Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

I'm new here but, I've been reading for answers and figured I'd jump in.

I'm somewhere around 16-18 dop. Af was due on 04/11. I've been extremely tired, even though I'll wake up in the middle of the night and then can't get back to sleep. But when I do finally get back to sleep.... I SLEEP and then don't want to get up. I've been nauseous for a week now. I smell everything. My lower back is in constant pain. I have cramps and then they'll go away. No sore breasts though.

I took two different tests yesterday and bfn... I'm lost. But reading the stories here make me hopeful

do u chart ur temps? Like are u positive u ovulated? Because u can get multiple positive opks and ur body can gear up to ovulate but not truly O. If u dont temp, u probably oed late which would make AF late. Hope this helps some! GL!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Oh sorry ladies I just realized wishing already answered ur late dpo and bfn questions. I was a bit behind lol. I always seem to answer w the same reply as her and not know it! Anyways, I def agree with what she says and ull prob see either ur BFP's or the mean witch shortly. Hopefully its the bfp! Not Aloud This Cycle!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Hehe, we think alike, Aidensmommy!!!

 

[_notsurewhy]

I'm new here but, I've been reading for answers and figured I'd jump in.

I'm somewhere around 16-18 dop. Af was due on 04/11. I've been extremely tired, even though I'll wake up in the middle of the night and then can't get back to sleep. But when I do finally get back to sleep.... I SLEEP and then don't want to get up. I've been nauseous for a week now. I smell everything. My lower back is in constant pain. I have cramps and then they'll go away. No sore breasts though.

I took two different tests yesterday and bfn... I'm lost. But reading the stories here make me hopeful

do u chart ur temps? Like are u positive u ovulated? Because u can get multiple positive opks and ur body can gear up to ovulate but not truly O. If u dont temp, u probably oed late which would make AF late. Hope this helps some! GL!

I honestly don't know. I'm just gonna keep reading all these great BFP stories and hope... lol

Thank you!

 

[pitbullmomma]

Jumping on this wagon! AF is late, but still BFN
Had a m/c back in March so maybe my O was just off. Ugh. Still feeling "symptoms". Just trying to keep my head up and keep chanting "it's not over until AF shows"

Good luck ladies!

 

[mckpedro]

Hi ladies, i've been MIA for the last little while! congrats to the BFPs!

Sorry ladies who were got by the FX for next cycle!!
Looks like I'll Probably be seeing you in the next cycles thread as well, I am 13DPO, I had Spotting 7dpo-9dpo only when i wiped and dull cramping (hoping it was implantation bleeding).... I took a FRER today and it was a BFN
So I doubt If i take any other tests it'll be positive, I have super irregular/non exsistant periods so i'm not sure when/if AF will show... Looks like we may be headed to IVF.

GOOD luck to you ladies still in the running! I'm still hopeful you will get your BFP's!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Keep your heads up ladies! As long as the witch stays away, we are good!!!!

 

[AmySan]

Hi ladies!

Well, no BD last night...Mike hurt his knee somehow..I wanted to make fun of him since he is about to turn 40 in October, lol..but..oh well. We gave it a good shot this month overall. We shall see. With confusing ovulation stuff (very neg last night) I really have no idea if I am really 2dpo, since FF recalculated after my second positive test Saturday, when first was Thursday..and negatives in between...so uh, either 2DPO or 4DPO I guess...I am so pissed we didn't get BD in the day of or after first positive test. That makes me feel out. And we only BDed the morning of second positive test..which was a lot more positive...but, even though i had no fertility signs yesterday, would have been good to just in case. Oh well.

I guess it just means Dr appt if not...and maybe she will put me on something that will help a lot. We were doing so good with every other day in the beginning. Why my frickin ovulation took so long, god knows...I would hate for next month to start a little bit later and then miss it..but maybe we should start a little later. OB's website suggests every other day for 3 days - like around CD 12, 14 and 16.

I don't really feel any symptoms, other than some really low pressure feeling, and was peeing a lot yesterday..not as much today....not knowing how many dpo I am is annoying as hell.

Trying to get my stupid pain dr's office to call me back so I can schedule procedure for Thursday, whether I am insurance approved or not...last said she would call by the end of the day...Texted the Director for the 2nd time - he never responded last Thursday night. Might have my mom try to call. If i AM pregnant, would be nice to have this done, cause I can't get it once I know that I am. Grr.


UPDATE
Ah!! So I started writing this a few hours ago and got busy with work - I ended up scheduling the RFA (nerve ablation) for Thursday at 3 - I called my insurance, and they weren't much help, but said I could send in appeals as well. So I am staying late here to write up complaints about my foot and why I need this procedure. My mom is going to help me pay for it out of pocket if they do not approve it. PRAYING they approve it by Thursday!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Sorry about Mike's knee, I hope he heals up quick!

And I hope you can get your surgery and be on the mend as well

I still think you all did well with your BD and have your bases pretty well covered FX for you!!!

 

[Jrepp]

Sorry about mikes knee Amy. Are you guys doing better now?

I just took off the gauze pads and snapped a belly pic. It hurts so bad. And if you haven't done so, check out my blog. Link in signature.

 

[Megamegan]

Jrepp, yikes!! That looks painful

 

[AmySan]

Thanks ladies!! Aww Jess that looks so owwie!! Going to try to get on later tonight...just leaving work now..faxed 2 different appeals to insurance - 1 with a picture of me making a ad face with my air cast on...and i faxed each of them 5 times lol. And mailing it. Hopefully they approve it by Thursday. Long shot...but...maybe my faxes will get their attention.

love you girls!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Oh wow, Jrepp!!! That does look painful! I only had 2 incisions in my lap. And they were bad enough. Having those plus all of the stuff you had removed, you are probably in terrible pain. FX you feel better soon!!!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Sorry about mikes knee Amy. Are you guys doing better now?

I just took off the gauze pads and snapped a belly pic. It hurts so bad. And if you haven't done so, check out my blog. Link in signature.

that is exactlyyy where have two lil scars from my big surgery. They tried going in by lap at first and then realized they had to cut me open all the way across my lower belly so it kinda looks like a smiley face w two eyes and a mouth lol.
I really do hope u feel better soon. I cant wait until ur physical pain is gone. Its bad enough we already have to deal w emotional stuff!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Well my temp finally went up some more at 9dpo...kinda weird unless my temps are about to turn rocky and go up and down everyday. FX it stays up!!

 

[Jrepp]

That looks pretty exciting Mary.

 

[aidensmommy1]

If my temp remains up for another couple days, that'd make it possibly triphasic right?

 

[MolGold]

My temps are all over the place no signs of Oing, and DH leaves on Fri for a tour!! I really don twant to miss it but April doesn;t look like my month

 

[aidensmommy1]

My temps are all over the place no signs of Oing, and DH leaves on Fri for a tour!! I really don twant to miss it but April doesn;t look like my month

it looks like u may be really close to O with the low temps. I hope so! Will dh leave u with some swimmers that u can store @ home for a day or two just so u can do an at home insemination on sat or Sunday or both to assure more will be up there. U would just need to look up how its stored and get a baby medicine syringe. Idk if ur even up for that but wanted to throw that idea out there ive done it a few times on what turned out to be 1dpo and 2dpo just for safe measures but yeah the sperm actually stayed up there alot better than usual too. Either way FX u O by sat or Sunday at the latest because if u bd Fri a.m, the sperm would most likely still be alive for 2-5 days inside of you (more so 2-3 days tho). FX for u!!

 

[Wishing1010]

Ooo I like that temp rise, Aidensmommy!!!