Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

My spotting is still here. DH is convinced I'm either pregnant or having another chemical. He really thinks chemical but I keep reminding him that AF was LATE that month, not 4-5 days early!! Its so strange. Its mostly all brown or black but then I had two mini "gushes" (not really gushes but more than spotting) and both were colored bright red with lots of watery/EWCM in it, as well as the brown color mixed in. Ive never had anything like this so early. Ive been googling all day and for women who dont spot (like myself), the spotting 4 days before AF can be a great sign of IB (commonly on day 10 from what women are saying from their own experiences anyway..) IDK though. I just went out and got all ready for testing tomorrow so ill be whipping out the FRER tomorrow. FX this is it!! The nausea ive had with all this makes me think IB even more. I just don't know what else it'd be! Cant wait for the next two days. If it was IB today, I should get a positive the day after tomorrow. FX for the biggest temp rise ever!!

 

[cutieq]

I'm ready to go to bed just so I can wake up and see your test. I hope this is it Mary!

 

[starryjune]

OK, seriously... Kohls.com needs to get its s#!% together so I can complete my mid-2WW retail therapy. I am going to break my computer from refreshing their damn page. I have Christmas ornaments and cozy gifts for my mom, siblings, and DH in my cart, &^&%%$$!

Hmm, mood swing? I don't care. I need to shop!

UPDATE: It started working again and I bought a bunch of stuff. Amen.

 

[Jrepp]

So it looks like I might be getting another surgery hopefully in the next 2-3 weeks. The injection that the orthopedic surgeon did confirmed his diagoniss and he said eventually the nerve will have to be removed. He said it could wait until after I get pregnant and give birth but after thinking things though I think now rather than later is a better way to go. You'll have to read my blog to read all the details because my iPad keeps freezing. The link is in my signature and if you haven't already subscribed, please do so!

 

[aidensmommy1]

So it looks like I might be getting another surgery hopefully in the next 2-3 weeks. The injection that the orthopedic surgeon did confirmed his diagoniss and he said eventually the nerve will have to be removed. He said it could wait until after I get pregnant and give birth but after thinking things though I think now rather than later is a better way to go. You'll have to read my blog to read all the details because my iPad keeps freezing. The link is in my signature and if you haven't already subscribed, please do so!

I'm sorry to hear this jess but its a good idea on ur part to get it over with now. It'll make you feel much better as well I'm sure! Good luck hun! Ill take a peak at ur blog . Tons of dust!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I'm beginning to think AF is actually here/coming since my temp was the same as yest and because I bled instead of spotted when I woke up. I am so beyond confused. I dont understand how this could be happening so soon. I want to call my OB but they prob wouldn't even understand charting!!! LOL. ugh! Ill keep u ladies updated. I dont even want to touch my chart yet cuz I know it'll show a new cycle if I put in "light flow" but it was only this time this a.m and now its brown/black again. I'm starting to think maybe DH is right and maybe its a chemical again. Idk... This is very very confusing...

 

[Wishing1010]

So it looks like I might be getting another surgery hopefully in the next 2-3 weeks. The injection that the orthopedic surgeon did confirmed his diagoniss and he said eventually the nerve will have to be removed. He said it could wait until after I get pregnant and give birth but after thinking things though I think now rather than later is a better way to go. You'll have to read my blog to read all the details because my iPad keeps freezing. The link is in my signature and if you haven't already subscribed, please do so!

I completely agree with your reasonings in your blog. It's the wisest choice in the situation. Good luck, I hope you get the date you are hoping for!!!! And I hope it makes you feel soooo much better!

 

[Wishing1010]

I'm beginning to think AF is actually here/coming since my temp was the same as yest and because I bled instead of spotted when I woke up. I am so beyond confused. I dont understand how this could be happening so soon. I want to call my OB but they prob wouldn't even understand charting!!! LOL. ugh! Ill keep u ladies updated. I dont even want to touch my chart yet cuz I know it'll show a new cycle if I put in "light flow" but it was only this time this a.m and now its brown/black again. I'm starting to think maybe DH is right and maybe its a chemical again. Idk... This is very very confusing...

This cycle is very aggravating. I hope you get an answer soon. This is so crazy. Especially bc you haven't changed anything in your TTC routine!!!

 

[cutieq]

Why can't it all be simple ?? Mary, hope you get a clear answer soon.

Jess, I agree. Sounds like you're making the wisest choice based in the situation.

 

[mdscpa]

Oh, Mary, so sorry this cycle is just beyond understanding. Hope you get a proper answer soon. Or maybe your body is already responding well to the meds you're taking and is just balancing your hormones now....

 

[Wishing1010]

OK, seriously... Kohls.com needs to get its s#!% together so I can complete my mid-2WW retail therapy. I am going to break my computer from refreshing their damn page. I have Christmas ornaments and cozy gifts for my mom, siblings, and DH in my cart, &^&%%$$!

Hmm, mood swing? I don't care. I need to shop!

UPDATE: It started working again and I bought a bunch of stuff. Amen.

Omg I love kohls!!!!!! Glad it's working for you now

 

[aidensmommy1]

Oh, Mary, so sorry this cycle is just beyond understanding. Hope you get a proper answer soon. Or maybe your body is already responding well to the meds you're taking and is just balancing your hormones now....

