggyfrog]

Sorry aidensmommy