Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[cutieq]

Could you put me down for the 21st?

Poas on the 18th but AF isn't due until the 21st so that's my official test date!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jrepp, I too think u should call ur doc. I now know exactly what the balloon is that ur talking about. They used one in my hsg to hold my uterus in place, if its the same thing it is very uncomfortable and if its about to fall out or is falling out u should def let ur doc know. I'm praying for u! I hope u just get better soon!

 

[Wishing1010]

Could you put me down for the 21st?

Poas on the 18th but AF isn't due until the 21st so that's my official test date!

Added! FX!!

 

[Wishing1010]

And, Aidensmommy, I hope this month is a big surprise for you!!!! I think the Vitex is working wonders for you

 

[Jrepp]

I'll call tomorrow since they are closed on the weekend, but they told me if it slips to just push it back in. I know I'm going to be in pain, they took a lot of stuff out and moved a lot of stuff around.

 

[Wishing1010]

I'll call tomorrow since they are closed on the weekend, but they told me if it slips to just push it back in. I know I'm going to be in pain, they took a lot of stuff out and moved a lot of stuff around.

And that does make sense, but it doesn't hurt to tell them how much pain you are in, and that you busted open an incision, etc.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jrepp, please update when u talk to the docs and let us know what they say. I'm sure ur okay but maybe its.something they can fix or give u more tips on how to keep it from happening and stuff like that. Ugh, ill be thinking of u hun.

Wishing, I know I def think the vitex is awesome and I hope for a miracle too! I can't wait to see if my chart goes up high tomorrow or what. FX its goes up and stays up! And I hope urs is still in the same range as today & yest or even as the day before. FX!

 

[iBeach]

Hello girls,
just stopping by to say hello... nothing new here. AF is still in full force;(

 

[Wishing1010]

Hello girls,
just stopping by to say hello... nothing new here. AF is still in full force;(

I'm sorry ibeach. Stupid witch!!

My temp dropped this morning, I fully expect AF to be here tomorrow now.

 

[ab75]

Sorry for your loss missink xx

 

[aidensmommy1]

Awe wishing ur charts gone I was like "no!" when I saw it. Your taking a break? Are u still going to take the clomid and "kind of try" or r u completely just stopping for a bit? Its def understandable to take a break and everything but I just dont want to see u give up.after how well the clomid worked for ur body...if ur dip wasn't just a late implantation dip and ur right about AF coming, I feel like your body just needs/needed to get used to the clomid (like most meds). Either way, I will be here for u and I'm sorry about ur temp drop but u ALWAYS tell me, its not over til the witch shows! Good luck hunny

 

[Wishing1010]

Thanks We decided to focus on having fun and not worry about TTC. No meds, just will see what happens. We are always up for adoption in a couple years too. I was sad but I feel happy that I can go do some things I've been wanting to do.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Oh IC. Well I guess this cycle is the perfect cycle as my last before I start NTNP. Are u still going to be coming on here? (I hope!) I feel sad idk why lol. I'm going to miss u if u aren't on here. Your usually the only one on to talk to at 6a.m lol

 

[aidensmommy1]

And did u test today wishing? Ive seen a tons of charts just this a.m where women got a huge dip at 11-13dpo and were able to get their BFP that day. I'm not trying to get ur hopes up, jw if u tested

 

[Wishing1010]

I put my chart in my sig for you it's too big of a drop in my opinion.

 

[Wishing1010]

And I'm out of tests thank goodness so I'm not going to worry about it any longer

 

[aidensmommy1]

And I'm out of tests thank goodness so I'm not going to worry about it any longer

oh wow ur chart has dropped WAAYY less then I was expecting! Its still up nice and high! Mone hasn't even made it to 98degrees yet and I'm 7dpo! Lol its normally at 98.2-98.5 by today! Maybe that's a good thing since its diff from ALL the other cycles but who knows! I still have hope for you and am praying extra hard u get that bfp! It makes me sad to hear u say ur not going to keep trying the clomid and all that cuz even without falling preggers the first cycle, it has clearly made a good diff in ur cycles! And plus ive just never heard u talk about needing a break before so for u to say that u must be really stressed or down or both and that's what really makes me sad. Uve always been my rock on here because u have already stayed strong for SOOO long and always remained positive and I never understood how u did it all this time! Lol but that alone shows u def deserve a break. I just really really really have the best feeling about clomid for u. Even tho ur taking a break next cycle (if ur bfp doesn't sneak up on u!), will u be starting clomid again in the future?

