Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[starryjune]

Quick update, I do believe AF is here early. Apparently I had a cyst they believed was caused from O. This is normal when we O but instead of breaking out, it stuck to my ovary and made it look "swollen" in the u/s, is what the nurse said. It was seen on my ultrasound 6dpo and they said that MIGHT be the reason I'm bleeding early or they said we can get "irregular cycles" randomly where AF will show much earlier or later. So maybe last cycle it really did show up late since it was early this time cuz my temps look really weird and off last cycle as well. Its quite a heavy Flow but still looks odd. Idk I'm still confused but finally decided to just call it AF. If its from my cyst, it may just be bleeding so it may mess with how my next cycle looks too but I'll figure it out. I'm hoping this change is LEADING to something good. FX my body is getting used to a working tube! Anyway, I'm so happy I didn't waist a single frer this cycle!! Now there's more for next cycle My OB is going to do another ultrasound in a month or two BEFORE ovulation, rather than after again, so they can see if the cyst is gone or if it's something we need to take care of. I may need to go on bcp for one cycle like I did before I got pregnant with Aiden to get rid of the cyst but I'm really hoping I can skip the BCP, as I worry they'll completely mess up my hormones or clog my tube worse. Ugh. Always so many worries! Something's gota give soon. I have a feeling in my gut that its going to happen any month now. I may get the tubal surgery sooner rather than later if I become MORE impatient than I already am..lol. We'll see what the future brings. I can tell Dhs heart is hurting from all of this too and he's getting impatient as well..he'll never actually say those words to me but he says how badly he cant wait for us to conceive every single day lately and he's been talking about it with his friends more too. Being the one with the fertility issues out of the two of us, I feel even worse. He tells me I should never feel bad about it, I just can't help it sometimes. Anywhoo, I will talk to u ladies soon! I wanted to let u know that it probably wasn't IB that I experienced. If it was, id be very worried. This is heavier than most AFs ever are! Well, good night ladies!
Good luck to all!

What a great outlook, Mary. Praying for your BFP soon!

 

[starryjune]

Good evening, ladies.

Well, made it through another work day and somehow managed to get a lot of work done, even though it felt like all I did was obsess about all this stuff.

As a follow-up to this morning's bbt freakout... not sure if temps later in the day mean anything, but since I started temping months ago, I have been "very curious" (aka, mildly obsessed) with my body temperature, and often take my temp when I get home from work, too. I tend to have much lower temps in the PM, probably due to adrenal fatigue, tiredness in general, and decompressing from the day. My PM temps run between 96.0 and 97, usually mid 96s. Well, today it is 98.3. I am just going to give myself one and take that as a good sign. Work for that much-desired baby, body!

 

[Jrepp]

So much has happened on here today. Mary, I'm sorry it was AF and not ib. Hopefully your next cycle will offer you some insight. Latreace I hope that it is a bfp on the way, your tests should definitely be getting lihpghter post trigger if nothing happend in there.

AFm: I have my sis scheduled for the 25th after my nerve study. I also got surgery scheduled so I will be going in on the 26th (yes the day before thanksgiving)

 

[Querida87]

It was a no-go for me ladies. I'm now in pain and bleeding like AF for nothing. Two days, a Norco, a para-cervical block, and a total of over two hours of digging and nothing. I go to the hospital for a hysteroscopy tomorrow to get it out once and for all. Hopefully the bleeding eases off soon. I need my uterine lining bc I think I'll be O-ing soon!! IDK if the temp dip was because we used a thinner blanket or because I'll soon O, but I have started seeing small gobs of EWCM and I wanna get enough BD in to catch the eggie, and have enough lining to help it stick...

 

[WunnaBubba2]

So much has happened on here today. Mary, I'm sorry it was AF and not ib. Hopefully your next cycle will offer you some insight. Latreace I hope that it is a bfp on the way, your tests should definitely be getting lihpghter post trigger if nothing happend in there.

AFm: I have my sis scheduled for the 25th after my nerve study. I also got surgery scheduled so I will be going in on the 26th (yes the day before thanksgiving)

Good luck with your tests and surgery! I hope it all goes well!

It was a no-go for me ladies. I'm now in pain and bleeding like AF for nothing. Two days, a Norco, a para-cervical block, and a total of over two hours of digging and nothing. I go to the hospital for a hysteroscopy tomorrow to get it out once and for all. Hopefully the bleeding eases off soon. I need my uterine lining bc I think I'll be O-ing soon!! IDK if the temp dip was because we used a thinner blanket or because I'll soon O, but I have started seeing small gobs of EWCM and I wanna get enough BD in to catch the eggie, and have enough lining to help it stick...