I'm not on any meds that would do so and I started enzymes 8 months ago so I know its not the affect of that or anything else. I wish I were taking something new! Itd give me an answer! Lol. I only take prenatals and my enzymes tho.
I read that Implantation BLEEDING is labeled that because its not uncommon to have more than just spotting. Implantation SPOTTING is when you spot. I just read an article and idk y I never realize that obv IB means bleeding and not just spotting lol! Sometimes it can be light, heavy, or non existent SO I'm praying this is what's happening but dont be surprised if u see I'm on CD4 randomly in a few days. Ugh! There are literally NO reasons why my LP is shorter this cycle anywhere on google. I mean, its not my first cycle charting, I have many of charts to back up my LP length so thats what's so confusing as I know I normally dont have any LP defects or anything but I guess anything's possible and I could've just had an "abnormal cycle". This TWW has not been nice to me yet. Hopefully good news comes from this, one way or another!

 

[aidensmommy1]

You know what Daphne, although I know the meds themselves aren't changing around my hormones now, (they already helped months ago with my cystic breasts and such and now its getting worse again! Ugh!) but MAYBE, just maybe my tube is FINALLY open and maybe this was my first "real" O cycle since charting...IDK! It is possible though that if my tube became unblocked that it could possibly change my cycle around and have to rebalance my hormones so you could be right that something along those lines are happening at this point. I'm so confused. Not only is It too early but it was CD23 yest...that'd make it my shortest cycle ever on top of early bleeding! I'm happy I didn't go for my 7dpo bloods now because I feel they wouldn't have been very accurate at this point. Hopefully next cycle ill be back to normal and get good results back from both my day 3 tests and my 7dpo tests. I really wanted a bfp before thanksgiving but Christmas will do too FX!!

 

[SarahLou372]

Ladies....

After testing twice yesterday at CD13 and getting two flashing smiley faces on my ovulation test, I woke up this morning CD14 and I have my solid smiley face!!! ... Looks like ovulation is around 12-36 hours away now!



But im a bit upset me and OH didn't last night.. however we did bed the night before and plan to tonight too do you ladies think I till stand a chance of catching that egg???

We bed so far and these days... CD 3,4,6,7,8, twice on CD 10, and once CD 11 & 12 but we missed last night at CD 13 when I got my flashing faces. Im defiently tonight though

 

[aidensmommy1]

Ladies....

After testing twice yesterday at CD13 and getting two flashing smiley faces on my ovulation test, I woke up this morning CD14 and I have my solid smiley face!!! ... Looks like ovulation is around 12-36 hours away now!



But im a bit upset me and OH didn't last night.. however we did bed the night before and plan to tonight too do you ladies think I till stand a chance of catching that egg???

We bed so far and these days... CD 3,4,6,7,8, twice on CD 10, and once CD 11 & 12 but we missed last night at CD 13 when I got my flashing faces. Im defiently tonight though

you DEF are in!! BD tonight for sure but even if u cant for some reason, u still have a great chance! . Bding the 1-2 days before ovulation day is always best and is more likely to lead to conception so it sounds like ur right on bding wise! FX for you!

Also, BDing 2 days before O is actually the most common day that will occur in conception. I didn't know that at first so I figured id share that little tidbit with u . GL!

 

[mdscpa]

Ladies....

After testing twice yesterday at CD13 and getting two flashing smiley faces on my ovulation test, I woke up this morning CD14 and I have my solid smiley face!!! ... Looks like ovulation is around 12-36 hours away now!



But im a bit upset me and OH didn't last night.. however we did bed the night before and plan to tonight too do you ladies think I till stand a chance of catching that egg???

We bed so far and these days... CD 3,4,6,7,8, twice on CD 10, and once CD 11 & 12 but we missed last night at CD 13 when I got my flashing faces. Im defiently tonight though

It's OK hun.... When i got my solid, Ovulation and temp dip happened after 36 hours from Solid face. I got solid face at PM but negative on regular OPK we BD midnyt of the solid face. The next morning OPK is still negative... Evening i got the darkest line (night after the solid face) so 24 hours after. BD'd again that midnight.... Then next morning OPK is same line so we BD'd again the following midnight.... The next morning OPK was negative but still we BD'd again that midnight....

You have to start your BD tonight and the next 2-3 days if possible.... Once is OK so your DH can replenish within 24hours....

FX you catch that egg...

 

[mdscpa]

Today and the next 2-3 days are your best chances of conceiving.... So get your DH to work tonight...

 

[SarahLou372]

Thanks to both of you lovely ladies!

Bd for sure tonight, and im cramping so much today.. cm is still like water too! It the first time I have ever felt this way too! Never had this before!

 

[mdscpa]

Thanks to both of you lovely ladies!

Bd for sure tonight, and im cramping so much today.. cm is still like water too! It the first time I have ever felt this way too! Never had this before!

FX for the marathon... Just wanna share our BD schedule that got me this cycle

I put the time i tested and the estimated time we BD'd just so you'll know how far we were from my + OPKs...

https://i1369.photobucket.com/albums/ag240/mdscpa/OURBD_zps9fea557b.jpg

 

[mrsbreen]

SarahLou, i was dissappointed when we hadnt bd on the eve of ovulation but we did the 2 days prior eve of ov, on od and the day after. And now im going to share an announcement!