 

[Wishing1010]

Well, work has been crazy, and the stress of that alone makes TTC a nightmare. I also don't want to get a BFP and then be super stressed all day everyday. Not good for a LO. I'm hoping for a 3 month break, then see how things are then. I go back to doc for check up in June/July so maybe I will ask him for another prescription then. DH and I have had a rough month due to having to force this issue of BD and it's not fair on either one of us to not be able to enjoy BD. It has been a long road but I can't have my marriage be rocky and TTC at the same time. He needs a break and wants us to enjoy life as TTC has been the most important part of our lives for several years now. I promise to still be on here with you ladies, I just won't be temping, doing OPK's, Etc. Only plan to continue my vitamins.

I see this drop as the start of a larger drop.

 

[MarieMo7]

Wishing, I think a 3-month break is perfectly reasonable. You're both still young, 3 months isn't the end of the world. You can enjoy each other and get back to a good, calm place. Best of luck to you and !

 

[aidensmommy1]

Well, work has been crazy, and the stress of that alone makes TTC a nightmare. I also don't want to get a BFP and then be super stressed all day everyday. Not good for a LO. I'm hoping for a 3 month break, then see how things are then. I go back to doc for check up in June/July so maybe I will ask him for another prescription then. DH and I have had a rough month due to having to force this issue of BD and it's not fair on either one of us to not be able to enjoy BD. It has been a long road but I can't have my marriage be rocky and TTC at the same time. He needs a break and wants us to enjoy life as TTC has been the most important part of our lives for several years now. I promise to still be on here with you ladies, I just won't be temping, doing OPK's, Etc. Only plan to continue my vitamins.

I see this drop as the start of a larger drop.

this is a very good reason for taking a break and I think its much needed! (but plz still come talk to me sometimes!) I selfishly want to keep u here but yes, ur marriage def needs to be good before conceiving. I completely get what u mean about the forced bding..honestly for ME, I could do it every night for a baby but dh is a bit dif and NEEDS his break and sometimes he acts like he didn't want to bd and it makes me feel bad and its just not a good feeling for me and I'm sure how u feel is similar. That's why now after getting my tube diagnosis, we will maybe have one "planned" night to bd every cycle but other then that we are just going to when we feel like it because It seems like dh acts like bding is a chore one night every cycle (usually after 4-5 nights bding in a row) and I just don't want nor like that feeling so we will just let it happen when its going to. This cycle was fine in that department only because he was forced to wait 12 days because of my hsg so he was all for it by the time we were aloud to. I'm obv still trying but this past month, well after my few days of depression from my hsg, dh and I are both more relaxed than ever before! (I think bcuz we both are aware it'll prob have to wait a bit for it to happen and aren't so anxious/impatient). It'll def feel good next cycle when we r relaxing even more! I thought you were just taking a break because of feeling let down this cycle so I was tryin to pep u up! Lol but now that I know ur reasons, I wont try to talk you out of it. I think ur making a good choice and I have a great feeling it'll pay off for u! Maybe after 3 months, ull be less stressed and can try the clomid again and get even better results and maybe by then dh will be feeling a little better as well. Ur dh has back problems correct? I think you and dh will enjoy each other like never before after some pressure is off. My dh and I have been having fun since O this cycle. He's had a vaca from work and its been BEAUTIFUL!!! I hope it stays nice out next wk for aidens school vaca...thatll def keep me busy but it won't take my mind off babies! Aiden constantly is saying "when we have a baby im going to name her this" and "when we have a baby, im going to...etc, etc, etc) I said to dh "geez he talks about having a baby more then I do!" lol and the funny thing is is I don't really talk about it in front of him just because I don't know what the future holds but ever since my chemical, that's alls he talks about :-\. I told him he has to talk to god about it everyday and when the times right, god will bless us with a baby to take care of for him. So now he prays Dh and I are open to adoption if we cant conceive our own as well so I KNOW one day ill be able to "give aiden his baby" lol. A's going to make a good daddy someday, he just better wait until he graduates college!! lol