I'm sorry to hear that your having such a difficult time! I hope they can get it out with no more pain caused to you!

Fx!

Also I'm sorry about AF Mary! I had my hopes up for you this cycle! Really looked and sounded different!

 

[cutieq]

Looks like maybe i am about to o? It's way early though! Grr!!!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Danie : Early o = less time to wait for your next BFP

FX for all you ladies still in your TWW! I cannot wait for the next BFP announcement

 

[cutieq]

Got this and a flashing smiley this morning so maybe my real o is coming.

 

[mdscpa]

FX you catch that egg Dani. No need to mention about coz i know you've done your homework already

 

[Querida87]

Thanks! Luckily the bleeding slowed and I'm only spotting today. My temp dipped down to 91.1 this morning. I take my temp at 7 every day before rising and I went to bed at normal time with the house at normal temp and my usual blanket, so I don't think there was an external source for the dip. With the mirena coming out today and me thinking I'll be ovulating this weekend, I hope the bleeding and cramping are controlled enough for so that I can catch the first cycle eggie!!

 

[cutieq]

Thanks! Luckily the bleeding slowed and I'm only spotting today. My temp dipped down to 91.1 this morning. I take my temp at 7 every day before rising and I went to bed at normal time with the house at normal temp and my usual blanket, so I don't think there was an external source for the dip. With the mirena coming out today and me thinking I'll be ovulating this weekend, I hope the bleeding and cramping are controlled enough for so that I can catch the first cycle eggie!!

Fingers crossed! Sounds like things are getting better!

 

[Querida87]

You know it! It looks like you and I will be O-ing about the same time. Yay for TWW buddies!! I'm glad to be able to officially share this real TWW with everyone, esp. you and JandJ

 

[SarahLou372]

Hi again ladies

So maybe today I have ovulated... But last night never happened with OH again.. no bedding! To solid days now with no bedding. Im giving up ladies, for the first time ever I knew I was ovulating and I wanted nothing more than for it to be my turn, my chance.. would ff liked a summer baby too

This is the end of the road for me ladies... Just wait two weeks for the and af to arrive.... Im so upset that for the two days I needed my fella He couldn't perform

 

[cutieq]

So sorry Sarah but if you've BD'd at all, you still have a chance! We're here to wait it out with you.

 

[starryjune]

Good morning,

I feel like poo today - achy, super tired, nauseous yet craving pastries (which I can't eat. I have celiac disease), burping is back and bbs are more tender again. I kinda feel like it's PMS though, but DH says this is different from my usual PMS. I can't get my hopes up.

Was hoping for a solid night of sleep so I was spoitive about my bbt, but I slept from about 10:30 and woke up at 3:15! I immediately took my temp, as I knew I would only get another 2.5 hours, tops. It was 97.7, which the online adjuster put at 98.3 for my usual waking time. BUUUUUUUUUUT when I did wake up after a VERY restless, uncomfortable last couple hours after the 3:15 wakeup, I took my temp at the usual time and it was only 97.9. This temping really drives me nuts, but I think the estimation based on the nearly 5 solid hours is best, so keeping that in my FF and made a note about it.

I think I might test tomorrow morning with a Wondfo 1-step IF my temp is still at or above 98. I just need to know - I think it would show at least a faint line by now if there's any chance. But if it drops under 98, I won't. At 12DPO (tomorrow) my temp always drops below 98, leading up to AF (I expect it on Monday or Tuesday).

Hope the rest of you are well. xx

 

[Querida87]

mirena is out. in a lot of pain but happy.

 

[Jrepp]

Sarah Lou - my husband couldn't perform this month either and it worked out for the best because I am now having surgery and then starting medicated cycles. Plus you were still able tot get it in during some of the most fertile days.

June- I have celiac also, although I do cheat every now and again. I would take a test and see. You should be able to get a bfp by now.

 

[starryjune]

Sarah Lou - my husband couldn't perform this month either and it worked out for the best because I am now having surgery and then starting medicated cycles. Plus you were still able tot get it in during some of the most fertile days.

June- I have celiac also, although I do cheat every now and again. I would take a test and see. You should be able to get a bfp by now.

Yep, I decided that if my temp stays around 98, I will test tomorrow morning. If I implanted, it happened Sunday or Monday, so I should at least see a trace of a line. If not, I accept AF is visiting soon and stop obsessing.

 

[cutieq]

FX June! Your temps look amazing.

 

[starryjune]

FX June! Your temps look amazing.

LOL, thanks... I never thought I would be so proud of a chart! I just dread that despite it, AF will come whack me with her broom next week. Well, I whack back!